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The diary of P's everworkingtrollhuntingdebtbustingenergisingmseing life!!

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  • InkyCats20
    InkyCats20 Posts: 1,282 Forumite
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    Nice to see you back :)
    I'm normally more of a lurker :eek: than a poster but always like to keep up to date with Pania land happening's & like the others have been a bit concerned by your lack of posting, although assumed you were still about (from reading Hypno's thread)

    Don't let the negative people get you down, you've given so much support to so many on here & it would be such a shame for current & future MSE'ers to loose that
    Keep smiling :j

    IC
    x
    Don't Take Life too Seriously - Nobody gets out alive :rotfl:
  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    aww P sorry to hear that theyve been getting to you! Some people are just plain ignorant - simple as! As others have said if you stop posting you let them win & that would be a loss for us...Can understand what you mean though. Have been mainly sticking to subscribed threads recently as all the panic & doom was really getting me down and sometimes we need to look after ourselves and go back to others when we have the emotional energy to deal with the negatives that invariably arise...Plus youve had alot going on recently with work uncertainties, pressures etc...
    Slicethe pie....did a few & then seriously thought wound gangsta myself & just could bear it - would rather do bingo and thats excriciating! Some of the "songs" were just dire.
    Fab idea re getting out into the real world & having some fun! Cheap un but fun! What a about a book group? Great for me as once a month, sommat to look forward to and not too much pressure plus have made a good friend from mine & also challenges you to go out of your comfort zone - would never have read A thousand splendid suns if it wasnt for my BG! Just a thought - plus its relatively cheap...
    Hugs for you & let me do if I can do owt to help...
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    InkyCats20 wrote: »
    Nice to see you back :)
    I'm normally more of a lurker :eek: than a poster but always like to keep up to date with Pania land happening's & like the others have been a bit concerned by your lack of posting, although assumed you were still about (from reading Hypno's thread)

    Don't let the negative people get you down, you've given so much support to so many on here & it would be such a shame for current & future MSE'ers to loose that
    Keep smiling :j

    IC
    x

    Aha....so all your lurking habits are coming to the surface :D Don't be shy - you are welcome to post rather than just to lurk!!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • InkyCats20
    InkyCats20 Posts: 1,282 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Thanks Hypno, you never know I might even start appearing on your thread :eek:
    Don't Take Life too Seriously - Nobody gets out alive :rotfl:
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    InkyCats20 wrote: »
    Thanks Hypno, you never know I might even start appearing on your thread :eek:

    Good to see that you popped over! We are always pleased for people to come out of the shadows!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    Well knock me out with a feather, smack me over the head with an egg sideways and call me tamsin!!!! I'm feeling rather queasy and unwell tonight, faint really......

    The reason??? !!!!!! boss came to observe me at an appointment tonight and paos me a very large compliment!!!!!!!!!!!!! W. T. F!!!!!!!!! he has also allowed me friday off at short notice, 2 weeks off at the start of august and to miss the meeting on thursday due to a hos appointment.... hmmmm. you know when someone if just a little too nice?????

    Thanks for the encouraging messages peeps didn't mean for it to sound like that at all. we all have our down times but why would i leave my fabby virtual friends on here. still, as you say isom, am sticking to the nice threads for now til my courage has built a little!!!!

    Hope you are all ok out there. I'm off to bed shortly, very tired!!! yay!!!
    (couldn't sleep at all last night so thats a yay to being tired!!)
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    hey pania you back from a wee break from here ...i can relte to that i think we all get like that sometimes i know i have a few times now and although i do lurk i need to take that wee break from posting (sometimes i need to do it to stop me from writting some comments lol) glad your back though
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    yes, i know what you mean about biting the ol typing finger... I posted an extremely astute butt kicking reply to a comment here and luckily and thankfully came to my senses and deleted, realised i needed to walk away for a while!!! :D good to be posting again though. How are you?? noticed that you wandered away for a while, nice to see you around again too. xxx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    yep i had the same feeling as youand had to get away from here for a bit nearly bit those fingers off as well but as you say a step away helps and it is nice to be back ... then got back to it but shortly after i then had visitors for a week and didnt want to be on here while they were here just incase they found out who i was ...i'm quite protective of my identity on here lol ...i'm doing good hubby not so good but he will get by having to do overtime now to keep money dripping in while he is off
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    yes i read about that poor hubby, hope it;s nothing serious serious if you catch my drift. do you have insurances that may cover something like what he is going through???
    Right must off to bed so will chat to you all int he morning.
    Sweetdreams. xxx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
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