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Persistent debts built up, 0% periods ending on cards mean its unaffordable - DMP

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  • Will do. Household bills come from a separate account with a monthly standing order to pay into that as well as using pots with my bank for splitting bills out from spending automatically when paid, so that should make things nice and clear to see if my budget is realistic - aware they can be a bit hard to nail down without a few months records, which is tricky with how disorganised my spending has been while struggling to hit repayments. Hopefully that can change now.

    Thanks all for the advice. What do I need to be on the lookout for now, amidst the deluge of post I suspect will come my way from creditors, is it just called a notice of default or similar along with details of the company who are managing collections from then on? I then contact them in writing and ask for payment details for a standing order and the amount I will pay them. Templates somewhere?
  • Congratulations on your lightbulb moment - you are now in control of your situation and can start tackling it! 

    Yes - you are going to get a LOT of post! Remember that you can tell creditors that they can only contact you by hard-copy post if this suits you - it does for a lot of folk as that means that everything arrives via one route and they can create set times to deal with the admin side of things without getting emails and text messages arriving at all hours. Once you have informed a creditor that you will not speak to them on the telephone, you can block their phone numbers. 

    Once you have stopped the payments, I believe that the next "important" bit of post you will receive from each creditor is the Default Notice - but that might take some time to arrive, and there is likely to be a lot of "chaff" in the meantime some of which will be designed to intimidate you into paying. If you're unsure, you can post in this thread the nature of what you have received and someone will be able to tell you whether it is relevant or can simply be ignored.
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  • Invertigo said:
    So, updates from last night.

    Dmp has been cancelled along with all direct debits to creditors.
    All other direct debits have been moved over (or a move has been requested) to a totally unrelated account. My final salary payment goes into my old account this week and will be moved immediately but all future payments are to the new account.
    Ive done a very rough budget and I believe I could afford up to 1400 a month repayments, however following the advice above I’ll be limiting it to around 1000 max and putting the rest into a settlement fund in a cash isa

    Does the above seem the right consideration? Next steps seem to just be wait for defaults and then set up payment plans? I’ll look to do a SOA over the next couple of weeks and post it up.
    You need to work on your budget so that you are saving more than half of the surplus. Max to creditors should be around £600, preferably £400. Remember that they have no means of checking it. You can post a draft on here for others to critique. It's important that you get this right.

    Personally I feel that sharing a SOA with creditors helps build a story to aid a F&F settlement down the line (always adjust it down each year to cover cost of living) but you don't have to share it, it's your choice. You don't need to rush this - you will have at least three months - but start now and refine it. This is a long game.
  • Rob5342
    Rob5342 Posts: 2,877 Forumite
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    edited 18 December 2025 at 10:22AM
    Invertigo said:
    Thanks all for the advice. What do I need to be on the lookout for now, amidst the deluge of post I suspect will come my way from creditors, is it just called a notice of default or similar along with details of the company who are managing collections from then on? I then contact them in writing and ask for payment details for a standing order and the amount I will pay them. Templates somewhere?

    You will get a load of letters, text messages etc telling you that you have missed payments, and and at some point your account might get referred to a debt collector. There may be threats of court action etc but until the debt has defaulted that can't happen so you can just ignore all of that. The important bit comes when you are sent a default notice which tells you what you need to pay to avoid a default, so ignore that as you want a default. Some time after that you should get a letter saying the debt has defaulted and saying the full amount is due, don't get alarmed by that as it's just standard wording. When you are at that point you can start thinking about starting your repayments, there's no need to rush though, you can just wait until someone writes wanting payment. Normally the letter will have details of how to pay and there is often a website you can log in to to set up the payment plan. Make sure you pay by standing order, not debit card or direct debit as they often prefer, as that keeps you in control of the payments instead of them. 

    It's all a bit of a game and the better you can play it the better the outcome will be for you. Essentially you need two plans, the real one that you keep to yourself that has your actual figures and includes what you are saving for settlement offers etc, and a second one that you show to your creditors to make you look worse off than you actually are. You want to create the impression that you can't afford much and that it will take them a long time to get their money back, so when you do offer something they are more likely to accept it. Debt purchasers pay something like 10% or 15% for debts so can easily afford to settle them for a lot less than their value. They'll try and make out that they are hard done by and are being generous by giving you a 10% discount, so don't feel any guilt about using the same tactics towards them.

    Once the debts have been with purchasers for a while you might consider asking for the CCA, if they can't produce that then they can't take legal action to enforce it and you can just ignore it. You may also be able to make affordability complaints aganst the original lenders to recover some of the interest you paid.
  • dprovan
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    sorry for the silly question, how do you go about setting up new direct debits in the new account. Do you need to contact all companies individually (utilities, spotify etc etc) to do it with them manually, or is there an easier way? I know we dont want to do it automatically
  • Gandalf644
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    edited 20 December 2025 at 7:39AM
    dprovan said:
    sorry for the silly question, how do you go about setting up new direct debits in the new account. Do you need to contact all companies individually (utilities, spotify etc etc) to do it with them manually, or is there an easier way? I know we dont want to do it automatically

    Some utilities websites have the facility to change the origin of DD payments, usually in the 'My Account' part. So you may be able to change the DD's online. Likewise for your other priority DD's (telecomms, internet etc).
    Otherwise it is a case of contacting the companies and getting them to change source of the DD. 
    I would question whether Spotify is a priority spend though?
     
  • Rob5342
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    Most companies I've dealt with let you update the direct debit in your online account, there are some old fashioned ones where you have to phone thyme. 
  • Invertigo
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    edited 6 February at 11:07AM

    Hello all

    So a bit of an update, started getting notices of defaults as expected, along with some accounts now being suspended etc which is all as expected.

    Done a creditor facing SOA to start looking at repayments, this doesnt take into account my partners part time work income but the expenses are correct, so our 'real' budget is probably 1k a month more (the idea being to dump as much as possible into savings)

    Monthly Budget Summary

    Amount(£)

    Total monthly income

    3,750

    Monthly expenses (incl. HP & secured loans)

    3,275

    Available for debt repayments

    475

    UNsecured debt repayments

    1,940

    Amount short for making debt repayments

    -1,465

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary

    Amount(£)

    Total Assets (things you own)

    273,700

    Total Secured & HP Debt

    -205,000

    Total Unsecured Debt

    -72,145

    Net Assets

    -3,445

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household

    2

    Number of children in household

    0

    Number of cars owned

    1

    Income, Expense, Debt & Asset Details

    Income

    Amount(£)

    Monthly income after tax

    3750

    Partners monthly income

    0

    Benefits

    0

    Other income

    0

    Total monthly income

    3750

    Expenses

    Amount(£)

    Mortgage

    900

    Secured/HP loan payments

    0

    Rent

    0

    Management charge (leasehold property)

    0

    Council tax

    190

    Electricity

    120

    Gas

    100

    Oil

    0

    Water Rates

    50

    Telephone (land line)

    0

    Mobile phone

    30

    TV Licence

    15

    Satellite/Cable TV

    20

    Internet services

    35

    Groceries etc.

    600

    Clothing

    150

    Petrol/diesel

    50

    Road tax

    40

    Car Insurance

    80

    Car maintenance (including MOT)

    75

    Car Parking

    0

    Other travel

    30

    Childcare/nursery

    0

    Other child related expenses

    0

    Medical (prescriptions, dentists, opticians etc.)

    50

    Pet Insurance/Vet bills

    40

    Buildings Insurance

    30

    Contents Insurance

    30

    Life Assurance

    40

    Other Insurance

    20

    Presents (birthday, christmas etc.)

    50

    Haircuts

    30

    Entertainment

    50

    Holiday

    150

    Emergency Fund

    300

    Total monthly expenses

    3275

    Secured & HP Debt Description

    Debt(£)

    Monthly(£)

    APR(%)

    Mortgage

    205000

    (900)

    2.52

    Secured & HP Debt totals

    205000

    -

    -

    Unsecured Debt Description

    Debt(£)

    Monthly(£)

    APR(%)

    Loan

    17858

    337

    9.9

    Loan

    4825

    179

    9.9

    Loan

    2493

    131

    0

    CC

    6678

    262

    20

    CC

    6310

    158

    20

    CC

    4030

    112

    20

    CC

    4615

    115

    20

    CC

    3605

    191

    20

    CC

    16992

    408

    20

    CC

    4739

    47

    20

    Unsecured Debt totals

    72145

    1940

    -

    Asset Description

    Value (£)

    Cash

    200

    House Value (Gross)

    270000

    Shares and bonds

    0

    Car(s)

    3500

    Other assets (e.g. endowments, jewellery etc)

    0

    Total Assets

    273700

    Debt Details & Offer to Creditors

    Secured & HP Debt Description

    Debt(£)

    Monthly(£)

    Mortgage

    205000

    (900)

    Secured & HP Debt totals

    205000

    -

    Unsecured Debt Description

    Debt(£)

    Offer(£)

    Loan

    17858

    117.58

    Loan

    4825

    31.77

    Loan

    2493

    16.41

    CC

    6678

    43.97

    CC

    6310

    41.54

    CC

    4030

    26.53

    CC

    4615

    30.38

    CC

    3605

    23.74

    CC

    16992

    111.87

    CC

    4739

    31.2

    Unsecured Debt totals

    72145

    474.99

  • Invertigo
    Invertigo Posts: 29 Forumite
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    First letter fron Barclaycard today informing me theyve registered a default on my account and requesting payment in full. I understand this is typical and required legally, should be passed on to sone form of debt management company next which is when I start repaying?


    Great timing to get this in order too as our boiler blew a month ago, not sure how Id have managed finding 2.5k if I hadnt been saving (equally its put a dent in the ISA…)

  • Rob5342
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    You don't have to pass it on to anyone. Once debts have defaulted you can start paying them. You can either wait for them all to default and then start paying with Stepchane or Payplan, or manage it yourself and start paying as you default. My own experience is that self managing is very easy and that Stepchange just complicate a simple process as you have to keep them happy instead of just paying what you want.

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