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  • sourcrates
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    Moved from DMP support thread to main forum.

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  • fatbelly
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    Hi. Yes it's Business Debtline for the business debts. It sounds like some of these debts may have joint liability or be in your partner's name. Can you let us know or we'll assume everything is in your name alone.

    What is the attitude of family and friends? Do we treat them as priority?

    Statement of affairs would be useful

    https://lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php

  • BananaB101
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    Hi,

    Thanks for your response. Yes there is a mix of liability here. I am personally liable for capital on tap, half of the GC finance loan, admiral loan and both the Virgin and M and S credit cards.

    Family and friends are actually all stating they can wait so not priority but obviously do need to have some sort of plan to pay them back.


    I will have a go at the statement of affairs, feel like I’ve been filling out endless forms! Think the amount of admin is one of the hardest parts at dealing with it all 🥴

  • RAS
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    HI, how do you mean, you are responsible for half the GC finance loan? Do you mean that it is a joint loan?

    If so, you are both wholly responsible for the whole debt, as if one you fails to pay the creditor can go for the other for the whole sum. That's what a joint loan id.

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