The Compers Inn - Part 3

toniq

Alittle stressed dont ever give up on anything! u gotta be in it to win it, stay positive, wins are like buses, nothing for ages, then loads turn up at once, wishing u much luck xxxx
hi lovetosavemoney xxxxx hope u r ok xxx

lovestomoneysave

toniq wrote: »

Alittle stressed dont ever give up on anything! u gotta be in it to win it, stay positive, wins are like buses, nothing for ages, then loads turn up at once, wishing u much luck xxxx
hi lovetosavemoney xxxxx hope u r ok xxx

Hi Toniq - i'm ok thanks just got a wem from virgin vie so am smiling now!!

scottishfreebiehunter

toniq wrote: »

Alittle stressed dont ever give up on anything! u gotta be in it to win it, stay positive, wins are like buses, nothing for ages, then loads turn up at once, wishing u much luck xxxx
hi lovetosavemoney xxxxx hope u r ok xxx

What she said:rotfl:;)

And if you do not enter then you will get a big fat ZERO so best keep going

rrickyuk

There are at least two ways at looking at bullying.

There is the effect on the victim, which is often not seen or understood by others.

There is the intention on the part of the bully.

The former isn't an issue for me here. My skin is thicker than that.

What interests me is why someone else has an interest in using words like:

prickyuk

Wwickyuk

When there has been no clear permission from the person who is the target to do this.

What interests me is the person who was the first to jump on the video jape, and what was written in it.

I did actually find the videos funny; to an extent.

What I do wonder about is the effect this type of thing could have on another MSEr who might not have as tough a skin as I do.

A joke and a laugh is just that.

It is not funny when it carries on, when you wonder why the teller of the joke keeps telling it, or if the target of the joke does not find it funny.

I will take action if it occurs in the future, as I do not believe that this - yes, abuse, in my opinion, and from this particular person - should continue.

toniq

Im sorry ricky xxxxxxxxxxxxxx ((((((((hugs))))))))))) ill pull my post with clip xxx

toomanykids

Ricky, I am sorry. You are right. Bullying isn't just the intention to bully but the effect it has on the victim. I have been the victim and the mother of victims of bullying in the past. I took part in the video carry-on and thought you were watching and therefore taking part. I now appreciate you weren't. It was never, never my intention to hurt or humiliate you and you have my sincere apologies. I too will delete. Lesson well and truly learned.

rrickyuk

toniq wrote: »

Im sorry ricky xxxxxxxxxxxxxx ((((((((hugs))))))))))) ill pull my post with clip xxx

You have misunderstood my post.

It is not my intention for posts to be pulled.

I am quite clearly talking about one person.

I am also quite clearly not offended by anything anyone else posted.

There is no need to pull your post.

It was funny, apart from anything else.

toniq

Rricky i understood your post fully, i saw what has been written in those posts u mentioned and i pulled my posts as i wanted no part of that type of stuff and didnt want u in any way to think i did xxxxxx

rrickyuk

toomanykids wrote: »

Ricky, I am sorry. You are right. Bullying isn't just the intention to bully but the effect it has on the victim. I have been the victim and the mother of victims of bullying in the past. I took part in the video carry-on and thought you were watching and therefore taking part. I now appreciate you weren't. It was never, never my intention to hurt or humiliate you and you have my sincere apologies. I too will delete. Lesson well and truly learned.

There is no need for you to delete.

I didn't take what you posted as offensive.

What I did find offensive was the first video posted, because of what had lead up to it from other posts by the same person.

bella165

ohhh its all kicking off in here,
time to chill everyone
alittlestressed dont give up i spend 10 hours or more on here and was feeling downhearted as i wasnt winning then after 5 weeks of nowt i won a couple of things,my best win was the iow tickets,and thats it i also have mini mes to look after including a son with adhd,
im still awaiting on a real biggy andas i say you have to be init to win it,or you have not a chance in the world,



HUGS EVERYONE MAKE LOVE NOT WAR