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Asked to provide a reference for a friend
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Penguin_ said:Our company policy when asked for a reference is to simply confirm the following:
Name
Job Title
Date employed from (& to if necessary)
That is all we provide.1 -
Tabieth said:You can’t predict the future so, unless you lie / mislead, you’ll be fine.Past performance is an extremely strong indicator of future performance.Op, let HR provide the reference, if you are keen on contributing do so on the basis that your input is that of personal testament.Posting for 21 years...https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/profile/27233/ohreally1
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I was interested in the potential employer requesting two references in respect of the current employment - one from the actual employer (presumably through HR) and also from a work colleague.
I've not come across that before. If it was actually specifically requested to be from a work colleague rather than a personal reference which might happen to also be a colleague, then that seems a new approach.1 -
ohreallƳ said:Tabieth said:You can’t predict the future so, unless you lie / mislead, you’ll be fine.Past performance is an extremely strong indicator of future performance.Op, let HR provide the reference, if you are keen on contributing do so on the basis that your input is that of personal testament.
People have to be given a chance to move forward.
People can and do change over time.
In many cases a new role in a different organisation can work wonders.Saving To Keep Ahead Of The Game — MoneySavingExpert Forum
December 2025 Target for Annual Bills and Travel Account 2026 £7000. Current Total £46252 -
Ordinary_Yet_Unique said:ohreallƳ said:Tabieth said:You can’t predict the future so, unless you lie / mislead, you’ll be fine.Past performance is an extremely strong indicator of future performance.Op, let HR provide the reference, if you are keen on contributing do so on the basis that your input is that of personal testament.
People have to be given a chance to move forward.
People can and do change over time.
In many cases a new role in a different organisation can work wonders.
No right in employment law that people have to be given a chance to move forwardIf you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales2 -
lincroft1710 said:Ordinary_Yet_Unique said:ohreallƳ said:Tabieth said:You can’t predict the future so, unless you lie / mislead, you’ll be fine.Past performance is an extremely strong indicator of future performance.Op, let HR provide the reference, if you are keen on contributing do so on the basis that your input is that of personal testament.
People have to be given a chance to move forward.
People can and do change over time.
In many cases a new role in a different organisation can work wonders.
No right in employment law that people have to be given a chance to move forwardSaving To Keep Ahead Of The Game — MoneySavingExpert Forum
December 2025 Target for Annual Bills and Travel Account 2026 £7000. Current Total £46251 -
Ordinary_Yet_Unique said:lincroft1710 said:Ordinary_Yet_Unique said:ohreallƳ said:Tabieth said:You can’t predict the future so, unless you lie / mislead, you’ll be fine.Past performance is an extremely strong indicator of future performance.Op, let HR provide the reference, if you are keen on contributing do so on the basis that your input is that of personal testament.
People have to be given a chance to move forward.
People can and do change over time.
In many cases a new role in a different organisation can work wonders.
No right in employment law that people have to be given a chance to move forwardIf you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales2 -
Ordinary_Yet_Unique said:ohreallƳ said:Tabieth said:You can’t predict the future so, unless you lie / mislead, you’ll be fine.Past performance is an extremely strong indicator of future performance.Op, let HR provide the reference, if you are keen on contributing do so on the basis that your input is that of personal testament.
People have to be given a chance to move forward.
People can and do change over time.
In many cases a new role in a different organisation can work wonders.That's ok to disagree.I come from decades of both managing a dept (NHS) and then becoming a trades union officer, so having been involved on both sides, so to speak, I am a firm believer in looking at past behaviours.Individuals may change but I've not encountered many.Posting for 21 years...https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/profile/27233/ohreally2
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