I am so tired

smashedbooboo

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Bella79

all i can say is im so sorry your feeling like this im sure theres lots of peeps on here who can offer more constuctive advice than me , Just wanted to let you know i know how it feels to be cheated on x

Jenna

hey hun, it's no worries, make yourself a cup of tea and take your time, we'll still be here when u post next xx

MissEyre

Aw, hon, have a cup of tea with a couple of sugars, some hugs (((()))) and tell us the rest xxx

setmefree

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tingworthy

I'm sick of people stamping on my fingers as I try desperately to crawl back up, and i'm so,so tired of spending every minute of my life working or worrying to get myself out of this mess.
I don't need a cup of tea, I need 2 bottles of red wine. At least then I can forget this sh-t for a while. I'm trying so hard to turn things round, i've cut up my credit cards and cut back so very, very much this month and i'm beginning to think, yes, maybe I can get myself out of this, and then the credit card bills arrived this morning and my hopes are once more dashed on the jagged rocks. They are charging me mre than my minimum payment because I went over my limit, i''ve had enough. I honestly feel like laying down and letting them take what I have. Pass me the soding corkscrew.
Soz to moan,
ta. tingworthy.X

always_amazed

hey sorry you feel like this.

You've done so so well cutting up the cards; all I can say is that by doing that you CAN'T spend any more on them (unless you are an eejit like me and had them registered on iTunes and Amazon; they're done now);
so if they stay cut up you simply won't have another month like this again.

Moan all you like I think it's important.
For what it's worth I too feel rubbish; I cut up my card this month so am yet to see the benefits.

setmefree

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tingworthy

Thanks you two.
I should be back fighting tomorrow, it just knocked me getting those big charges today, it's a b-st-rd knowing so many of us are in this situation, but it's good to know there's support on here from each other. Can't wait for the day when i'm coming on encouraging, advising and reassuring, haven't quite got that in me at the mo',
ta. tingworthy. x
ps - ta for not telling me I can't have me cheap plonk whilst watching Shameless later tonight, I NEEEEEEED the relief!!!

always_amazed

Of course you can have cheap plonk and watch shameless.
I'm going to watch shameless but sans any plonk, cheap or not. Because I'm saving myself for a big night out on 2nd Feb.

It's so tough; I got knocked when I realised I'd overspent on my CC. I thought I hadn't (HOW can 5 transactions be £300; then I slowly realised maybe it wasn't five but fifteen etc etc etc) and I felt so demoralised.

But at least there is shameless on telly.