Am I in debt crisis yet?

Adrasteia01

As food is only listed at £100 a month (for at least 2 ppl and a cat) I'd say some of the excess is likely to be going on groceries/toiletries/dinners out.

There are also things like luxuries, gifts (birthdays/xmas/weddings), and clothing not listed in the SOA.

bank_of_slate

Hi Gabriella

I was in a mess and decided not to tell my other half because of course I could handle it myself (yeah right!)
Anyway, he found my hidden statements and was furious with me, far more furious than if I'd been honest and up front and explained.
Just beware that the stress alone of keeping it to yourself, intercepting the post every day and panicking about what the postman will bring is far worse than being out in the open...just a word of warning!
...Linda xx