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spaceship
spaceship Posts: 3 Newbie
in Marriage, relationships & families
I have a problem...

I am currently at university and my OH is working full time. Thing is, he is in a lot of debt.
His overdraft is up to £9000 and he has credit cards (which I'm not supposed to know about).
Thing is everytime I go to question him about it and ask how and why he gets all angry and has a go at me for getting on at him. I am just wondering that when we go to move in together after my course, we won't be able to afford anywhere.
Can anyone tell me how I can approach this?
I am very confused...
Thanks.

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  • Smashing
    Smashing Posts: 1,799 Forumite
    You might want to ask for advice on the debt-free wannabe board - there are a lot of people there with experience of confronting partners about debt and have advised people on similar issues previously. :)
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