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An apology

Hi guys, have not been on for a couple of days hardly. I have felt so crap. I think i have got myself so worked up about new job and it has downed me like a wounded moose. Things i cant talk about on open forum. And i was supposed to meet Cat today for lunch. I completely forgot. Having said that i have spent the last 2 days in bed. I am soooooo sorry Cat. And Bunny, so sorry to hear about your situation. Just follow your heart honey. Also to another certain person who i wont mention. We are here for you when you need us. And Numpty, thanks for PM. Am feeling a bit better tonight. I just need to get over the next few weeks then i will be back to normal. Love ya all xxxxxxxxx
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Night owl member of the threesome. Rules are for fools to follow and wise men to be guided by
No Man is worth your tears,
And the one who is wont make you cry !!!!!
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Smashed, we all know you are going through a hard time hun - please stop feeling guilty. In any friendship, there are times when you give a lot, and times when you need to take. We are here to support you, so if you want to talk then please do, and don't feel bad about being down. (((hugs)))
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Smashed

    (((((hugs))))))


    xxxxx
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Smashed big time massive hugs for you
    ((((hugs))))

    and a dodgey threesome hug to make you giggle:grouphug:

    We all love you aswell :lovethoug

    you know where i am if you want to talk hun:A



    (no advise , remember i'm a numpty)
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • dzasterus
    dzasterus Posts: 11 Forumite
    hi smashed hope you get everything sorted, I might not know you as well as some of the others but after seeing this and realising even with your own problems you were able to post me a message yesterday welcoming me to the board and giving me some hope I felt I had to send back some of the positive vibes you sent to me

    All the best :grouphug:
    Proud to be dealing with my debts

    [STRIKE]04/08- £18,500[/STRIKE]
    04/08 - £16,537
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Smashed, we all know you are going through a hard time hun - please stop feeling guilty. In any friendship, there are times when you give a lot, and times when you need to take. We are here to support you, so if you want to talk then please do, and don't feel bad about being down. (((hugs)))

    Snaggles said it so well......(((hugs)))
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • Ephemera
    Ephemera Posts: 1,604 Forumite
    Thinking of you Smashed... (((hugs)))
    If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got.



  • smashedbooboo
    smashedbooboo Posts: 4,558 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Thank you all, I will be back shortly. I get my head together then somehow it just seems to head off in own direction for some reason. The hurdles are getting smaller. Its the soddin brick wall i smack when i jump over them. Never mind. Cant believe but am ready to sleep again. Am at work for 7 Thank you again x x x x x x x x x x x xx
    Night Owl Member No 1 :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Night owl member of the threesome. Rules are for fools to follow and wise men to be guided by
    No Man is worth your tears,
    And the one who is wont make you cry !!!!!
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hope the inspection isn't tomorrow, but remember you only started the job this week so it can't be down to you.
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • betti911
    betti911 Posts: 819 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Hey,
    I'm sorry you are having a tough time. Starting a new job can be really difficult. I started a new job in Feb of this yr and its been much much tougher than I imagined to the point that I questioned leaving my old job. Hang on in there... I hope things get better soon xxxx
    Jan 1st 07 Car loan £4830.46@12% Personal Loan £11,517@8% variable Overdraft £1500 July 2009Halifax-£0Debt free date 14th July 2009 :j
  • cat4772
    cat4772 Posts: 2,467 Forumite
    A - PLEASE please don't worry about yesterday - I wasn't able to use MSN properly (university servers were being 'a bit dodgy'). I'd also left my mobile at home... So I'll accept your apology if you accept mine???

    Of course, one day we'll manage to meet up and have lunch and a chat (and I'll get to see these shoes in Harvey Nicks that everyone says are so nice).

    I hope the inspection isn't today, but if it is you'll do brilliantly and like Z says, use it as an opportunity for them to tell you what your predecessor did wrong!

    Take car hun.

    Cat.x
    DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
    :onever attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
    :othe thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*

    March GC £113.53 / £325
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