The Compers Inn - Part 6

ginjim

i'm probably more confrontational
i don't let anyone get involved or tell me how to run my life or my families

kimmywal

ginjim wrote: »

i'm probably more confrontational
i don't let anyone get involved or tell me how to run my life or my families

I do agree with you, at times we do need to make a stand, but some people are just not worth rowing with. If it came to it I would tell her how it is and thats the end of it.

Nicky63

I just plan to get revenge, I will be a MIL one day Mwahhh haa haaa haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! :rotfl:

hehe, I have always got on brilliantly with the kids long time partners actually, although............. they are both single at the mo............Hmmmmmm

toniq

I think i have the im not worthy of your son syndrome.........paul had a really good career in holland and was on about 75k + then he met me , we both fell madly deeply for each other, he moved back permenantly to blighty and took the first secure job he could find, which pays just over 45k, his mum went skits as she thought he was mad, me being a single mum didnt help, it made it worse when paul wanted me to and i agreed to give up work ( college special needs tutoring) after all our baby losses , she seems to want to live her life through paul, what added to the stress was pauls wife had left him a year before and took their baby with her, when she found out he was with me she wanted him back, obviously he stayed with me and she has never let him see his boy because of that and his mum blames me for this, though she sees her grandson constantly, if paul had left and gone back to her, i would have put it down to experience but like he said he followed his heart and stayed xxxx wow.lol........its never easy is it! xxxx

toniq

ginjim wrote: »

i'm probably more confrontational
i don't let anyone get involved or tell me how to run my life or my families

how many families do u have ginjim? xxxxx

melvis

Toniq ... if you've emailed your order, I haven't received it. Just wanted to check it hasn't gone astray

toniq

im actually doing it right now! i dont have ur email, i do but got to find, i aint got lenses in either xxxx

NoNameWoman

Hey Toni, sorry to chime in uninvited .. Just want to say keep your chin up and ignore her, she may be only too possessive, or too ignorant to know any better! Sometimes it is just a waste of breath trying to confront stubborn people, you don't have to justify yourself to anyone anyway, and if she has any issues absorbing how her son loves you, then it is her problem and she can take her time trying to make sense of it, and so can his ex!

You sound like a level-headed person, so remember that you have everything to be proud of. Like you, my partner and I are different: I am a foreigner and he is English. I think this makes your relationship absolutely unique and more fun xx

toniq

oooo i just found your letter in it!
thanks nonamewoman, u seem to know where im coming from xxxx

wokkies

toniq wrote: »

I think i have the im not worthy of your son syndrome.........paul had a really good career in holland and was on about 75k + then he met me , we both fell madly deeply for each other, he moved back permenantly to blighty and took the first secure job he could find, which pays just over 45k, his mum went skits as she thought he was mad, me being a single mum didnt help, it made it worse when paul wanted me to and i agreed to give up work ( college special needs tutoring) after all our baby losses , she seems to want to live her life through paul, what added to the stress was pauls wife had left him a year before and took their baby with her, when she found out he was with me she wanted him back, obviously he stayed with me and she has never let him see his boy because of that and his mum blames me for this, though she sees her grandson constantly, if paul had left and gone back to her, i would have put it down to experience but like he said he followed his heart and stayed xxxx wow.lol........its never easy is it! xxxx

toni, dont worry, I am convinced mil's are there to make our life hell, lol, trying to all the comps and am on page 164, there is a lot I have done though, and little woks hasnt eaten all day, dh even fetched him a bar of cadburys dairy milk and he said 'can you save it for me dad':eek: aww its so sad I hate it when they are little and poorly, still got to change our bed, he has only eaten a biscuit all day, but now he has said he wants some tea, will see if he eats it:o aww its awful when they are little and cant tell you properly what they want