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DFW Daily Chat 20 March
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skint_spice wrote: »do you mean "what if" I weren't a big feartie? I know I should go for it and I'm building up to it but need to do it soon before some big blonde comes along and snaps him up. Gorgeous, funny and thoughtful and already gets on with all my family and friends - too good to be true and no he's not gay!
Quick snap him up before anyone else does. What about approaching it indirectly like " I could do with a night out but no one is up for it"? See if he takes the bait...Failing that you could always jump on him in the lift at work, snog his face off and then when the doors open walk out and act like nothing happened. See what he does then :rotfl:But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.0 -
skint_spice wrote: »what if it doesn't work out? and ruins years of friendship... and what if I think he's interested and he's not....:o just too many what ifs!
If he's not interested, and he's a good friend, I'm sure he can let you know without hurting you.
Equally, he's not much of a friend if can't remain friends after a relationship. All breakups don't have to be bitter."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
skint_spice wrote: »Z? have you been on a date yet? we still have 3 months! I thought you mentioned someone recently though...
ooops - cross post!
tell us more...
Nothing more to tell. I have a "prospect" and I'm working on things..."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
Quick snap him up before anyone else does. What about approaching it indirectly like " I could do with a night out but no one is up for it"? See if he takes the bait...Failing that you could always jump on him in the lift at work, snog his face off and then when the doors open walk out and act like nothing happened. See what he does then :rotfl:
Wish I had the balls to try that one:D
you been watching those films again?:p:heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls0 -
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Thank you all for the advice and kind words but we don't work together and if I asked him to go out for a drink that wouldn't be unusual but....we'd go out for a drink! need to snog him in a lift... so will have to find one...mmmm...got me thinking now! I will of course be highly upset if anyone tries to get in said lift with us!
Z - spill! i need to go to sleep soon!Mortgage OP 2025 £7050/7000Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000
Mortgage balance: £34,965
Money making challenge £78/400
”Do what others won’t early in life so you can do what others can’t later in life” (stolen from Gally Girl)0 -
Nothing more to tell. I have a "prospect" and I'm working on things...
we will need to check she's good enough for you! does she seem keen then??Mortgage OP 2025 £7050/7000Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000
Mortgage balance: £34,965
Money making challenge £78/400
”Do what others won’t early in life so you can do what others can’t later in life” (stolen from Gally Girl)0
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