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Can't find Mortgage options for separating couples

Hi formum peeps,

I have a house with no mortgage, and have separated from my wife.

I am looking at mortgage options for a property for me to live in, and don't see I would be classed as a first time buyer.

I don't know what products i should be looking at or what the implications are.

I do not want to sell the existing house as my wife and adult children live there and they need a home (it's amicable right now!).

Appreciate any advice, or information from anyone with experience of this..

Comments

  • MyRealNameToo
    MyRealNameToo Posts: 5,253 Forumite
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    You're effectively considered as remortgaging but anyway, speak to a decent mortgage broker and they'll give you the options and deal with this kind of stuff for you.

  • born_again
    born_again Posts: 25,137 Forumite
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    Certainly not a 1st time buyer if you have ever had a mortgage.

    Life in the slow lane
  • gwynlas
    gwynlas Posts: 2,638 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper

    What can you afford on your own salary? You might be stymied by your age and lack of substantial deposit

    Whilst it is admirable that you do not want to put your wife and adult children out of their home it would be preferable to divorce and seek a financial order detailing home value, sharing of savings pensions etc,

    Your children should be making their own way in life at some point and a large family home with associated upkeep and bills might be more than your wife will be able to manage.

  • ACG
    ACG Posts: 25,078 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper I've helped Parliament

    It would just be a remortgage.

    Pretty much everything should be available to you - bar first time buyer mortgages - assuming age, income etc stacks up.

    I am a Mortgage Adviser
    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a mortgage adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
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