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Deeper and deeper

Hi I am after some help. I seem to be falling deeper and deeper in debt, I have made cut backs and got a better job but still I seem to owe more out. My partner tries to help but she suffers with a stomach problem that means that she misses work for what can be a month at a time and then she cannot contribute, which means I have to get the credit card out to pay for shopping etc. With no extra money now to try and make some over payments on these things I struggle to cope.
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  • CarolynH
    CarolynH Posts: 570 Forumite
    Hello and welcome Guns, you're in the right place.

    Can you post a SOA (statement of affairs, there's a 'sticky' at the top of this board), so the lovely chaps and ladies can make suggestions as to where you can make some savings?

    (((HUGS)))
    :D Make a list of important things to do today. At the top, put 'eat chocolate'. Now, you'll get at least one thing done today. :D
  • guns4
    guns4 Posts: 61 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1699
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1699

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 767
    Secured loan repayments................. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold flat)...... 0
    Council tax............................. 90
    Electricity............................. 60
    Gas..................................... 40
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 33
    Telephone (land line)................... 15
    Mobile phone............................ 35
    TV Licence.............................. 12
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 26
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 275
    Clothing................................ 20
    Petrol/diesel........................... 90
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 0
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 5
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 24
    Buildings insurance..................... 26
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 25
    Haircuts................................ 10
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1553

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 130000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 130000

    Secured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 126000...(767)......5.59
    Total secured debts........... 126000....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    HSBC Credit Card...............1300......60........15.9
    HSBC Loan......................11100.....205.......12.9
    HSBC Overdraft.................1500......12........13
    Abbey Credit Card..............1450......33........0
    Amex...........................3000......79........17.9
    Sygma Back.....................700.......21........19.9
    Tesco Loan.....................8000......127.......7.9
    Total unsecured debts..........27050.....537.......-

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,699
    Expenses (including secured debts)....... 1,553
    Available for debt repayments........... 146
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 537
    Surplus(deficit if negative)............ -391

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 130,000
    Total Secured debt...................... -126,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -27,050
    Personal net worth...................... -153,046

    Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission.

    ======== Enter any other useful information below ========
  • Nomad25
    Nomad25 Posts: 1,995 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Just giving you a bump.
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,521 Forumite
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    Guns

    You needs to add a zero to your assets.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,521 Forumite
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    guns4 wrote: »
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1699
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1699

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 767 - interest only or repayment?
    Secured loan repayments................. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold flat)...... 0
    Council tax............................. 90
    Electricity............................. 60 - your utilities seem high, can you check the comparision sites?
    Gas..................................... 40
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 33
    Telephone (land line)................... 15
    Mobile phone............................ 35 - can you go PAYG and cut this down?
    TV Licence.............................. 12
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 26 - cancal this as you cannot aford it, sorry
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 275 - for two this is high. Aim towards £150 ish,
    Clothing................................ 20 - join freecycle and only buy when GF is working
    Petrol/diesel........................... 90
    Road tax................................ 0 - why none?
    Car Insurance........................... 0 -ditto?
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 5
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 24 - check this is the cheapest on the comparion sites
    Buildings insurance..................... 26 - ditto
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 25 - cut this out at the mo. Join the freebies board and look at what you can make at home (or what GF can make)
    Haircuts................................ 10
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1553

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 13000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 13000

    Secured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 126000...(767)......5.59
    Total secured debts........... 126000....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    HSBC Credit Card...............1300......60........15.9
    HSBC Loan......................11100.....205.......12.9
    HSBC Overdraft.................1500......12........13
    Abbey Credit Card..............1450......33........0
    Amex...........................3000......79........17.9
    Sygma Back.....................700.......21........19.9 - this is the killer - aim to pay this off first.
    Tesco Loan.....................8000......127.......7.9
    Total unsecured debts..........27050.....537.......-

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,699
    Expenses (including secured debts)....... 1,553
    Available for debt repayments........... 146
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 537
    Surplus(deficit if negative)............ -391

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 130,000
    Total Secured debt...................... -126,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -27,050
    Personal net worth...................... -23,050

    Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission.

    ======== Enter any other useful information below ========

    Have you got any stufff round the house that you can put on e-bay, take to a car boot sale to start tackling the higher APR debts?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • shadydaz
    shadydaz Posts: 377 Forumite
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    Have you got children guns?


    Do you live in a flat or a house?
    Was in debt £23k- Not now (12/07-12/10):T
    Did smoke- Not any more (26-02-11):j
    I am not perfect but everyone loves a trier don't they??:A
  • guns4
    guns4 Posts: 61 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    No kids, I live in a house with my partner
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,521 Forumite
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    Then the fastest and financially most efficent way to start dealing with this would be to take a lodger if yiou have a spare room.

    You can earn upto £370ish per month (£4,200) without paying any tax. Which is equivalnet to earning another £5,500 is you wer working. Cheapest pay rise you can get.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • guns4
    guns4 Posts: 61 Forumite
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    Originally Posted by guns4 viewpost.gif
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1699
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1699

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 767 - interest only or repayment? Repayment.
    Secured loan repayments................. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold flat)...... 0
    Council tax............................. 90
    Electricity............................. 60 - your utilities I seem high, can you check the comparision sites? I owed £120 so increased payments by £20 a month
    Gas..................................... 40
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 33
    Telephone (land line)................... 15
    Mobile phone............................ 35 - can you go PAYG and cut this down?
    TV Licence.............................. 12
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 26 - cancal this as you cannot aford it, sorry
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 275 - for two this is high. Aim towards £150 ish,
    Clothing................................ 20 - join freecycle and only buy when GF is working
    Petrol/diesel........................... 90
    Road tax................................ 0 - why none? Company Car
    Car Insurance........................... 0 -ditto?
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 5
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 24 - check this is the cheapest on the comparion sites Tghat is for 2 pets
    Buildings insurance..................... 26 - ditto
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 25 - cut this out at the mo. Join the freebies board and look at what you can make at home (or what GF can make)The GF's 2 sisters have 7 Kids between them I think i would be better off buying them a TV so they have something to do of a night
    Haircuts................................ 10
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1553

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 13000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 13000

    Secured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly.. .APR
    Mortgage...................... 126000...(767)......5.59
    Total secured debts........... 126000....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly.. .APR
    HSBC Credit Card...............1300......60........15.9
    HSBC Loan......................11100.....205.......12.9
    HSBC Overdraft.................1500......12........13
    Abbey Credit Card..............1450......33........0
    Amex...........................3000......79....... .17.9
    Sygma Back.....................700.......21........19.9 - this is the killer - aim to pay this off first.
    Tesco Loan.....................8000......127.......7.9
    Total unsecured debts..........27050.....537.......-

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,699
    Expenses (including secured debts)....... 1,553
    Available for debt repayments........... 146
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 537
    Surplus(deficit if negative)............ -391

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 130,000
    Total Secured debt...................... -126,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -27,050
    Personal net worth...................... -23,050

    Thanks I will look at the cut backs
  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    I would echo ras s good advice ,for 6 of us (not all my kids just ended up with nephews lol)we spend 350 a month on grocerys . I would look to swap all your cards to nil intrest ones 3percent fee is much better than what you are going to end up paying in the long run .Also can your girlfriend not start ebay selling while your at work you would just have to help her with posting etc when she s poorly.
    best of luck
    and just pre warning people i have a massive change in our finances about to happen (redundancy) so will be posting soa and needing advice some time next week i thank you all in advance.
    Life is short, smile while you still have teeth :D
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