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Cheapest way of changing a will after seperating
Hi Does anyone know the cheapest way of changing a will after seperating but not divorcing. I just want to make sure my nearly 17 yr old and 21 yr old share it anything I have left I do have a will, the standard one to my husband if alive, followed by children etc etc
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Dont know what to do With oh!
hi to all im in a dilemma guys and i just need to moan (again) me and oh are having serious probs and i dont know what to do any more. We been together for 12 years married for the last 3 and have 3 kids. i dont know how it all started relly but hubby now saying that he needs to be shown affection all the time and he feels…
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the cost of divorce
hi:o i have been seperated from my husband now for about 16 months, very amicable. i have morgaged the house in my sole name and maintainence has been agreed verbally (have three children together.) now i feel i would like to take the next step and divorce. can i get a bog standard divorce cheaply.i know it would be easier…
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Funding teenagers - help please??
Hi. I am a newbie to this site and this is my first post. I am looking for advice on the best way to fund teenagers expences. What do others do? Do you pay a monthly allowance out of which they have to buy everything (including clothes) and if so how much is appropriate. I have a 13 year old and need to come to grips with…
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Help to trace Dad.
I wondered if anyone could help my DH. He wants to trace his biological father. The only person who has any information about him is DH's mother who has not been that forth coming. All we have is his fathers full name and where he originated from. We also know that he was a PTI in the Navy and was likley to have been based…
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Reflux - Help!
My 3 week old daughter was yesterday diagnosed with having reflux, she has been put on several different medications aswell as a specialist milk to help it. Overnight she has been like a different child :) However the one problem i do have is she cant get anything out of her bottles now :eek: One of the medications they…
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Wrongly Accused, Urgent Advice Needed
Apologies if this is in the wrong place, i wasnt sure where to put it. I desperatly need some advice and i dont know where to turn to. My 6 year old son has ADHD and for the past 4 weeks has been in respite care with social services. I have had an absolute nightmare with them since day one from them not returning phone…
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working children paying keep - how much?
Our son (18yo) has just started working and we want advise on how much to to take off him for board & keep. Do you take a percentage if so of what, Gross or take home or a fixed amount He is on a monthly salary of just over £10,000 pa. We want him to understand about the real world without us appearing to be a pair of push…
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Great "How To Tell Family We Need To MoneySave" Hunt
What's the problem? You want, or need, to tell your spouse, parent or children that there is a need to save cash and cut back, but you're finding it impossible, they don't want to listen. So how do you convince them it's time to learn how to be a MoneySaver? What to do? I'd like to tap MoneySavers' wealth of experience to…
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Just wondering...
Just wondering about my parents, who are in thier 60`s, married and on a benfits pension (cant remember the proper name for that). Well Im worried for my Mum really, her husband keeps getting bank loan after bank loan for thousands. She says if he dies the debt will all pass into her, is that true? If it is, what can she…
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Pregnant???!!
Hi everyone I hope someone can help. I've never had a baby and never had much interest in getting pregnant before now, so know very little about what to expect. I'm now 7 days late - sort of. I say sort of because there's been a tiny amount of bleeding for a few days, but it's so light and not like anything I've…
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Ex's name from tenancy
My brother has recently divorced his wife and has custody of their 4 children. Her name is still on the council tenancy agreement for their house even though she has not lived there in over 1 year. How can he get the tenancy in soley his name without having to involve her ? (she will not agree to this) He wishes to move to…
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Moving out, living on my own
I think this is the best forum for this post, rather than the more business orientated "house buying and selling" forum. Anyway, I'm 33 and I've just moved out of my parent's place. I went away to university for 4 years and then lived with the parents for a while, then I moved in with a girlfriend on and off for a few…
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Cost v's number of children
My older sister has just really shocked me. She has told me she is booked in to have her tubes tied. The thing is she only has one child, a 7 year old daughter. I always thought she was an only child because my sister and brother in law were having problems conceiving. I asked her the reasons why she is taking this drastic…
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Changing name after divorce
I got divorced 2 years ago and didn't bother at the time to go back to my maiden name-partly because of not wanting to have a different surname to the kids and partly as I hoped we'd eventually get back together.Well we haven't(we tried twice but it didn't work out) and now I'm with someone else(although I may not be much…
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Another break up thread - what am I owed?
My girlfriend and I broke up at the start of July, having bought a flat and moved in last november. Couldnt get a joint mortgage because of difficulties with my job (self employed and all that), so its all in her name and I;m not on the mortgage. We are having serious trouble agreeing on what is paid back to me, as I paid…
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In an absolute conumdrum! Advice please!
Hi everyone, I've posted in threads before where people have asked for advice and seen the repsonse to be great, so hoping you'll do the same for me.... It's regarding my sons Dad. We split up when I was pregnant and have had a volatile relationship for the last 3 years (in relation to him seeing his son etc etc mainly due…
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Son in America---advice please?
Hi My 20 year old son is in his 7th week in California coaching soccer. Each week they move to a different town and he always lets me know when they have arrived. He told me they are going up to Trinity County this week and the drive from Santa Maria in Santa Barbara(where they were last week) was to be about 8 hours. He…
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Monthly food shopping over £350!!
Help! Right, bite the bullet time, I really want to try and save cash on our monthly shop (which is circa £350!) but have tried for months now to no avail. I've read lots of threads on here which are useful, and the meal planner idea was quite good, but none have seemed to help so far sadly! Just a normal family of three…
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DIY Divorce - Help filling out forms please.
Hi I am just a little unsure about filling in the "Prayer" section of the D8 Petition form. In particular question (3). This question is about Acillary relief. If states the following: The petitioner may be granted the following ancillary relief: (a) an order for maintenance pending suit a periodical payments order a…
