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tigtag's mutterings ('bout debt and stuff)

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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    It was pretty grim really, didn't know anyone and Ryan got bullied by a group of lads, then when he got cross and shouted back, one of them punched him in the face. His parents weren't even there so I couldn't really do anything, but I told him not to do it again and he just said 'whatever'. :mad:

    So came home feeling quite shiite really - didn't help that Friday night turned into a disaster too, and spent most of Saturday not speaking to Stu. Him and his friend spent the evening flirting with my very attractive, tall, slim friend, leaving me feeling rather hurt and left out. :rolleyes:

    I'm so glad the weekend is over, I will be glad to get back to work.

    Sorry for the rant, lol.

    OMG babe

    I'm online if you wanna come and chat :)

    Is Ryan ok?

    :HUGEdodgyhugs:
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Bunnyinthelights wrote: »
    Oh babe!
    You are so lucky i wasn't there! I would have made those kids sorry they picked on Ryan-i can be an EVIL Mom when I want to be. And as for the men 'flirting' well, LET ME AT THEM! Nobody puts Baby in the corner!!!!
    Awww thank you xxxx

    He's being all nice about it now, saying he wasn't flirting, just having fun....but he doesn't have 'fun' like that with me (most of the time he's 'too tired' to do anything other than stare at the TV), so I suppose it just hurt a bit.

    And as for that kid, I have honestly never been so angry. How I kept my temper I don't know.

    The crappy thing is that I feel like everything is getting on top of me, and I'm getting upset over silly things that don't matter. I don't want to feel like that all the time. Stu bought me a sandwich from Subway on the way home, and I nearly cried because it had the wrong sauce on it! !!!!!!?? :confused:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    tigtag02 wrote: »
    OMG babe

    I'm online if you wanna come and chat :)

    Is Ryan ok?

    :HUGEdodgyhugs:
    Thank you xxxx

    I'm going to go to bed and sleep it off I think hun, I need to pull myself back together before tomorrow night, otherwise I will be a complete disaster at work. Thanks for the offer though. :)

    Ryan's okay I think - bit of a bruise but he says it doesn't hurt much. :A
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • Keeping_Positive
    Keeping_Positive Posts: 4,750 Forumite
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    Aww hugs Snaggles I hope you are about to head off to bed so read this tomorrow. A good rest should help. I dont think I would have kept my coll so well done.

    Tig its a shame when family members are not about but sounds like it was still a lovely day.

    *I cant, Im too happy* so I think we have done a good mum and dad job today.

    I loved that bit. Makes it all worthwhile when you hear lines like that.
    :j
    May 2013 new beginnings:j
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Thanks KP, feeling a bit better this morning I think (except that we all have queasy stomachs.....that's party food for you...:rolleyes:). Going to have a very lazy day spent playing with the kiddies and making holiday plans, and hopefully that will make me feel better. :)
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • Keeping_Positive
    Keeping_Positive Posts: 4,750 Forumite
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    Glad to hear it have a great day
    :j
    May 2013 new beginnings:j
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    tigtag02 wrote: »
    Well, its been a funny old day.

    I have watched my baby celebrate her 6th birthday in style. Did she enjoy it? Well, I have just had to tell her to calm down and the response was:

    *I cant, Im too happy* so I think we have done a good mum and dad job today.

    Her birthday is always a fantastic time to celebrate the fact she is with us, she had her first operation at 2 hours old and fought like hell to stay so its always extra special if that makes sense. Her tenacity has her here, dressed up as a HSM cheerleader and wafting her pompoms at me right now but its hard not to remember those scary memories of six years ago too although in a funny old way it just makes me more proud :D

    The hardest part of today has been the fact that its our first *celebration* without mum. *Hey Baby* played at her party this morning and we had that at mums funeral as it was DD1's and her song. DD1 got upset but I'd like to think that it just shows she was with us, even if it wasnt in the way we would have liked.

    MB took me to the cemetery and we gave her a yellow rose plant. MB checked out her neighbours :rolleyes: even though WE are meant to be the nosey ones but it made me feel that she was still part of the day.

    Am I just waffling now? It kinda helps to write it down and I'm sure even more so when I look back.

    We spent FAR too much money BUT only our money, we didnt get into any further debt so I suppose its not all bad.

    Thanks for listening and thanks for keeping me sane here on MSE.

    Love ya all :D
    xx

    Huge Hugs Tig, sounds like the day couldn't really have gone any better in the circumstances......:T
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Hullo :wave:

    I thought I had better pop in and get myself back on track :o

    MB still in pain when he breaths deep or moves but he wont take any meds :rolleyes:

    Today is my last day of work with him so he's gonna have to be ok :eek:

    Anyway, following the general theme of the diaries at the mo here's what I need to do today:
    • Walk to Morrisons so little legs can try out her new roller skates and buy ingredients for a cake DD1 wants to make
    • NOT end up in a&e after above
    • Call tribunal services to chase payments
    • Make leek & potato soup for tomorrow's green day
    • Make egg fried rice for tomorrow's green day
    • Change and wash sheets on Little Leg's bed
    • Buy varnish for ornaments girls have painted for mums grave
    • Vac stairs
    • Iron what appears to be the streets ironing :eek:
    Does that mean I have to get off the 'puter :confused::confused:
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    erm..... yep.... go on shoo!!!

    Good to see you tig, finally got some money today so am going to "do the deed" sorry it's taken so long. xx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    tigtag02 wrote: »
    Anyway, following the general theme of the diaries at the mo here's what I need to do today:
    • Walk to Morrisons so little legs can try out her new roller skates and buy ingredients for a cake DD1 wants to make
    • NOT end up in a&e after above
    • [strike]Call tribunal services to chase payments :D[/strike]
    Done ~ bunch off wuckfits they are at the DWP. If I hadn't have called it would have been stuck in limbo (quelle surprise) being that the DWP say they have no paperwork and the tribunal service say the sent it on th 22nd July :rolleyes: Do I detect I may have to open another can of whoop ass?
    • Make leek & potato soup for tomorrow's green day
    • Make egg fried rice for tomorrow's green day
    • Change and wash sheets on Little Leg's bed
    • Buy varnish for ornaments girls have painted for mums grave
    • Vac stairs
    • Iron what appears to be the streets ironing :eek:
    Does that mean I have to get off the 'puter :confused::confused:

    ...........................
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
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