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Advice needed please

Icecold49
Posts: 4 Newbie

Hello
I have got myself into a situation that will soon become unmanageable.
While I am meeting all my commitments at the moment, and still have just about enough to get by, I feel like I am teetering on the brink before things collapse around me. This is causing me a lot of anxiety and sleepless nights.
Whilst I am married, the house is fully in my wife's name. We do not have any "connected accounts". I give her money every month though as my half of the household bills, and some I pay for in full. Aside from my car (balance of @4500 - car is now worth @ £1500) all my debts are unsecured loans or credit cards and I have no significant assets.
I was in an IVA in the past which completed successfully but I am now in a situation where I may need to go into a DMP - either independently or through Stepchange.
Despite having a few existing cards/loans, in quick succession at start of this year, I got 2 Natwest Cards, each with £10,000 limit (0% Balance transfer for 12 months and 16 months respectively) and a Barclaycard with £10,000 (32 month Balance Transfer). I did use these as wisely as possible and cleared balances, and have been paying more than the minimum to each one every month. However as the 12 month limit is coming up, I am going to be hit with a huge increase in the minimum payments and I can't afford it. Effectively all the money I have paid back will have been of no consequence as it will be replaced by interest. I suspect I have an argument for irresponsible lending from both companies (at least) - but having paid no interest to them yet, I am unsure what they could do?
It looks like I have around £500-£600 every month to allocate to all my unsecured debts (I am currently paying £1200+ a month.
I have set up a new email address and mobile number as a contact point for the various accounts.
I don't know......
a/ whether just to stop paying the cards & loans now by cancelling the Direct Debits and wait for the emails/letters to start and saving the money in anticipation of the DMP starting/being accepted
b/ write to the companies first re the affordability/irresponsible lending
c/ whether to try this on my own or whether to go to one of the charities
Any/all advice appreciated
I have got myself into a situation that will soon become unmanageable.
While I am meeting all my commitments at the moment, and still have just about enough to get by, I feel like I am teetering on the brink before things collapse around me. This is causing me a lot of anxiety and sleepless nights.
Whilst I am married, the house is fully in my wife's name. We do not have any "connected accounts". I give her money every month though as my half of the household bills, and some I pay for in full. Aside from my car (balance of @4500 - car is now worth @ £1500) all my debts are unsecured loans or credit cards and I have no significant assets.
I was in an IVA in the past which completed successfully but I am now in a situation where I may need to go into a DMP - either independently or through Stepchange.
Despite having a few existing cards/loans, in quick succession at start of this year, I got 2 Natwest Cards, each with £10,000 limit (0% Balance transfer for 12 months and 16 months respectively) and a Barclaycard with £10,000 (32 month Balance Transfer). I did use these as wisely as possible and cleared balances, and have been paying more than the minimum to each one every month. However as the 12 month limit is coming up, I am going to be hit with a huge increase in the minimum payments and I can't afford it. Effectively all the money I have paid back will have been of no consequence as it will be replaced by interest. I suspect I have an argument for irresponsible lending from both companies (at least) - but having paid no interest to them yet, I am unsure what they could do?
It looks like I have around £500-£600 every month to allocate to all my unsecured debts (I am currently paying £1200+ a month.
I have set up a new email address and mobile number as a contact point for the various accounts.
I don't know......
a/ whether just to stop paying the cards & loans now by cancelling the Direct Debits and wait for the emails/letters to start and saving the money in anticipation of the DMP starting/being accepted
b/ write to the companies first re the affordability/irresponsible lending
c/ whether to try this on my own or whether to go to one of the charities
Any/all advice appreciated
Statement of Affairs & Personal Balance Sheet
Summary
Monthly Budget Summary | Amount(£) |
Total monthly income | 2,700 |
Monthly expenses (incl. HP & secured loans) | 2,040 |
Available for debt repayments | 660 |
Unsecured debt repayments | 1,274 |
Amount short for making debt repayments | -614 |
Personal Balance Sheet Summary | Amount(£) |
Total Assets (things you own) | 2,000 |
Total Secured & HP Debt | -4,582 |
Total Unsecured Debt | -54,416 |
Net Assets | -56,998 |
Household Information
Number of adults in household | 3 |
Number of children in household | 0 |
Number of cars owned | 0 |
Income, Expense, Debt & Asset Details
Income | Amount(£) |
Monthly income after tax | 2700 |
Partners monthly income | 0 |
Benefits | 0 |
Other income | 0 |
Total monthly income | 2700 |
Expenses | Amount(£) |
Mortgage | 0 |
Secured/HP loan payments | 183 |
Rent | 800 |
Management charge (leasehold property) | 0 |
Council tax | 0 |
Electricity | 75 |
Gas | 100 |
Oil | 50 |
Water Rates | 0 |
Telephone (land line) | 0 |
Mobile phone | 75 |
TV Licence | 0 |
Satellite/Cable TV | 40 |
Internet services | 0 |
Groceries etc. | 150 |
Clothing | 50 |
Petrol/diesel | 80 |
Road tax | 20 |
Car Insurance | 70 |
Car maintenance (including MOT) | 50 |
Car Parking | 0 |
Other travel | 30 |
Childcare/nursery | 0 |
Other child related expenses | 0 |
Medical (prescriptions, dentists, opticians etc.) | 25 |
Pet Insurance/Vet bills | 30 |
Buildings Insurance | 0 |
Contents Insurance | 0 |
Life Assurance | 22 |
Other Insurance | 25 |
Presents (birthday, christmas etc.) | 50 |
Haircuts | 15 |
Entertainment | 50 |
Holiday | 0 |
Emergency Fund | 50 |
Total monthly expenses | 2040 |
Secured & HP Debt Description | Debt(£) | Monthly(£) | APR(%) |
Mortgage | 0 | (0) | 0 |
Hire Purchase (HP) Debt | 4582 | (183) | 19.9 |
Secured & HP Debt totals | 4582 | - | - |
Unsecured Debt Description | Debt(£) | Monthly(£) | APR(%) |
118 Card | 1320 | 80 | 40.4 |
aqua card | 2100 | 64 | 36.4 |
asda card | 1650 | 82 | 33.34 |
updraft | 5000 | 110 | 35.8 |
118118 loan | 3000 | 150 | 61 |
finio loans | 3000 | 161 | 61.4 |
kroo | 5000 | 135 | 13.63 |
barclaycard | 8780 | 100 | 27.25 |
vanquis | 2617 | 55 | 25 |
tesco | 550 | 25 | 26.4 |
natwest card 2 | 8640 | 100 | 26.4 |
natwest card 1 | 9159 | 100 | 26.4 |
fluid | 3000 | 76 | 37.6 |
post office card | 110 | 10 | 30.34 |
capital one | 490 | 26 | 30.34 |
Unsecured Debt totals | 54416 | 1274 | - |
Asset Description | Value (£) |
Cash | 0 |
House Value (Gross) | 0 |
Shares and bonds | 0 |
Car(s) | 2000 |
Other assets (e.g. endowments, jewellery etc) | 0 |
Total Assets | 2000 |
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Comments
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When I ran my details through, the calculator recommended the payments below. Would it be realistic to expect the companies to accept these? In reality, I could pay off the Capital One, Post office and Tesco cards relatively quickly.Debt Details & Offer to CreditorsSecured & HP Debt DescriptionDebt(£)Monthly(£)Mortgage0(0)Hire Purchase (HP) Debt4582(183)Secured & HP Debt totals4582-Unsecured Debt DescriptionDebt(£)Offer(£)118 Card132016.01aqua card210025.47asda card165020.01updraft500060.64118118 loan300036.39finio loans300036.39kroo500060.64barclaycard8780106.49vanquis261731.74tesco5506.67natwest card 28640104.79natwest card 19159111.09fluid300036.39post office card1101.33capital one4905.94Unsecured Debt totals54416659.990
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Hi,
Debt management is an informal arrangement, so there is no acceptance or refusal of DMP payments, you pay what you can afford, according to your disposable income from your budget, and the lender has no choice but to accept that.
I would get the affordability complaints sent in now, the debt camel website provides information and template letters for that purpose.
I also think you should stop all your unsecured debt repayments as well, you have 15 lenders, and a somewhat chequered history of bad financial decision making, you need to stop this behaviour in its tracks now, before things get to a point where you cant come back from the brink.
Start with the affordability complaints, and hold your payments, try to save those into an emergency fund.
Then I think a self managed DMP is the way forward.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter1 -
You can't afford to service these debts so yes stop paying them.
Do affordability complaints on anything that you think stands half a chance. Use Debt Camel guidance and also read her article on My lender gave me two credit cards - applies to Aqua-Fluid and Nat West
It will be a long haul to get debt free but a dmp will be most flexible whether you or a free provider sets it up
It is too soon to be thinking about making offers. Could be 6 months or longer till the defaults come through
You do need an emergency fund, particularly with a £2000 car but if you save more than you are comfortable with then I see no problem in clearing the tiddler debts. You are not going bankrupt and won't be getting much of a settlement deal on them1 -
I agree with @sourcrates, dont worry about whether those offers will be acceptable, the minimum payments are clearly unaffordable and so your debts must be going up every month and this has to stop.
I would just clear the Post Office debt, to tiny to be worth complaining about and one out of the way.
That looks like a lot of very expensive lenders, have things just got worse as you have tried to make the minimum payments, or has there been a big drop in your income or some other reason for accumulating so much debt? This isnt being critical; but knowing the background this can help to talk about your options going forward.
For affordability complaints, Aqua and fluid are both owned by Newday so make a single complaint about both of those two.2 -
Thanks for the replies. By looks of it, the hope would be that these companies would freeze interest and as it stands, all would be paid off in around 6 years. I assume therefore if i got more income (annual pay rise etc) and added, eg £5 or £10 to each payment in 6 month intervals that timeline would decrease quicker?
my situation developed because a long-standing work contract ended abruptly. I am full time employed again but on different income, and with cost of living increases things have spiralled0 -
Icecold49 said:Thanks for the replies. By looks of it, the hope would be that these companies would freeze interest and as it stands, all would be paid off in around 6 years. I assume therefore if i got more income (annual pay rise etc) and added, eg £5 or £10 to each payment in 6 month intervals that timeline would decrease quicker?
my situation developed because a long-standing work contract ended abruptly. I am full time employed again but on different income, and with cost of living increases things have spiralled
Its best to get on top of it, and just stop paying when its apparent you can`t afford it.
Once accounts default, all interest stops, further down the line your debt will be sold, and at some point settlement offers should be available for at least some of the debts, that will further reduce your time in debt management.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter2 -
sorry for all the questions. Do I simply cancel the direct debits and at same time send the affordability complaints - or do I send the complaint and at same time offer the pro-rata payment (by standing order) I can afford to send that particular company. I am slightly uneasy at paying absolutely nothing at the outset0
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Just checking, you have opened a new basic bank account (no credit check required) with a provider with whom you have no debt with the same banking group?
And organised for all income to go there?
If so, cancel the DDs and send affordability claims if appropriate.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
Icecold49 said:sorry for all the questions. Do I simply cancel the direct debits and at same time send the affordability complaints - or do I send the complaint and at same time offer the pro-rata payment (by standing order) I can afford to send that particular company. I am slightly uneasy at paying absolutely nothing at the outset
A debt must first default before any legal action can be taken, if that was your worry, nothing will happen for a month or two, then you may get a missed payment reminder, after a few payments are missed, you may get a letter telling you you are in arrears, most collection activity is quite underwhelming, they may try to phone you, or send another letter, eventually after 6 months they may cancel the credit card, and send you a default notice.
All pretty standard stuff, if you want to do this the correct way, then you are best off taking advice from those who have actually been through the process themselves, as they tend to be representative of what you can expect to happen to you too.
Debt advisors tend to read from a managed script, and will tell you what could happen, most will have little actual knowledge of debt collection themselves, but our regulars will guide you from their own experience, which will differ from the script quite a bit.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter0
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