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Gift Ideas For The Difficult

Oh, good people of MSE, help me!

My boyfriend's mum's birthday is coming up, and I'd really like to get her a nice gift. Thing is, I'm stumped as to what! These are my many, many problems:

1) I can't spend much, probably about £10 would be my budget.
2) She isn't really into sweets or smellies.
3) I've already done the pot plant idea.
4) Hasn't got time to read.
5) Has a zillion cookbooks and cooking things already. Also feels like it would be a bit of a busman's holiday as her job has to do with cooking as well.
6) Clothes, accessories or jewellery I get for my own mum, but couldn't pick for her. And it somehow doesn't feel entirely suitable to be buying my boyfriend's mum things like that.
7) I also couldn't pick music or a DVD, she doesn't seem to be that into those either.

My best ideas so far are a warm woolly scarf and to make a birthday cake, but it doesn't seem like enough. I need something else!

This needn't be all about my birthday gift-idea problems though. Does anyone have any fantastic gift ideas for other occasions? Do you even have someone of your own that you're having trouble thinking of what to give them, and need new ideas?
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  • mummybearx
    mummybearx Posts: 1,921 Forumite
    I love the website gettingpersonal.co.uk

    Maybe something like http://www.gettingpersonal.co.uk/personalised-calendars/personalised-our-family-calendar.htm You can get it in a desk calander thats £9.99 I'm sure :-)

    Loads of things on there x
    Can't think of anything smart to put here...
  • mummybearx
    mummybearx Posts: 1,921 Forumite
    You can also filter by 'under £10' :T
    Can't think of anything smart to put here...
  • jakes-mum
    jakes-mum Posts: 4,642 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    I always had this problem with my mother in law when I first met my husband, best presents we ever bought her were a george forman grill and a 4 slice toaster (she can have the entire extended family at her house which including us came to 10+ people and she had a carppy 10 year old 2 slice toaster that she used to stand at for half an hour making people toast :eek:)

    One of my mums favourite gifts was a really comfy pair of slippers

    My favourite gift was bought by DS 10, who bought me some lovely beads for my jewellery crafting, my other favourite gift was a sandwich toaster :cool: what can I say? i like toasted sandwiches

    Any help?
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  • Why not buy a nice photo frame and put either a picture of yourself and boyfriend in it or boyfriend and mum? TK Maxx do some really nice ones that are good value for money but don't look 'cheap' IYSWIM
  • CupOfChai
    CupOfChai Posts: 1,411 Forumite
    Lovely ideas, please keep them coming! I forgot to say she doesn't drink much either, luckily no one said that!




    I am now distracted imagining Jakes-mum and her giant family of toast-maniacs :p
  • brightonman123
    brightonman123 Posts: 8,535 Forumite
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    edited 5 October 2011 at 1:30PM
    How about a retro space hopper?!

    or, in workout slang,, an 'orbital gravity reflex machine..'.. lol

    see also

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    Long time away from MSE, been dealing real life stuff..
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  • Hiya

    How about making some nice chutney using prettied up reused jars? Red onion chutney is fairly cheap to make, it would supplement her meals with no prep from her, they always go down well with my mother in law

    hth
    "I havent failed, Ive found 10,000 ways that dont work" Thomas Edison

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  • Savvybunny2009
    Savvybunny2009 Posts: 5,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    edited 5 October 2011 at 3:08PM
    I don't know whether you are a couple with children but you could buy a digital frame and put some pictures of you and other half (kids,pets etc). You can pick digital frames up quite cheaply these days and makes a lovely personal gift. This is what I am doing for my grandad as he doesn't drink, doesn't eat chocolate and we have no idea what he likes lol.
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  • Pisces
    Pisces Posts: 224 Forumite
    Magazine subscription?

    Does she garden? I would love someone to buy me some nice gardening gloves!

    Hot water bottle and a good book?

    Chocolates and a nice bunch of flowers? Sometimes the oldies are the best..
    Go your own way..

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  • mr_knight
    mr_knight Posts: 943 Forumite
    My MIL is so difficult to buy for. She has 4 daughters and one DIL. I try and be thoughtful with pressies so try and avoid getting her a 5th pair of slippers and a 5th bunch of flowers :)

    The photo thing goes down really well. I have done various takes on this, photo book, photo clock, and one of these.

    I've done clothes, DVD's, books with no sucess. I'm trying Jewellery this year so we shall see how that goes.

    I like the chutney idea though that is nice and personal.

    Good luck
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