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**Daily Chat Thread**10th Oct 08

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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Buffy,
    I have faith it will be ok x
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    thanks Bunxxxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Buffy :grouphug: it sounds as though you are doing everything you possibly can hun xxx
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »
    its all grim to be honest, one person who knows, the girl won't talk to, I know but but only as a general staff member! and when she came to me and told me all this I don't know how to handle it, even hugging her isn't allowed but !!!! what else do you do!!!!!

    Are open hugs banned as well these days? Oh well. Hold her hands. That'll give comfort. Besides, you're a woman - provided there are no witnesses you'll get away with more than a man would in a similar situation. Just beware of becoming a surrogate mother.
    Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »
    I told her everything she was feeling was normal and that it was hard for people who hadn't had such a huge loss to fully understand how much it changes everything about you.

    I hope to God I helped.

    Of course you helped.
    Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »
    she is so young. and so clever and pretty - not that bad things should only happen to thick ugly people!!! but the light has gone off in her eyes.

    It'll be back - it'll just take time.
    Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »
    I just wish things wouldn't happen like this on a Friday.

    her Dad knows everything so he must be keeping an eye on her right?

    Keeping her going probably is what is keeping him going.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    But I used it in the way it was intended, thank you very much :p:p

    Just not in the way intended by the manufacturer...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    I have mended the sky and gone to bed in a huff!
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,533 Forumite
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    sammy115 wrote: »
    I have mended the sky and gone to bed in a huff!

    eh? who's drunk? me or you?:D

    Z, you calling me a flirt?
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    sammy115 wrote: »
    I have mended the sky and gone to bed in a huff!

    Is a huff a new kind of sleeping bag?
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    Just not in the way intended by the manufacturer...
    Hehehehehe ;);) :cool:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    skint_spice wrote: »
    eh? who's drunk? me or you?:D

    Z, you calling me a flirt?

    I'm sure you could show her the Mistress at work...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
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