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Sitting at a crossroads!

momentoftruth
Posts: 9 Forumite

Hi all,
I've been paying off debts through step change since July 24, I've recently greatly reduced my DMP payments from August 25 to £58 per month (was paying £800 for 10 months but that was crippling me and left me with zero wiggle room for if things went wrong then £400 when reviewed after leaving my 2nd job).
I'm due to receive a large amount of money about 17k next year (gift from parents) and reduced my payments hoping it would make getting more reasonable settlement offers, how long did it take for those who have had settlement offers to come through as I've had none yet offering a discount. What do you recommend as a starting point and am I better to hold off for a while and keep making just token payments?
I'm considering asking for CCAs but as the loans/CCs were all in the last 3-4 years I imagine they'll be able to come up with them. AA might be one as its passed though the post office, link and then to antelope.
I've also contacted the Financial Ombudsman about 3 of the debts (zopa, AA and MBNA) as I feel I shouldn't have been lent them due to my already high level of debt but not sure if this will be effective. Has anyone had any luck with this route?
My debts left are;
Zopa loans - 15k (two loans - 10k & 5k)
Halifax (now with Link) - 7k
AA loans (now with antelope)- 7k
Tesco cc - 5K
Nationwide cc - 5k
Mbna cc (now with link) - 4k
Thanks for the support, this forum is amazing 👏
I've been paying off debts through step change since July 24, I've recently greatly reduced my DMP payments from August 25 to £58 per month (was paying £800 for 10 months but that was crippling me and left me with zero wiggle room for if things went wrong then £400 when reviewed after leaving my 2nd job).
I'm due to receive a large amount of money about 17k next year (gift from parents) and reduced my payments hoping it would make getting more reasonable settlement offers, how long did it take for those who have had settlement offers to come through as I've had none yet offering a discount. What do you recommend as a starting point and am I better to hold off for a while and keep making just token payments?
I'm considering asking for CCAs but as the loans/CCs were all in the last 3-4 years I imagine they'll be able to come up with them. AA might be one as its passed though the post office, link and then to antelope.
I've also contacted the Financial Ombudsman about 3 of the debts (zopa, AA and MBNA) as I feel I shouldn't have been lent them due to my already high level of debt but not sure if this will be effective. Has anyone had any luck with this route?
My debts left are;
Zopa loans - 15k (two loans - 10k & 5k)
Halifax (now with Link) - 7k
AA loans (now with antelope)- 7k
Tesco cc - 5K
Nationwide cc - 5k
Mbna cc (now with link) - 4k
Thanks for the support, this forum is amazing 👏
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Forgot to add, Nationwide, zopa and Tesco haven't yet sold the debt on so am I better waiting until this happens or are they likely just to hold onto the debt?0
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If you fill in a Statement of Affairs (SOA) you'll get some assistance with finding areas where your spending could be potentially reduced to give you more financial space.
https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php
Fill it in, and then paste it in the MSE format.0 -
I hope I've done this right!
[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 2600Partners monthly income after tax....... 0Benefits................................ 0Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 2600[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 500Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 100Electricity............................. 75Gas..................................... 75Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 0Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 50TV Licence.............................. 0Satellite/Cable TV...................... 30Internet Services....................... 40Groceries etc. ......................... 200Clothing................................ 50Petrol/diesel........................... 200Road tax................................ 15Car Insurance........................... 60Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 50Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 5Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 20Contents insurance...................... 5Life assurance ......................... 0Other insurance......................... 15Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 30Haircuts................................ 5Entertainment........................... 50Holiday................................. 50Emergency fund.......................... 50[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 1675[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 120000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 1000Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 121000[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 12000....(500)......3[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 12000.....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRDMP............................43000.....58........0[b]Total unsecured debts..........43000.....58........- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 2,600Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,675Available for debt repayments........... 925Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 58[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 867[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 121,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -12,000Total Unsecured debt.................... -43,000[b]Net Assets.............................. 66,000[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]0 -
momentoftruth said:I hope I've done this right!
[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 2600Partners monthly income after tax....... 0Benefits................................ 0Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 2600[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 500Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 100Electricity............................. 75Gas..................................... 75Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 0Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 50TV Licence.............................. 0Satellite/Cable TV...................... 30Internet Services....................... 40Groceries etc. ......................... 200Clothing................................ 50Petrol/diesel........................... 200Road tax................................ 15Car Insurance........................... 60Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 50Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 5Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 20Contents insurance...................... 5Life assurance ......................... 0Other insurance......................... 15Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 30Haircuts................................ 5Entertainment........................... 50Holiday................................. 50Emergency fund.......................... 50[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 1675[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 120000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 1000Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 121000[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 12000....(500)......3[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 12000.....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRDMP............................43000.....58........0[b]Total unsecured debts..........43000.....58........- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 2,600Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,675Available for debt repayments........... 925Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 58[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 867[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 121,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -12,000Total Unsecured debt.................... -43,000[b]Net Assets.............................. 66,000[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]0 -
momentoftruth said:momentoftruth said:I hope I've done this right!
[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 2600Partners monthly income after tax....... 0Benefits................................ 0Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 2600[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 500Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 100Electricity............................. 75Gas..................................... 75Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 0Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 50TV Licence.............................. 0Satellite/Cable TV...................... 30Internet Services....................... 40Groceries etc. ......................... 200Clothing................................ 50Petrol/diesel........................... 200Road tax................................ 15Car Insurance........................... 60Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 50Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 5Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 20Contents insurance...................... 5Life assurance ......................... 0Other insurance......................... 15Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 30Haircuts................................ 5Entertainment........................... 50Holiday................................. 50Emergency fund.......................... 50[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 1675[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 120000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 1000Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 121000[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 12000....(500)......3[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 12000.....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRDMP............................43000.....58........0[b]Total unsecured debts..........43000.....58........- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 2,600Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,675Available for debt repayments........... 925Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 58[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 867[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 121,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -12,000Total Unsecured debt.................... -43,000[b]Net Assets.............................. 66,000[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]
Some thoughts
You have satellite/cable... But no TV licence? Is the mobile a contract with a handset being paid off, or are you out of contact so could switch to a cheaper SIM only deal.
You've got £50 a month of emergency fund, but no savings?
You allegedly have £925 left over every month - where is that money going? If you threw a lot of that at debt payments you'd have this cracked in a few years.0 -
momentoftruth said:Hi all,
I've been paying off debts through step change since July 24, I've recently greatly reduced my DMP payments from August 25 to £58 per month (was paying £800 for 10 months but that was crippling me and left me with zero wiggle room for if things went wrong then £400 when reviewed after leaving my 2nd job).
I'm due to receive a large amount of money about 17k next year (gift from parents) and reduced my payments hoping it would make getting more reasonable settlement offers, how long did it take for those who have had settlement offers to come through as I've had none yet offering a discount. What do you recommend as a starting point and am I better to hold off for a while and keep making just token payments?
I'm considering asking for CCAs but as the loans/CCs were all in the last 3-4 years I imagine they'll be able to come up with them. AA might be one as its passed though the post office, link and then to antelope.
I've also contacted the Financial Ombudsman about 3 of the debts (zopa, AA and MBNA) as I feel I shouldn't have been lent them due to my already high level of debt but not sure if this will be effective. Has anyone had any luck with this route?
My debts left are;
Zopa loans - 15k (two loans - 10k & 5k)
Halifax (now with Link) - 7k
AA loans (now with antelope)- 7k
Tesco cc - 5K
Nationwide cc - 5k
Mbna cc (now with link) - 4k
Thanks for the support, this forum is amazing 👏
£58 per month amongst eight creditors will concentrate their minds and shouldn't put you in hardship. Think of preparing an offer for January 2027, just before end of tax year. Make sure you start low, around 20%. MBNA will be likely to accept. TESCO won't - they appear to keep in house and play hardball in my experience so just reduce your payments further.1 -
where's the supposed £867 left each month, where is that going? You should be able to pay a larger DMP each month is that is really free and not spent elsewhereDebt £7976 | Savings £350Aims: Buy first home 2026-8. £20k deposit0
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Another one to note that the nice round numbers suggest the SOA is based largely on what you think or would like to be the sums.
Get out the last 6 months' statements and allocate every item to one of the budget heads. Please. Even the mortgage. They can hide the lunch-time sarnie, the latte habit or the car repair costs that are higher than the budget.
By ignoring the calculations for your actual monthly debt payment and entering the DMP value, you've left a lot of confused people who think you have a lot of excess.
Reference the mortgage, you go into your current provider's web-site 3-6 months before the end of the fix and select the best new fix you can find. Do not try to re-mortgage as that will be very costly.
If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
ayupmeduck said:where's the supposed £867 left each month, where is that going? You should be able to pay a larger DMP each month is that is really free and not spent elsewhere0
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RAS said:Another one to note that the nice round numbers suggest the SOA is based largely on what you think or would like to be the sums.
Get out the last 6 months' statements and allocate every item to one of the budget heads. Please. Even the mortgage. They can hide the lunch-time sarnie, the latte habit or the car repair costs that are higher than the budget.
By ignoring the calculations for your actual monthly debt payment and entering the DMP value, you've left a lot of confused people who think you have a lot of excess.
Reference the mortgage, you go into your current provider's web-site 3-6 months before the end of the fix and select the best new fix you can find. Do not try to re-mortgage as that will be very costly.
I had been paying £800 to stepchange monthly but dropped this down to see if I could get better settlement offers but not sure if that's the right thing to do if it's going to take a long time0
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