off topic --advice pls summonss to crt

DEBT_23

I know this is totally of topic and im sorry i jst need to advice and support please.

i shall try and cut a long story short..
Basically my dad remarried 2 years ago to someone who we ( his family ) didnt rate much... on benifits, claiming and working etc.. i hated her she had him round her little finger( he always been a hard working man)
i didnt even go to the wedding 3 years ago !! she also has a drink problem and they ague alot which results he coming to mine..i know my dad aint perfect either ( he brought me up from 8 months old due to my mother walking out)
he has always been there for me so i find i found it hard turning my back.

I have done well for myself career wise
mortgage at 18 ( im now 24 on tuesday) im a prison officer and bring home a Ok pay.

he turns up during the night i let him stay , she shows up and kicks off ( not my cup of tea in my own street i do say )
he ended up moving in from may 2007 til jan 08 ( sorry for long post)
she turn up im threaten her with the police.. it all died down i was happy my dad told me he was seein someone new and wanted a divorce etc..

Until 2am 14/09/07 she turns up kicking my front door in, kicking my car, i went out in a panic to see who the hell it was with my mobile in hand to phone the police.. there my dads wife was wrecked totally drunk kicking my car, i approached her and she came towards me i was in a panic and slapped her.. being in a state she was in she fell straight to the floor , I RANG THE POLICE NOT HER by that time my dad had come down and picked her up telling her she was warned not to come to mine etc.. she accused my dad of hitting her not me ..that how drunk she was..
police took my statement that was it end of... until sunday the 15th june a policeman knocks on my door and issues me a summons to court on the 3rd july for 'actual bodily harm'
Im fuming benefit cheating drunk takes me to court ???? how can that be.. i reported it, i work in a respectable force and never been in trouble yet the police are round her house like 10 times a year for domestic trouble...

my family are totally shocked this has happened...
also i may add in jan 08 whne i knew he was back seeing her i kicked HIM OUT , dropped his stuff off there never spoke to them, me and my dad aint spoke since.. and i changed my numbers and locks due to my dad not giving my key back..
i have heard nothing from them sice dropping my dads stuff off 3 months ago. i can only think she hates me that much and is jelous she want me lose everything. ( her 2 sons are my age and both off work for depression- lol get that leared from their mum)
If i am found guilty i will lose my job but i havnt done anything wrong i was protecting myself and property..

they are both as bad as each other and have no respect for me and my working shifts to bring me into this situation.
they have nothing to lose and i have everything to lose.
Im going to the solicitors today at 2pm

and would you believe today IM 24..HAPPY BIRTHDAY.. SUMMONS of my own dad and his wife.
I still cannot believe he is allowing it to happen.

advice please
Natalie

LilacPixie

I think a solicitor would be the best to offer advice.

GeorgeUK

Can't really advise on this, but i'd assume you can enter a defence of self defence and defence of property having used reasonable force.

Hopefully the solicitor will be able to advise.