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What did you do when you wife gave up work?
gil13
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Hi I was having this same conversation yesterday with a friend, whilst it is always a struggle to go from two wages to one wage, there are obviously things you can to minimise the 'pain'. First step is to look closely at the budget and cashflow, then perhaps to put savings into non-tax payers name (assuming of course that the new tax year they don't have earnings above the Personal allowance etc..). On this point was wondering what others have done, has anyone managed to get one of those 8% rates and got the savings into that? I guess one of the things is to look to take an income from the savings each month and the higher the rate the better the income obviously. What about Quidco, yes you often have to wait a few months for the money but a couple of insurance renewals and some other bits and bobs and you might be able to earn £500per year on that, another 40 quid a month.
So was just wondering what other MSE's are doing in this situation. I suppose another more relevant thing what with mortgages getting tighter is to ensure that you are fixed maybe a bit longer term, whilst you still have the 2 incomes. trying to apply for a loan on the one income later down the line might prove difficult..something to consider perhaps in terms of planning ahead.
And to the Stay at home mums, have you managed to find little ways of making the pennies go further, or found an income stream (ebay, cashbacks, go-down-a-brand, etc). Or perhaps got a little evening job to top up the main wage (and how did you find this after looking after the little un's all day..exhausting I guess..or you got used to it?)
Will be interesting to hear others tips/commments/ideas..
So was just wondering what other MSE's are doing in this situation. I suppose another more relevant thing what with mortgages getting tighter is to ensure that you are fixed maybe a bit longer term, whilst you still have the 2 incomes. trying to apply for a loan on the one income later down the line might prove difficult..something to consider perhaps in terms of planning ahead.
And to the Stay at home mums, have you managed to find little ways of making the pennies go further, or found an income stream (ebay, cashbacks, go-down-a-brand, etc). Or perhaps got a little evening job to top up the main wage (and how did you find this after looking after the little un's all day..exhausting I guess..or you got used to it?)
Will be interesting to hear others tips/commments/ideas..
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It may make sense to say what your household income is because many wives do not work because they dont have to. In reality it isnt whether they work or not but what the combined/single income is to the house that matters.I am an Independent Financial Adviser (IFA). The comments I make are just my opinion and are for discussion purposes only. They are not financial advice and you should not treat them as such. If you feel an area discussed may be relevant to you, then please seek advice from an Independent Financial Adviser local to you.0
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What Dunstonh says is very pertinent. I'm a non-earning stay at home Mum, but don't need to seek alternative employment. I do have some of our savings in my sole name though, for tax purposes.
If you have children, then it makes a massive difference as to how old they are as to how your life fits around them (and how much they cost!).
I'd think there were better boards than this one to discuss these issues?Debbie0 -
It may make sense to say what your household income is because many wives do not work because they dont have to.
I don't earn, but I do work, contrary to what my husband may think, if he's reading this. I don't spend all my time on MSE forums, honest. Right, I'm off to watch daytime tv now...
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Hi, I was just interested in hearing from different points on view, those they needed to work, those they didn't (but would have to watch the pennies etc.) But if you think it would be better this to be bumped to another board then please feel free. Thanks0
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I don't earn, but I do work, contrary to what my husband may think, if he's reading this. I don't spend all my time on MSE forums, honest. Right, I'm off to watch daytime tv now...

Loose Women by any chance? I can hear that on in the background whilst my "non working" wife watches it.... whilst she is "not" working by preparing dinner for tonight
Now I better press submit and change the page in case she comes in and sees me saying she doesnt work !!!I am an Independent Financial Adviser (IFA). The comments I make are just my opinion and are for discussion purposes only. They are not financial advice and you should not treat them as such. If you feel an area discussed may be relevant to you, then please seek advice from an Independent Financial Adviser local to you.0 -
Hi, I was just interested in hearing from different points on view, those they needed to work, those they didn't (but would have to watch the pennies etc.) But if you think it would be better this to be bumped to another board then please feel free. Thanks
This forum is great for specific savings aspects, but I thought you might get a better response to on somewhere like this forum for the day to day moneysaving aspects:
p.s. I'm not a moderator!Debbie0 -
Hi,
when we got married we lived on my husbands wages.
We then tried very very hard to save mine, managing to get a little nest egg which was our cushion when after 2 1/2 yrs we had our DS, followed by DD1 2 yrs later.
We had a holiday every year, abroad most of the time, then when DD2 arrived 4 yrs later we switched to mostly hols in the Uk for a while.
Neither of us smoke or drink which is a help.
We never found it too much of a struggle, we are both really good at economising & spotting bargain buys!!!!
I have worked PT , mostly eves & w/e's around the children, from when DD1 was 6 weeks old, never used child care, DH is my childcare!!!!
Now we are about to pay our final mortgage payment after 25yrs!!!! :j
If we had to live our life again we would do exactly the same again.
We are not rich by any means but have never had a loan [except mortgage] or any OD's or CC debts.
Ps, DH is not in a well paid job, he earns below nat average earnings.2011, this will be my year .0 -
As I didn't work I pleaded with her to carry on working but she didn't take any notice. Not much change there then.Named after my cat, picture coming shortly0
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When we got married we tried very hard to live just off of DH wages (this was 23 yrs ago and interest rates on mortgage where heading towards 15%!!!!). This meant that when I gave up work to have our DS we were sort of used to only having one wage as mine had been used to save and buy things for the house and baby. However I did go back to work after a year doing night fill at a supermarket ( I had previously been a lending manager with a Bank).0
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