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Ex - Refusing Closure of Joint Bank Account

Ex boyfriend refusing signature to close Joint bank account, and using cheque book, overdraft and cash advances to finance new relationship.

Advice Please... (His wages are now going into separate bank account with a different bank, so are mine. but bank say i am liable for £950 of Cash advanced cheques and temp overdraft over its limit.......)

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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Hiya - contact your bank as soon as possible and ask them to freeze the account - they should be able to stop all payments in and out of the account. Unfortunately you are jointly and severally liable for any joint debt, but at least if you get it frozen, it wont get any worse.

    Not a nice situation for you, hope you're okay.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • Once i freeze it, how do i go about closing it for good?
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Basically, some agreement will have to be made to clear the debit balance, as the account can only be closed when the balance is at nil.

    But not sure how you would actually force the account to be closed as I work for a bank but have never been involved in that part of the process, sorry. Someone else might know more, or you could maybe contact the CAB.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Though writing a cheque knowing there is no money to cover it is an offence of fraud. So if the ex is being uncooperative, there is always that avenue.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
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