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50,000 in Debt!!! Where to start!!!

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I am 24 and my husband 30 and we are 50,000 in debt with a little boy 3!!

I have so many credit commitments that i can handle it

I began tackling my debt over 4 years ago with Eurodebt, then they forgot to pay one of my creditors for six months and I ended up with a CCJ to add to my problems since middle of last year we have been going it alone and it is hard work both working full time with my little boy and juggling our debts!

I have scrimpted and saved in every possibe area but am tied into several Hire Purchases which are essentials such as cars and phones which are needed for my job and a car for my husband. Nursery costs are a must as if we did not pay them I would not be able to work!!

I have wrote to my creditors several times for assistance but no luck.

In Jan I wrote asking to write off debts only 5 of my 15 creditors responded I continued with repayments, at the beginning of may we began struggling again so I wrote again and reduced repayments to 1.00. Again only 5 of the 15 creditors responded to my write off letter!!

I stated in my letter if no response was received no further payemtns would be made, - where do I stand to stop paying these debts??

PLEASE HELP US!!
:oHELP ME :o

48,000 IN DEBT
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  • poppyg_2
    poppyg_2 Posts: 322 Forumite
    Hi and welcome to DFW

    Can you post up a list of your debts and APRs please? Also might help if you post a full SOA (Statement of Affairs) which basically lists your incomings and outgoings

    Have you tried speaking to one of the debt charities - Payplan, CCCS or national debt helpline?

    You've come to the right place for support/advice :)
    Money doesn't make you happy so I'm skint but cheerful :beer:
  • 10past6
    10past6 Posts: 4,962 Forumite
    puggy wrote: »
    I stated in my letter if no response was received no further payemtns would be made, - where do I stand to stop paying these debts??
    Hi pugggy

    First and foremost, I really wouldn't stop paying creditors / DCA's, even if it's only token payments you'r making debts are not going to go away, all that happens is they get sold on, then sold on, and so on, the debt never goes away, I recently been contacted about a debt from 1996, (I won't go into detail about not paying it, just to confirm debts never go away)

    It will help of you can post your SOA (Statement of Affairs) here, that will assist in seeing if there are any savings to be made.

    Click here to complete your SOA.
    Click here for Martins (MSE) advice on who to contact with Debt Issues - YOU HAVE NO REASON TO USE A FEE PAYING DEBT MANAGEMENT COMPANY- THEY CANNOT DO ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN THOSE LISTED IN MY LINK ABOVE.

    All information given by myself is offered informally and without prejudice - if in doubt seek help from a qualified and insured professional
  • Tigert
    Tigert Posts: 467 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Hi Puggy,

    Welcome to the group.

    Try not to worry. When I first realised the position I was in I tried contacting creditors myself and got no help at all from them. If one of them hadn't mentioned Payplan, then I don't know how I would have coped.

    As poppyg suggests, try speaking to Payplan or CCCS. They will be able to advise you and if necessary deal with your creditors on your behalf.

    Payplan have been brilliant for me and you'll get great support and advice from this group.
    LBM : March 2008 :cry:
    Debt Free Date : 25th July 2012 :)
    DMP Mutual Support Thread: #170
    Long Haul Supporters Thread : #115
  • puggy
    puggy Posts: 18 Forumite
    Thak you for replying

    I have contacted both Payplan and CCCS and they both advised to go bankrupt as we have a negative surplus income!

    I can not go bankrupt due to the nature of my job!
    Would appreciate any help but dont feel I can reduce any outgoings any more!!
    :oHELP ME :o

    48,000 IN DEBT
  • 10past6
    10past6 Posts: 4,962 Forumite
    puggy wrote: »
    Thak you for replying

    I have contacted both Payplan and CCCS and they both advised to go bankrupt as we have a negative surplus income!

    I can not go bankrupt due to the nature of my job!
    Would appreciate any help but dont feel I can reduce any outgoings any more!!
    Do you own your own home, if so, do you have any equity within it, also, how about any assets?
    Click here for Martins (MSE) advice on who to contact with Debt Issues - YOU HAVE NO REASON TO USE A FEE PAYING DEBT MANAGEMENT COMPANY- THEY CANNOT DO ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN THOSE LISTED IN MY LINK ABOVE.

    All information given by myself is offered informally and without prejudice - if in doubt seek help from a qualified and insured professional
  • puggy
    puggy Posts: 18 Forumite
    Debts as follows

    Barclay card 1199.00
    Barclays 56.00
    Capital One 1289.00
    GE Money 246.00
    GE Money 3372.00
    HSBC 8327.00
    HSBC 3080.00
    HSBC 2598.00
    Littlewoods 713.00
    Littlewoods 698.00
    Mint 3785.00
    Natwest 10145.00
    Natwest 2510.00
    Nawest 3157.00
    Natwest 1859.00
    :oHELP ME :o

    48,000 IN DEBT
  • puggy
    puggy Posts: 18 Forumite
    I am renting @ 620.00 per month!!!
    :oHELP ME :o

    48,000 IN DEBT
  • 10past6
    10past6 Posts: 4,962 Forumite
    puggy wrote: »
    Debts as follows

    Barclay card 1199.00
    Barclays 56.00
    Capital One 1289.00
    GE Money 246.00
    GE Money 3372.00
    HSBC 8327.00
    HSBC 3080.00
    HSBC 2598.00
    Littlewoods 713.00
    Littlewoods 698.00
    Mint 3785.00
    Natwest 10145.00
    Natwest 2510.00
    Nawest 3157.00
    Natwest 1859.00
    Are any of these debts "Secured"?
    Click here for Martins (MSE) advice on who to contact with Debt Issues - YOU HAVE NO REASON TO USE A FEE PAYING DEBT MANAGEMENT COMPANY- THEY CANNOT DO ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN THOSE LISTED IN MY LINK ABOVE.

    All information given by myself is offered informally and without prejudice - if in doubt seek help from a qualified and insured professional
  • puggy
    puggy Posts: 18 Forumite
    SOA as follows

    Rent 620.00
    Council Tax 122.00
    Water 25.00
    Electricity 35.00
    Gas 35.00
    Contents INS 15.00
    Telephone 60.00
    TV licence 11.00
    Internet 20.00
    Childcare 450.00
    CCJ 11.00
    Hire Purchase Car 1 180.00
    Hire Purchase Car 2 220.00
    Maintenance Car 30
    Road Tax 25.00
    Motor Ins for both cars 60.00
    Fuel for both cars 220.00 min
    Food nappies etc 340.00
    Activities 5.00
    Hire Purchase Tools 89.00
    Clothing and Footwear 43.00
    2X Contract Phones 80.00

    Income around 2500.00
    Benefits 100.00
    Total 2600.00
    Expenditure 2696.00
    -96.00
    :oHELP ME :o

    48,000 IN DEBT
  • puggy
    puggy Posts: 18 Forumite
    No Secured Debts all unsecured Credit cards catalouges and or loans!!
    :oHELP ME :o

    48,000 IN DEBT
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