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Refusing money from a will

Can anyone point me in the direction of a 'will disclaimer' sample please? My father recently passed away, and just before he died he wanted to change his will to leave everything to my mother, and not as previously written, leaving a cash lump sum to me and my brother. As this was my father's wish, we both want to make sure that this happens, and understand that we can sign a disclaimer confirming that we are happy not to accept the money, and that my mother should keep it. However, I cant find a sample of this on the internet anywhere.... help please?

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  • blossomhill_2
    blossomhill_2 Posts: 1,923 Forumite
    Deed of Variation might be what you need
    You never know how far-reaching something good, that you may do or say today, may affect the lives of others tomorrow
  • JodyBPM
    JodyBPM Posts: 1,404 Forumite
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    I agree that its a deed of variation that you are looking for.

    It's nice that you are choosing to honour your father's wishes and make sure your mother is looked after.

    The only problem you may encounter is if either yourself or your brother are on means tested benefits, and the cash lump sum would take you over the threshold, in this instance the DWP may treat you as if you had inherited the lump sum and curtail your benefits accordingly. Please take legal advice to make sure you know of any implications of giving up your right to the money.

    It is refreshing to hear of someone actually trying to give money away and look after their parents though, we see far too many posts the other way round, with children trying to claim "rights" to their parents money, often before said parent has even passed away!
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    This is really interesting because I didn't know you could do this, i.e. refuse to be a beneficiary.

    The reason I'm particularly interested is because I've heard horrendous stories about people inheriting timeshares (which cost money to maintain, obviously) yet not being able to sell them on, nor wanting them in the first place. Children have been left unknowingly with these liabilities that they just can't shift. Would a Deed of Variation help in these circumstances?
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • Mr_Thrifty
    Mr_Thrifty Posts: 756 Forumite
    i don't see what the big deal is. if the money comes to you, give it to your mom instead. is there a tax implication or something?
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    Mr_Thrifty wrote: »
    i don't see what the big deal is. if the money comes to you, give it to your mom instead. is there a tax implication or something?

    Yes. You can't simply gift money around without potentially being subject to inheritance tax and capital gains tax.
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • Dunroamin
    Dunroamin Posts: 16,908 Forumite
    JodyBPM wrote: »
    It is refreshing to hear of someone actually trying to give money away and look after their parents though, we see far too many posts the other way round, with children trying to claim "rights" to their parents money, often before said parent has even passed away!

    Not really refreshing if you frequent the Benefits Board. There are always plenty of people in this situation trying to give an inheritance away so that they can continue to claim benefits.

    I imagine that's the case here and, fortunately, a Deed of Variation won't help as doing this would be considered deprivation of capital.
  • sassyblue
    sassyblue Posts: 3,793 Forumite
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    Mr_Thrifty wrote: »
    i don't see what the big deal is. if the money comes to you, give it to your mom instead. is there a tax implication or something?

    That's what l was thinking :cool: Depends how much is involved l guess.


    Happy moneysaving all.
  • NAR
    NAR Posts: 4,863 Forumite
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    Dunroamin wrote: »
    Not really refreshing if you frequent the Benefits Board. There are always plenty of people in this situation trying to give an inheritance away so that they can continue to claim benefits.

    I imagine that's the case here and, fortunately, a Deed of Variation won't help as doing this would be considered deprivation of capital.
    That is not the reason given by the OP in post #1, so what right have you to "imagine" anything? :mad:
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,571 Forumite
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    This is really interesting because I didn't know you could do this, i.e. refuse to be a beneficiary.

    The reason I'm particularly interested is because I've heard horrendous stories about people inheriting timeshares (which cost money to maintain, obviously) yet not being able to sell them on, nor wanting them in the first place. Children have been left unknowingly with these liabilities that they just can't shift. Would a Deed of Variation help in these circumstances?

    Unfortunately, there is always a residual beneficiary and if the timeshare is refused by another beneficiary, it will be inherited by that person.
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    Mojisola wrote: »
    Unfortunately, there is always a residual beneficiary and if the timeshare is refused by another beneficiary, it will be inherited by that person.

    Could that be the state?
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
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