need advice

dipsy

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Supergirl_3

Hi dipsy, that sounds quite vague to me. Can you elaborate some more?

Are you saying you will paying to support a new partner and their 4 kids while you go out to work? And their 4 kids will be only staying for one week?

Are you being silly?
Your feelings on this aren't silly and it sounds like you should go with your feelings - something isn't sitting right with you, trust your instincts.

BETTER

hi Dipsy my advise is support him as long as you feel best and as long as you are happy ...only you know can possibly know the effect it is having on you ...if you are finding the finacial strain too much then let him know as i'm sure he would not wat to jeopodise what you have already got establised....emotionally if you cannot cope then explain why ...but also remember that his children are important to him and you need to accept them too there will be a lot of adjusting for you BOTH i'm sure it is as tough for him as it is for you ...so compromise ....hellmans or heinz lol