*Daily Chat Thread**3rd Sept 08**

immoral_angeluk

saffronflowers wrote: »

IA - enjoy the course - tis interesting but be careful one thing that I found that was having been on here and CAG, that you actually can know more than the tutors. Especially regarding new changes to laws etc. I always worried that I would come over as a know it all. It is especially hard when it comes to debt, I found that very very hard as we are quite tough on here and sometimes they can be a bit wishy washy. It is good fun and it is great when you do your first initial interview. (Mine still makes me laugh pity I cant tell anyone!!!)

SFx

LOL really? Saying that I find I'm often helping the experienced advisors... but I'm presuming that's just because my training is fresh in my memory... I always feel like I'm treading on peopkle's toes! Can't wait for the course though so I can start doing interviews when I get back to the bureau!!!

Lucifa73

Oooo I think I can feel the Bean moving!

Like butterfly kisses on the inside!:smileyhea

sammy115

jinky67 wrote: »

for anybody that may be wondering about my FB status....
OH who i am no longer allowed to mention is being a !!!!!! about something a few of you know about...we had a huge big arguement yesterday...worse than we have ever had.
i told him everybody would be so much happier if he left and he called me the most selfish,ignorant,inconsiderate person he has ever met and i should just come and live with you all.
Cos apparently I dont live in the real world anymore.
He brought up loads of things from years ago that either i have done or things i should be grateful he has done.
He thinks he can get away with telling me who i can and cant talk to..and also how i should speak to people.
I seriously think if this is not resolved soon it will be over.
sorry for ranting but i just wanted to let you all know.
I am fine though
xxx

dodgy hug jinky... I am trying to think what I know about your OH - couldn't think of anything.....

you can come and live with me ! I need the help!

Lucifa73

Jinky we'll need a child minder soon. it'll be tight but you're welcome to 'live in', especially with your flylady skills.

Don't think I know what it is that's causing the problem but if he can't let go of the past he's going to spoil everything for himself. Doesn't he know relationships are about team work, not point scoring!

immoral_angeluk

jinky67 wrote: »

for anybody that may be wondering about my FB status....
OH who i am no longer allowed to mention is being a !!!!!! about something a few of you know about...we had a huge big arguement yesterday...worse than we have ever had.
i told him everybody would be so much happier if he left and he called me the most selfish,ignorant,inconsiderate person he has ever met and i should just come and live with you all.
Cos apparently I dont live in the real world anymore.
He brought up loads of things from years ago that either i have done or things i should be grateful he has done.
He thinks he can get away with telling me who i can and cant talk to..and also how i should speak to people.
I seriously think if this is not resolved soon it will be over.
sorry for ranting but i just wanted to let you all know.
I am fine though
xxx

Oh hun x..... you can't let him talk to you like that. He's being controlling and selfish.... :grouphug:

saffronflowers

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Oooo I think I can feel the Bean moving!

Like butterfly kisses on the inside!:smileyhea

The flower girls asked if they could come up with three names for a girl and for a boy and would we use one - I said probably as a middle name but not a first name!!

First suggestion - Galaxy - this poor child is going to have such a tough time:rotfl:

SFx

immoral_angeluk

jinky67 wrote: »

no thats me apparently:rolleyes:

:rolleyes: He just doesn't get it does he?

jinky67

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Oooo I think I can feel the Bean moving!

Like butterfly kisses on the inside!:smileyhea

Is that not the best feeling in the world?:T :T :T :T :T

immoral_angeluk

Awwww luc! I love that feeling...

immoral_angeluk

jinky67 wrote: »

nope he sure doesnt:cool:

all of this stems from the way i chose to deal with my depression..he didnt like it:rolleyes:

You have to deal with it any way you can. If he doesn't like it then unfortunately there's not a lot he can do. Depression is a horrible illness and whatever way you can get through it is fine. You have to get through it SOMEHOW.
I know I went through it as well!