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Advice needed please

Hello

I have got myself into a situation that will soon become unmanageable.

While I am meeting all my commitments at the moment, and still have just about enough to get by, I feel like I am teetering on the brink before things collapse around me.  This is causing me a lot of anxiety and sleepless nights.  

Whilst I am married, the house is fully in my wife's name. We do not have any "connected accounts". I give her money every month though as my half of the household bills, and some I pay for in full.  Aside from my car (balance of @4500 - car is now worth @ £1500) all my debts are unsecured loans or credit cards and I have no significant assets.

I was in an IVA in the past which completed successfully but I am now in a situation where I may need to go into a DMP - either independently or through Stepchange.

Despite having a few existing cards/loans, in quick succession at start of this year, I got 2 Natwest Cards, each with £10,000 limit (0% Balance transfer for 12 months and 16 months respectively) and a Barclaycard with £10,000 (32 month Balance Transfer). I did use these as wisely as possible and cleared balances, and have been paying more than the minimum to each one every month. However as the 12 month limit is coming up, I am going to be hit with a huge increase in the minimum payments and I can't afford it.  Effectively all the money I have paid back will have been of no consequence as it will be replaced by interest. I suspect I have an argument for irresponsible lending from both companies (at least) - but having paid no interest to them yet, I am unsure what they could do?

It looks like I have around £500-£600 every month to allocate to all my unsecured debts (I am currently paying £1200+ a month.  

I have set up a new email address and mobile number as a contact point for the various accounts.  

I don't know......
a/  whether just to stop paying the cards & loans now by cancelling the Direct Debits and wait for the emails/letters to start and saving the money in anticipation of the DMP starting/being accepted
b/ write to the companies first re the affordability/irresponsible lending
c/ whether to try this on my own or whether to go to one of the charities

Any/all advice appreciated

Statement of Affairs & Personal Balance Sheet
Summary
Monthly Budget Summary
Amount(£)
Total monthly income
2,700
Monthly expenses (incl. HP & secured loans)
2,040
Available for debt repayments
660
Unsecured debt repayments
1,274
Amount short for making debt repayments
-614
Personal Balance Sheet Summary
Amount(£)
Total Assets (things you own)
2,000
Total Secured & HP Debt
-4,582
Total Unsecured Debt
-54,416
Net Assets
-56,998
Household Information
Number of adults in household
3
Number of children in household
0
Number of cars owned
0
Income, Expense, Debt & Asset Details
Income
Amount(£)
Monthly income after tax
2700
Partners monthly income
0
Benefits
0
Other income
0
Total monthly income
2700
Expenses
Amount(£)
Mortgage
0
Secured/HP loan payments
183
Rent
800
Management charge (leasehold property)
0
Council tax
0
Electricity
75
Gas
100
Oil
50
Water Rates
0
Telephone (land line)
0
Mobile phone
75
TV Licence
0
Satellite/Cable TV
40
Internet services
0
Groceries etc.
150
Clothing
50
Petrol/diesel
80
Road tax
20
Car Insurance
70
Car maintenance (including MOT)
50
Car Parking
0
Other travel
30
Childcare/nursery
0
Other child related expenses
0
Medical (prescriptions, dentists, opticians etc.)
25
Pet Insurance/Vet bills
30
Buildings Insurance
0
Contents Insurance
0
Life Assurance
22
Other Insurance
25
Presents (birthday, christmas etc.)
50
Haircuts
15
Entertainment
50
Holiday
0
Emergency Fund
50
Total monthly expenses
2040
Secured & HP Debt Description
Debt(£)
Monthly(£)
APR(%)
Mortgage
0
(0)
0
Hire Purchase (HP) Debt
4582
(183)
19.9
Secured & HP Debt totals
4582
-
-
Unsecured Debt Description
Debt(£)
Monthly(£)
APR(%)
118 Card
1320
80
40.4
aqua card
2100
64
36.4
asda card
1650
82
33.34
updraft
5000
110
35.8
118118 loan
3000
150
61
finio loans
3000
161
61.4
kroo
5000
135
13.63
barclaycard
8780
100
27.25
vanquis
2617
55
25
tesco
550
25
26.4
natwest card 2
8640
100
26.4
natwest card 1
9159
100
26.4
fluid
3000
76
37.6
post office card
110
10
30.34
capital one
490
26
30.34
Unsecured Debt totals
54416
1274
-
Asset Description
Value (£)
Cash
0
House Value (Gross)
0
Shares and bonds
0
Car(s)
2000
Other assets (e.g. endowments, jewellery etc)
0
Total Assets
2000





Comments

  • When I ran my details through, the calculator recommended the payments below.  Would it be realistic to expect the companies to accept these? In reality, I could pay off the Capital One, Post office and Tesco cards relatively quickly.

    Debt Details & Offer to Creditors
    Secured & HP Debt Description
    Debt(£)
    Monthly(£)
    Mortgage
    0
    (0)
    Hire Purchase (HP) Debt
    4582
    (183)
    Secured & HP Debt totals
    4582
    -
    Unsecured Debt Description
    Debt(£)
    Offer(£)
    118 Card
    1320
    16.01
    aqua card
    2100
    25.47
    asda card
    1650
    20.01
    updraft
    5000
    60.64
    118118 loan
    3000
    36.39
    finio loans
    3000
    36.39
    kroo
    5000
    60.64
    barclaycard
    8780
    106.49
    vanquis
    2617
    31.74
    tesco
    550
    6.67
    natwest card 2
    8640
    104.79
    natwest card 1
    9159
    111.09
    fluid
    3000
    36.39
    post office card
    110
    1.33
    capital one
    490
    5.94
    Unsecured Debt totals
    54416
    659.99

  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,828 Ambassador
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    edited 22 September at 11:30AM
    Hi,

    Debt management is an informal arrangement, so there is no acceptance or refusal of DMP payments, you pay what you can afford, according to your disposable income from your budget, and the lender has no choice but to accept that.

    I would get the affordability complaints sent in now, the debt camel website provides information and template letters for that purpose. 

    I also think you should stop all your unsecured debt repayments as well, you have 15 lenders, and a somewhat chequered history of bad financial decision making, you need to stop this behaviour in its tracks now, before things get to a point where you cant come back from the brink.

    Start with the affordability complaints, and hold your payments, try to save those into an emergency fund.

    Then I think a self managed DMP is the way forward.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • fatbelly
    fatbelly Posts: 23,139 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Cashback Cashier
    edited 22 September at 1:00PM
    You can't afford to service these debts so yes stop paying them.

    Do affordability complaints on anything that you think stands half a chance. Use Debt Camel guidance and also read her article on My lender gave me two credit cards - applies to Aqua-Fluid and Nat West

    It will be a long haul to get debt free but a dmp will be most flexible whether you or a free provider sets it up

    It is too soon to be thinking about making offers. Could be 6 months or longer till the defaults come through

    You do need an emergency fund, particularly with a £2000 car but if you save more than you are comfortable with then I see no problem in clearing the tiddler debts. You are not going bankrupt and won't be getting much of a settlement deal on them
  • ManyWays
    ManyWays Posts: 1,514 Forumite
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    I agree with @sourcrates, dont worry about whether those offers will be acceptable, the minimum payments are clearly unaffordable and so your debts must be going up every month and this has to stop.

    I would just clear the Post Office debt, to tiny to be worth complaining about and one out of the way. 

    That looks like a lot of very expensive lenders, have things just got worse as you have tried to make the minimum payments, or has there been a big drop in your income or some other reason for accumulating so much debt? This isnt being critical; but knowing the background this can help to talk about your options going forward. 

    For affordability complaints, Aqua and fluid are both owned by Newday so make a single complaint about both of those two. 
  • Thanks for the replies. By looks of it, the hope would be that these companies would freeze interest and as it stands, all would be paid off in around 6 years. I assume therefore if i got more income (annual pay rise etc) and added, eg £5 or £10 to each payment in 6 month intervals that timeline would decrease quicker?

    my situation developed because a long-standing work contract ended abruptly. I am full time employed again but on different income, and with cost of living increases things have spiralled
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,828 Ambassador
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    Icecold49 said:
    Thanks for the replies. By looks of it, the hope would be that these companies would freeze interest and as it stands, all would be paid off in around 6 years. I assume therefore if i got more income (annual pay rise etc) and added, eg £5 or £10 to each payment in 6 month intervals that timeline would decrease quicker?

    my situation developed because a long-standing work contract ended abruptly. I am full time employed again but on different income, and with cost of living increases things have spiralled
    Thing is people try to struggle on making unaffordable payments for far too long, when these situations develop.

    Its best to get on top of it, and just stop paying when its apparent you can`t afford it.

    Once accounts default, all interest stops, further down the line your debt will be sold, and at some point settlement offers should be available for at least some of the debts, that will further reduce your time in debt management.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • sorry for all the questions.  Do I simply cancel the direct debits and at same time send the affordability complaints - or do I send the complaint and at same time offer the pro-rata payment (by standing order) I can afford to send that particular company. I am slightly uneasy at paying absolutely nothing at the outset
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,945 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Just checking, you have opened a new basic bank account (no credit check required) with a provider with whom you have no debt with the same banking group?

    And organised for all income to go there?

    If so, cancel the DDs and send affordability claims if appropriate.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,828 Ambassador
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    Icecold49 said:
    sorry for all the questions.  Do I simply cancel the direct debits and at same time send the affordability complaints - or do I send the complaint and at same time offer the pro-rata payment (by standing order) I can afford to send that particular company. I am slightly uneasy at paying absolutely nothing at the outset
    What makes you feel uneasy exactly, what is it you think will happen if you don`t pay?

    A debt must first default before any legal action can be taken, if that was your worry, nothing will happen for a month or two, then you may get a missed payment reminder, after a few payments are missed, you may get a letter telling you you are in arrears, most collection activity is quite underwhelming, they may try to phone you, or send another letter, eventually after 6 months they may cancel the credit card, and send you a default notice.

    All pretty standard stuff, if you want to do this the correct way, then you are best off taking advice from those who have actually been through the process themselves, as they tend to be representative of what you can expect to happen to you too.

    Debt advisors tend to read from a managed script, and will tell you what could happen, most will have little actual knowledge of debt collection themselves, but our regulars will guide you from their own experience, which will differ from the script quite a bit.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
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