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single parent to be

I am currently 30 weeks pregnant and broke up with the dad at the beginning because he wouldnt get a job and couldnt provide, basically USELESS! I work(ed) 30 hours a week at work and have just started my maternity leave, I am receiving SMP from my employer. I still live at home and I dont claim anything, I am 20 years old and wondering if there is anything I can claim to help me out. I havent received anything off the dad and I wont be in future. Ive done abit of research and it seems you only get help if you dont work, surely this cant be true... im struggling... HELP!!! :confused:

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  • DaisyFlower
    DaisyFlower Posts: 2,677 Forumite
    If you are living at home, SMP should be plenty for the basics. Did you not think of the finances before deciding to become a parent?

    Once the baby is born, you'll get family allowance and CTC, possibly WTC dependent upon salary.
  • mrsspendalot
    mrsspendalot Posts: 3,238 Forumite
    Why won't you be getting anything off the baby's dad? He is legally obliged to pay maintenance for his child!
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  • clairec79
    clairec79 Posts: 2,512 Forumite
    Everything (CTC etc) kicks in when the baby is born, not before. At that point you may be entitled to a maternity grant (if you get more than the basic rate of child tax credit - I would say if you only work 30 hours a week you'll likely get it)

    At that point you should also receive maintence off the father, if he's on benefits it may only be £5 a week but it's his child and not helping shouldn't be an option
  • krisskross
    krisskross Posts: 7,677 Forumite
    Sounds as if you will be entitled to the £500 grant, is it the Sure Start? Nothing much else will kick in until the child is born.
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