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I'm back again - now ready to face the challenge

Well I have not been around for ages. Not since new year anyway.

I have been really depressed since new year and everthing got too much. I really didn't talk to anyone - either on here or off here.

Starting to feel a bit better and stronger now, so decided to show my ugly face again.

Can I first say sorry to everyone that went to the birmingham meet in Jan, I was supposed to go, but backed out without giving a reason and then did not even come back here till yesterday.

I am off sick from work at the moment and in quite a bit of pain... so bear with me.

I hope that all you lovely peope are well and can find it in your hearts to forgive me for abandoning you.

I am wanting to get my motivation back and be more committed this time.

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  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    hi silkglade - glad to see you back.

    Just take one day at a time and you'll grow stronger as the weeks go by.
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Cleosmum
    Cleosmum Posts: 2,673 Forumite
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    Hello :hello:
  • PENNYWISE_3
    PENNYWISE_3 Posts: 224 Forumite
    hiyah, welcome back, good to have you back!

    Maybe we should try and have another Brum meet sometime so you can come to that one?!;)
    Who says I have to be normal? :p
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,754 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    welcome back. baby steps...you'll get there. just make sure you take care of yourself.
    Mortgage OP 2026 £960/2000
    Mortgage balance: £31,460

    Make £50 a month Jan £20, Feb £0, March £31, Apr £20, May £30,
    Jun £0


  • ltm07
    ltm07 Posts: 966 Forumite
    silkglade wrote: »
    Well I have not been around for ages. Not since new year anyway.

    I have been really depressed since new year and everthing got too much. I really didn't talk to anyone - either on here or off here.

    Starting to feel a bit better and stronger now, so decided to show my ugly face again.

    Can I first say sorry to everyone that went to the birmingham meet in Jan, I was supposed to go, but backed out without giving a reason and then did not even come back here till yesterday.

    I am off sick from work at the moment and in quite a bit of pain... so bear with me.

    I hope that all you lovely peope are well and can find it in your hearts to forgive me for abandoning you.

    I am wanting to get my motivation back and be more committed this time.
    Welcome back & don't worry,we all get down now & again. All the best.
    Debt at LBM(July 1st 07)-£35,053.92 Debt on 1st Anniversary of LBM(July 1st 08)-£33,170.11 (31st January 09)-£32,318.73Paid off so far £2,735.19(7.8%) Average paid off p.m. £143.95 L/H supporter 115 DFD target February 2018 DFD March 2028. PAD(Started 28/12/08) £253.77 £10 a day Feb £110/£280 WEDDING Paid off £1,585.96 Saved Up £925.40
  • silkglade
    silkglade Posts: 559 Forumite
    Thank you for your support.

    I had a bit of a rough patch. but feeling a bit emotionly stronger. I feel that I did let some people on here down though.

    To be honest feeling a bit vulnerable still.. but I will get there.

    :o
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    you haven't let anyone down. Don't you worry, we're all here for you.
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    Hi Silkglade. Nobody feels let down by you so stop worrying. We are all virtual friends on here and give each other emotional support and help when they need it.

    Glad your starting to feel better, hopefully it'll be a quick road to recovery for you. Big hugs
  • silkglade
    silkglade Posts: 559 Forumite
    Ok what to do now...

    I have my original debt diary still floating around carry on there, carry on on this thread or start a new one?

    What do you all think, which is best.
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