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facebook question

Hello
I recently have joined facebook.
And was amazed that several people were shown to me to add as a friend.
Some were people I know but others I don't know.
How does this happen?
Thanks

Comments

  • Sput2001
    Sput2001 Posts: 1,206 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    They're probably friends of people that you've already added. Some you won't know and some you will...
  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    I've only recently joined too and have the same thing.
    I agree - they seem to be 'friends of friends' or people who are in my 'network' where I live or where I went to school :confused:
  • square_bear
    square_bear Posts: 3,865 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    If people have surfed the site and looked at my profile be the ones added to be my 'friend'?
  • Lakeuk
    Lakeuk Posts: 1,084 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    Alot will be friends of friends, some will try to add you incase they know you, others will try to adding thinking if they are seen to have lots of friends then they're get more.

    I personally only allow in people I 100% know
  • square_bear
    square_bear Posts: 3,865 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    But this happened before I added anyone to be my friend, like within the first couple of days of joining.
  • annie_d
    annie_d Posts: 933 Forumite
    At one point i had over 700 friends! I thought to myself, "This is ridiculous!!" I really only have one and she isn't even on Facebook. So i had a culling. Now i have family and a few aquaintances. Cheaper than texting.
  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Don't know too much about it myself as I am new there too, but have you checked your privacy settings in your profile? :confused:
  • aliEnRIK
    aliEnRIK Posts: 17,741 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    But this happened before I added anyone to be my friend, like within the first couple of days of joining.

    People can BROWSE for other people using various methods, people can even be searched for via the email they log in with!
    Invariably you will get people you know, or know you.
    OR
    Someone who takes a 'fancy' to you ;)

    :p

    You can goto ACCOUNT SETTINGS and set it however you like. So that your profile is 'invisible' or only visible to people in your friends list etc.

    Just beware of 'dodgy' looking messages. Theres been a spate of 'spyware' on facebook recently. Just keep your head on your shoulders.
    :idea:
  • samhale
    samhale Posts: 413 Forumite
    You'll get people adding you, like you can add them.
    You don't want them- then just decline.
  • Spikey_2
    Spikey_2 Posts: 14,119 Forumite
    Use your judgement, and above all, be honest with yourself. :)
    I walk with the world & the world walks with me!
    I don't make bad choices!!! Other people just fail to see my GENIUS !!!! :D
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