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Couple of questions

Hi I have just made my first payment to CCCS.
Mbna have been trying to get hold of me via phone when I asked for them to only write, should I call em back? MBNA have got hold of my DH (he has an account to) they called him at work and said he has to increase his payments he was good and told them that it has to go via cccs which they were not happy with.
First direct have been sods and said that to freeze interest they want hubby and i to join our debts together and sign a new agreement, I said no, so they are sending me a final demand.
I am just beginning to loose heart right now.
I have sent no requests for CAA, should I do this?
Debt free and plan on staying that way!!!!

Comments

  • CCCS_Sarah
    CCCS_Sarah Posts: 1,555 Organisation Representative
    Hi Mummytofour,

    Stick with it! Don’t let them have anymore money and it should all go quiet after a couple of payments as many people on here will tell you.
    If you are finding the calls stressful, send them a letter requesting they remove your number from their systems.
    I am a Debt Counsellor that works for the CCCS and have specific permission from Martin, to post on these boards to try and help those in debt. Read more information on the CCCS and what it does in the Debt Problems: What to do and where to get help article.

    CCCS is a registered charity, and there is no charge whatsoever for any of the services we provide to our clients. We take great pride in offering first class help and advice, but we only offer this where we have been able to fully explore and understand your circumstances with you. We want to help you understand these choices and their possible implications but not make them for you.
  • dubsey
    dubsey Posts: 357 Forumite
    My sister is with the CCCS and also had loads of calls every day from various creditors. As Sarah has said, they do all calm down but some do take longer than others. Some of them have threatened my sis with all sorts of things, some have said they don't accept the CCCS and she will also need to set up DDs. She just kept repeating the mantra, we're with the CCCS and eventually it stopped. You've come a long way, so definately don't give up now!
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    * Bows down to cccs Sarah*
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • Merlot
    Merlot Posts: 1,890 Forumite
    Mummy2four,

    Change your phone number then no creditor will call you, its free to do so, and get your OH to write to MBNA (they are sh*ts) and tell them to communicate via writing only and send by recorded delivery, if they continue to phone your OH at work, see advice from the FOS

    As Sarah said stick with it, and I say change your number today, that'll teach them, no-one should be made to feel wary of picking up there own phone.

    http://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/
    "Wisdom doesn't automatically come with old age. Nothing does, except wrinkles. It's true, some wines improve with age. But only if the grapes were good in the first place." — Abigail Van Buren
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
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    I would tell MBNA that is they keep phoning your OH at work he is likely to lose his job, and then he will be even less able to pay his debts.....:D
    chev
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • Merlot
    Merlot Posts: 1,890 Forumite
    Good one chevalier, but it could be true, I know my OH company does not tolerate any personal phone calls unless absolute emergency.

    Merlot.x.
    "Wisdom doesn't automatically come with old age. Nothing does, except wrinkles. It's true, some wines improve with age. But only if the grapes were good in the first place." — Abigail Van Buren
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Don't cave and pay them anything other than the CCCS amount,
    If you let them get to you and give them something to keep them at bay then they'll know that you do have the means to pay and they'll NEVER leave you alone then!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • mummytofour
    mummytofour Posts: 2,636 Forumite
    Thanks everybody. I had a call from MBNA today and ansewerd it they tried the your in arrears lark with me and I was as nice as pie, told them that they had had token payments and they needed to wait for cccs payment etc, also said please take my number off your books.
    Debt free and plan on staying that way!!!!
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