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  • Rob5342
    Rob5342 Posts: 3,124 Forumite
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    Yes ignore everything until you get the defaults,while you are waiting put some money into savings to cover emergencies. Once defaulted then engage with whoever is chasing payment and start paying, there's not need to rush through, wait until they contact you instead of actively contacting them.

  • Yes don't talk to your creditors, and in the future remember you don't discuss with them what amount you should pay, you decide the amount and just set up a standing order to pay them.

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  • sourcrates
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    Basically that`s the plan, yes.

    Its very likely that your debts will be sold on to 3rd parties, so the creditors you have now may not be the ones you end up paying back.

    Most debt buyers have their own websites, where you can make payment arrangements and/or, one off payments, you don`t have to do a budget, but a generic one showing what you want to pay, is the best choice.

    Remember, all the rules go out of the window once a debt defaults, you are not obligated to provide any details to any 3rd party, or maintain regular payments, you can do so ad hoc if you wish, you are in control from that point onwards, so whatever the question is, the answer is yes.

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  • Rob5342
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    edited 30 September at 8:38AM

    And when you do start paying make sure you do it by bank transfer or standing order so you are in control. Debt purchasers generally try and push debit card or direct debit as it gives them more control and makes it more difficult for you to change the amount.

    You mention opening a dialogue but there should be no discussion involved, decide what you will be paying, inform them, set up the standing order and that's it. If they make too much fuss about wanting income and expenditure details then just make something up thst arrives at the figure you want to pay to get them off your back.

  • RAS
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    Basically, yes.

    After default a few creditors keep debt in house but most either assign or sell to debt collectors. Letters about assigned debt refer to "our client".

    Most assignees or buyers will send details of your account with reference numbers and how to set up payments.

    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • Thank you so so much everyone for your advice. You’ve really helped to calm my nerves and focus. This is totally the right path for me. Today is day 1 with most due direct debits that I cancelled being due today. I’ve been paid and transferred money into my EF and I’ve composed my affordability complaints which I’ll get sent off. Feeling in control on pay day for once!

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