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Travelled with a friend who hasn't settled expenses
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Thank you everyone for your comments0
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Sorry for that but lesson learned. I do not book travel for friends unless they have paid upfront even those I have known a while. Some people have a tendency to change their mind and think nothing of leaving others in the lurch.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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I mean, they might yet make good - just prepare yourself for the likliehood that they won't.N. Hampshire, he/him. Octopus Intelligent Go elec & Tracker gas / Vodafone BB / iD mobile. Kirk Hill Co-op member.Ofgem cap table, Ofgem cap explainer. Economy 7 cap explainer. Gas vs E7 vs peak elec heating costs, Best kettle!
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Write off the money with the added bonus of writing off your 'friend'2
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Issue a County Court summons at her last known address. If you don't get the money, you'll have the satisfaction of messing up her credit for the next six years."There are not enough superlatives in the English language to describe a 'Princess Coronation' locomotive in full cry. We shall never see their like again". O S Nock2
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Update friend has suddenly decided to settle the debt! :-) Thank you all for your advice!5
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That's great news; perhaps they can stay on your Christmas card list after all
N. Hampshire, he/him. Octopus Intelligent Go elec & Tracker gas / Vodafone BB / iD mobile. Kirk Hill Co-op member.Ofgem cap table, Ofgem cap explainer. Economy 7 cap explainer. Gas vs E7 vs peak elec heating costs, Best kettle!
2.72kWp PV facing SSW installed Jan 2012. 11 x 247w panels, 3.6kw inverter. 35 MWh generated, long-term average 2.6 Os.2 -
Good news, and generously ask about the mother. From experience a very stressful time, and you've at least learnt not to help with the care fees, which are on a whole other financial plane!2
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