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Approaching 60 Riddled with Debt SWF

Hi 
Ive been here before but I will start with my new story

I am Fay 59 approaching 60 in April, around 38k in debt, paying Peter to pay Paul,
Live single but have sponsor a Ukraine. I became single last Feb but he didnt pay his way most of the time so I ended up using cards then consolidating with two loans and spending again.
I have 2 dogs and 2 cats. 
I rent my home lucky social housing.
I work partime 3 days week and get some disability and Universal credit, 
I have reached out to Step change and really dont want a DRO been viewing here about the default system. Will post a Income and expenditure shortly
Debt 38k just about to embark on a DRO
Had biatric surgery was 135k 2016 now 97kilo 22.1.20 up to 106 kilo 12.1.21 98kilo 20/1/26

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  • SpireCaptain
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    Welcome back. We're all here to help and support you again. 
  • fatbelly
    fatbelly Posts: 24,137
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    Robbing Peter to pay Paul is when you know you need a different strategy.

    And as you have found out, debt consolidation doesn't work.

    Have Stepchange recommended a DRO? What concerns you about it?
  • fay66
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    yes i need to tweek my budget i think for that but will do.
    Debt 38k just about to embark on a DRO
    Had biatric surgery was 135k 2016 now 97kilo 22.1.20 up to 106 kilo 12.1.21 98kilo 20/1/26
  • fay66
    fay66 Posts: 749
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    Welcome back. We're all here to help and support you again. 
    thanks so much been a while
    Debt 38k just about to embark on a DRO
    Had biatric surgery was 135k 2016 now 97kilo 22.1.20 up to 106 kilo 12.1.21 98kilo 20/1/26
  • fay66
    fay66 Posts: 749
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    well ive filled in a lot of dro form for stepchange feeling better im no longer a ukraine host therefore will be able to send bank statements reflecting reduction of income. im on a breathing space until March with most creditors . 1 has failed to acknowledge which is a credit union
    Debt 38k just about to embark on a DRO
    Had biatric surgery was 135k 2016 now 97kilo 22.1.20 up to 106 kilo 12.1.21 98kilo 20/1/26
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