The 'I want it NOW!!' debt/savings thread

jenjade

yeah i had an e mail about revenge rating that was a review i put useful and it had got very usefuls? i gave it useful because there were no details of where to get the product how much whether it was any good!!

lilmissmup

Just nipping in to say Hi as heading off out shortly.

God Hayley thats rubbish about Dooyoo.

I haven't had any miles validated yet, no time to do any reviews today so i will not get a voucher this week.

Well done Nikki though

Jen i expect your tv will jump up too!

jenjade

oh the tv has 38 mins left with 38 watcher!! great stuff

yukkibear

Good stuff Jen can't wait to see how much it goes for.
Thanks MM I'll take a look later

thepinklady

I'm really not happy at all, not just about dooyoo, i really couldn't give a s**t as i have other things on my plate. My friend said it was hers, so i used it, not really thinking. Last night i text her saying what somebody had put and she said it was her own review, so changed it a little, and left it. I had put so much effort into my reviews, well some of them, and because of that stupid moo, who tbh should have sent me a polite message, but instead complained, i get chucked off. There are so many people on there that write 20+ reviews a day, all 150 words max, just for the points, where i was interested in reading other peoples reviews and enjoyed being on dooyoo.

I'm really starting to think people i'm only in this world for people to just s**t on me, and make me feel like crap.

Had a big row with the OH earlier, was about his mate who i think is a complete k**b, but no my OH things the sun shines out his back side. Got that heated i told my OH to get stuffed, so i guess we won't be speaking for a couple of days now, as we are both very stubborn people.

Its just really been a horrible month so far. Tried sorting out my £60 tax rebate thingy i didn't get, which isn't a real shocker as nothing good ever happens to me, i'm just bad luck thru and thats the end of it.

I don't really share a lot of my personal life on here, mainly chat about my debt, and thats it, but i had a miscarriage 3 months ago, again i kept that quiet because thats the type of person i am, if your not my best mate, you don't get told, thats how i am. Now i jsut feel everything is breaking down, and i'm now starting to get really down and upset about that. At the time i was fine, i even thought maybe it happened because it wasn't the right time, we hadn't saved for a house in Kent properly, trying to sell my OH's flat is a nightmare, nothing was going right. So for this to happen, maybe it was a blessing in disguise i thought. Didn't grieve properly, maybe thats what is happening now, everything has build up, and now i'm at breaking point.

Also, my driving tests have got to me, got another one in 2 weeks, and so scared. Nothing is going right.

Today my sister called me and i'm going to stay with her and my princess niece for a few days, leaving Thursday, if i can get the time off, knowing my luck, NO!!!

On a brighter note, my best mate in America called as well earlier asking me to be maid of honour at her wedding next year in New York. Of course i said yes!!! But need to think about money now!!!

Off to go kill myself, feel that bad!!!!!

**Amy**

Oh hayley hun, i am so so sorry.

If you want to chat you can PM me or call me or facebook me. Im a good listener.

I really dont know what to say except my sister always says things are sent to try us, and that things that we can deal with and that will make us stronger are sent.

I know it doesnt seem like much now, but honestly its the truth.

xxxx

CompletelyLost

Evening all,

I've just got back from college. I've found that I seem to struggle with the simple things, yet I am fine with more complicated work... hmmm! I am odd, I know. I had to walk home in the pouring rain though - my mam told me to text her for a lift back but I had no credit :S

Good luck with your TV Jen, I hope it shoots up in price at the end!

TPL: Sounds like you're having a crappy time of it, I don't think a true friend would behave like that That's why sometimes I think I am better off than others even though I am antisocial - I have one friend who I see every few months. I used to get sh*t on by people a lot too, until I backed off from them all (ETA: just realised my advice is probably not the best thing to do as it makes the world a very lonely place!). TBH I'm happier now than I ever was. That is fab about being maid of honour though xxx

thepinklady

Thanks Amy. I agree, things are probably to sent to try us, but i get my fair share of crap, and its starting to take its toll now. I'm now just waiting for the next bad thing to happen to me. I can't remember the last time something good happened to me. My OH has already thought i was bad luck, i'm starting to believe him.

Well done on the credit card btw Amy, that total looks FAB hun!!! You deserve it.

xxx

jenjade

Oh Hayley here is a dodgy hug for you :grouphug: and a nice cuppa :coffee:

i don't know what to say about everything other thatn fingers crossed you ge the time off to go and have a few days resting sound like you need a break!! take care hun

yukkibear

Aww Hayley sorry you're feeling so down. I'm not good at knowing the answers but like Amy said I'm a good listener so will gladly be a sounding board if it helps.