The Bankrupt Inn (Part Two)

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jenni75 wrote: »

I come to the pub tonight for a rant.:mad: I have had the most horrible experience this afternoon by a real moron. If anyone here has read my diary from way back, there is a bit about someone who I considered a really good friend pre br and pre her telling me I was no longer in her league. Well contact was cut for clear reasons despite her only being six houses away I have had no reason to speak to her. However during the last year her husband always waved hello to which I and my oh would wave back. So to today, I was walking past their house on route to shops with all my kids and her husband says "Hello Jen", I say "hello", he says "your hair looks different", I say "yes its growing back". And then the ignorant git shouts at me that he thought I had changed my hair so I could be incognito, "eh?" i said (baffled), then he goes on to tell me (in front of my kids) that he thought I had changed my hair to hide from people, eh? i said, he then went on to tell me I should be ashamed to be seen after going bankrupt. He was still going on as I quickly walked off with the kids. OMG, I got home and wept like a baby. I really don't know whether its anger that he did that to me in the street with my kids there or whether its anger that he thought he could say it at all. Or whether its just dawned on me that people might really think that of me and my husband. I am also really cross with myself for not replying in any sense. I came on the forum this afternoon but was too upset to post. Four days till AD and I get abuse like that.:o

Funny, no one has ever said a word to me maybe its because im six foot tall and built like a brick Sh$t house (ok the last bit is a bit of a fib, but i used to be:o )

for a bloke to do that to a las though, he must be very insecure, maybe his wife batters him :rotfl:

jenni75

He is at least 6.2, ex Royal Marine. No saint by anymeans, he was in a 2week court case about 5 years ago for vat fraud, so how he can judge me is beyond belief. I am 5foot, and in normal circumstances I would give it the gums to anyone who started on me, but this was so out the blue it literally took the wind out my sails. I think I will take my dogs out with me when I go out in future.

Thanks to you all for understanding xxxx

Merry_Gentry

What a complete and utter f*ckwit - so not worth your tears honey :grouphug:

So_Sad_Angel

Hi jenni....thats awful. They are just ignorant & remember that you cannot be responsible for ther peoples views....what ever they may be. You did the right thing by not responding to that abuse!

It was clearly uncalled for & I bet they felt ashamed afterwards by what they said...Ignore them in future & don`t let them get the opportunity to repeat their performance.

Often when people act like that it is hiding other problems in their lives that they take out on others. Its all about them & not you.

Sticks & stones & all that.

Hope that red is tasting good!!!:D

skylight

Tit.

(Him, not you!)

jenni75

Thanks merry, that sums them up!
So sad angel, I will walk on by in future, sod trying to be civil.

And the wine tastes like vinegar! but hey it is cheap so glug glug, over the lips over the gums look out liver here it comes.....

fiveyearplan

jenni - sorry you have such an abusive neighbour. He probably has a small wotsit and had to abuse you to feel manly.

jenni75

I am laughing so much at that I could well be sick. I feel much better now, I am just grateful I am not off the cigarettes til discharge day!! dont think the nicotine patches would have got me through today!

Small wotsit.... still creased up laughing,

skylight

Small wotsit. Very true.

I have noticed that very small men have very small wotsits and very tall (like him) men have small wotsits too. Actually middle sized men have smallish wotsits as well I have noticed. Insecure men (regardless of build) definitely have small wotsits. And its not true what they say about the wotsit size of men with skin tones that are not a pinkish colour. Cos they are small too.

Wotsits are a bit of a mouthful though. Especially if you try and stuff them all in at once. And they leave a mess on your fingers.

skylight

CRISPS.....

I was talking about CRISPS....