Mum's partner died with debt...

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  • unholyangel
    unholyangel Posts: 16,863 Forumite
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    jenberry wrote: »
    The life insurance plan he had been paying into only for a few months. It was sent to his mum but wouldn't have been enough to cover ay debts or funeral costs - just a few hundred pounds.

    The reason I was asking was because if your mum had administered the estate and had paid out estate funds to beneficiaries without settling debts of the estate, your mum could have ended up liable.

    If this is a life insurance policy that named his mum as beneficiary then I believe it passes outside of his estate.
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  • PeacefulWaters
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    Ok, if a life assurance plan is written in trust it's fine that money goes to the beneficiary of the policy. It doesn't form part of the estate. If it's not written in trust it does form part of the estate and should go to the loan companies first.

    The few hundred left in his bank account should be used to partially clear any debts pro rata, advising the lenders there's no other money left.

    Somebody walking off with "just a few hundred" is not the correct way to do things when there is money owed elsewhere.
  • jenberry
    jenberry Posts: 107 Forumite
    The reason I was asking was because if your mum had administered the estate and had paid out estate funds to beneficiaries without settling debts of the estate, your mum could have ended up liable.

    If this is a life insurance policy that named his mum as beneficiary then I believe it passes outside of his estate.

    Ah yes, this makes sense to me. His estate is basically non-existant as my mum has carried him financially since they met so I'm not sure if this changes things but I doubt my mum would therefore be liable for his debt. Thank you.
  • jenberry
    jenberry Posts: 107 Forumite
    Ok, if a life assurance plan is written in trust it's fine that money goes to the beneficiary of the policy. It doesn't form part of the estate. If it's not written in trust it does form part of the estate and should go to the loan companies first.

    The few hundred left in his bank account should be used to partially clear any debts pro rata, advising the lenders there's no other money left.

    Somebody walking off with "just a few hundred" is not the correct way to do things when there is money owed elsewhere.

    I agree, though this was only uncovered a couple of weeks after the life insurance plan had been paid out. We are unsure if the debt is still owed as the letters were from 2016 and we have no way of accessing his bank statements from the past to see if money was paid to this amount. But as it stands, there is nothing in his estate so just wondered if it was my mum's responsibility to pay (even though they were not married, did not share children or property etc).
  • Ames
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    Ok, if a life assurance plan is written in trust it's fine that money goes to the beneficiary of the policy. It doesn't form part of the estate. If it's not written in trust it does form part of the estate and should go to the loan companies first.

    The few hundred left in his bank account should be used to partially clear any debts pro rata, advising the lenders there's no other money left.

    Somebody walking off with "just a few hundred" is not the correct way to do things when there is money owed elsewhere.

    Is that true in this case though, or do tax debts have priority over any others?
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  • getmore4less
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    Ames wrote: »
    Is that true in this case though, or do tax debts have priority over any others?

    They(taxes) used to but no longer do.

    The funeral costs take priority over everything.
  • TBagpuss
    TBagpuss Posts: 11,199 Forumite
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    You mum won't be liable. However, it's important that she doesn't get involved with dealing with any of his assets, as this can be 'inter-meddling' with an estate which. Simply telling people about the death, or passing documents to the executor or administrator is not inter-meddling.

    I'd suggest that for any paperwork she finds, she passes this over to his mum (or sister) and that for anyone who contacts her, see simply explains that he has died, that she is not the executor or administrator and is not dealing with the estate.

    She would only be liable for anything which was in the joint names of your mum and her partner, or for which she had signed a guarantee.
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  • enthusiasticsaver
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    No your mum is not liable. She is not his next of kin and there was no estate to speak of. If any money he had went to his mum/sister then send the HMRC stuff there too.
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  • jenberry
    jenberry Posts: 107 Forumite
    TBagpuss wrote: »
    You mum won't be liable. However, it's important that she doesn't get involved with dealing with any of his assets, as this can be 'inter-meddling' with an estate which. Simply telling people about the death, or passing documents to the executor or administrator is not inter-meddling.

    I'd suggest that for any paperwork she finds, she passes this over to his mum (or sister) and that for anyone who contacts her, see simply explains that he has died, that she is not the executor or administrator and is not dealing with the estate.

    She would only be liable for anything which was in the joint names of your mum and her partner, or for which she had signed a guarantee.

    Thank you. This is really reassuring as this is what she has done so far. Other than arranging the funeral and notifying relevant people, she hasn't dealt with any of the money side of things.
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