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Should of, could of but in the end just couldn't

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I apologise for this complaint, but here we go. I should have and could have not posted this and just kept quiet but I just couldn't!

Why do people use the word "of" instead of "have", or even "'ve"? For example " You should of seen his face" rather than "you should have seen his face". I don't really know why this annoys me so much. Yes I really do need to get a life!
My favourite subliminal message is;
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  • Claire_Bear
    Claire_Bear Posts: 1,372 Forumite
    Haha it annoys me too, could of doesn't even make any sense. It's just because 'could've' sounds like could of so maybe people don't know that it should be have? Still winds me up though! In face when I saw the title of this thread in my head I went 'argh, it's should HAVE' !
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  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    Yes, winds me up too, same as 'been instead of being' and
    'can i get' instead of can i have' grrrrr doesnt make any sense at all.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • It's nice to know I'm not alone.

    On reflection I wonder if it's because it's easier to text "of" than "'ve" and people have started to use it in everyday writing too?
    My favourite subliminal message is;
  • rl290
    rl290 Posts: 316 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Worst word in the English language: got. There is ALWAYS a better word to use.
  • wigglebeena
    wigglebeena Posts: 1,988 Forumite
    How about 'defiantly' instead of definitely? You see it all the time lately, and all I can say is !!!!!!? It's a whole different word!
  • wigglebeena
    wigglebeena Posts: 1,988 Forumite
    And there's a special schoolroom in hell for people who say 'less' when they mean 'fewer'. Oh, we're having pedantic fun tonight...
  • wigglebeena
    wigglebeena Posts: 1,988 Forumite
    We all know that common usage will turn our pet hates into standard English eventually, right? That's when I'll go live in France. Where they respect language so much they ossify it via statute!
  • Ellie2758
    Ellie2758 Posts: 2,848 Forumite
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    I apologise for this complaint, but here we go. I should have and could have not posted this and just kept quiet but I just couldn't!

    Why do people use the word "of" instead of "have", or even "'ve"? For example " You should of seen his face" rather than "you should have seen his face". I don't really know why this annoys me so much. Yes I really do need to get a life!

    Thanks for this. I thought it was just me. In a few decades time it will be all "of" and no "have". We are a dying breed us pedants.

    Vote Pedant, you know it makes sense.
    Ellie :cool:

    "man is born free but everywhere he is in chains"
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  • thistledome
    thistledome Posts: 1,566 Forumite
    And there's a special schoolroom in hell for people who say 'less' when they mean 'fewer'. Oh, we're having pedantic fun tonight...

    Yes! The SNP's election slogan is, "More SNP's - Less Cuts" and it drives me mad every time I hear it.

    Has anybody else noticed how often people write, "lose" nowadays when they mean "loose"?

    "Can I get" instead of "Can I have" is American. Don't get me started on Americanisms - some of them are infuriating. Like "fix" for "cook". There is an American film called Short Cuts where a character says something like, "Let me fix you a bunch of eggs" and I cringe every time I hear it. :mad:
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  • Ellie2758
    Ellie2758 Posts: 2,848 Forumite
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    Aieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!! Run for the hills. Is it a horror film? :eek:

    There is an American film called Short Cuts where a character says something like, "Let me fix you a bunch of eggs" and I cringe every time I hear it. :mad:[/QUOTE]
    Ellie :cool:

    "man is born free but everywhere he is in chains"
    J-J Rousseau
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