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Advise regarding my sister please?
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northernmonkey0_0 wrote: »Hello All,
Ok so my sister lost her father recently and is having to sign all the legal forms required etc for the funeral......
Just picking up on this point here. Why is she having to? Is his partner not wanting to get involved? Who is expecting to pay the bill?0 -
Multiple copies of the death certificate are needed because each bank will want one, some companies will want one, depending on what companies were involved and how many accounts he had....we had ten I think and have a couple left.
Unless your sister is an executor, she's not entitled to see the will before probate has been granted, and the accounts have been finalised.
As above, if her father was in recipt of benefits of some kind, the DWP will have to be notified. they then check if there were any overpayments that have to be clawed back. This can take a long time [ a family friends wifes estate wasn't finalised for two and a half years due to this].
You say there is a will, so, he may well have left nothing to your sister, you dont know.
He may have had debts, so the state would become insolvent, in which case, it's best not to touch that at all.
His pensions/life assurance [if he had any] and if they were put in trust, will go to whoever is named on the policy or named in the will.
His bank accounts, unless they were joint [ in which case the monies now belong to whoever was named on the joint account] will be accessible to pay for the funeral. if they had any money in them, and then any remaiing will go debts first, then any beneficiary.
All this can take months, potentially years, to sort out, so your suggestion of shennaginans is jumping the gun a bit.Non me fac calcitrare tuum culi0 -
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Your sister could ask her local Council about the "tell us once" scheme.
I understand that the person doing the notifying doesn't have to be NOK (happy to be corrected if wrong).
This could be of help to the bereaved partner, has your sister sat and had a chat with them and offered to help?
Sorting out after a death takes time (I know of someone who is just finalizing stuff 8 months after a death and they were the nearest relative)
When Mum died, last year, the registrar completed the 'Tell us once' process when she registered the death and produced the certificate. She put the wrong date on it, but that's another story!It's not difficult!
'Wander' - to walk or move in a leisurely manner.
'Wonder' - to feel curious.0 -
When you register a death they do "put the fear of God into you" about ordering death certificates then/there as they're cheaper to do it then than to get copies later... so that's the norm.
You don't know how many you'll need... some firms want an original - and some then send that back to you; others are happy with a copy ... so it's normal to get "too many" really.0
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