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star00786
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Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.
The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.
So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
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star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
You could repay it if you want to and can afford to. Else she's not earning enough so won't be repaying it now and it can just sit there on its relatively low interest rate. If she never earns enough it gets written off in 40 years.2 -
MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
You could repay it if you want to and can afford to. Else she's not earning enough so won't be repaying it now and it can just sit there on its relatively low interest rate. If she never earns enough it gets written off in 40 years.0 -
MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?Peter999_2 said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
You could repay it if you want to and can afford to. Else she's not earning enough so won't be repaying it now and it can just sit there on its relatively low interest rate. If she never earns enough it gets written off in 40 years.0 -
noitsnotme said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?Peter999_2 said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
You could repay it if you want to and can afford to. Else she's not earning enough so won't be repaying it now and it can just sit there on its relatively low interest rate. If she never earns enough it gets written off in 40 years.3 -
Peter999_2 said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
You could repay it if you want to and can afford to. Else she's not earning enough so won't be repaying it now and it can just sit there on its relatively low interest rate. If she never earns enough it gets written off in 40 years.
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MyRealNameToo said:noitsnotme said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?Peter999_2 said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
You could repay it if you want to and can afford to. Else she's not earning enough so won't be repaying it now and it can just sit there on its relatively low interest rate. If she never earns enough it gets written off in 40 years.0 -
Voyager2002 said:Peter999_2 said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
You could repay it if you want to and can afford to. Else she's not earning enough so won't be repaying it now and it can just sit there on its relatively low interest rate. If she never earns enough it gets written off in 40 years.
At some point it will start dawning on people just what an absolute disaster of a government we have - once the tax revenue plumits they are going to be desperate to make money from somewhere else and who knows if they decide Students are the easiest mark.
Don't forget the previous government already restrospectively made changes to the loans and there is nothing to stop a government from doing so in the future. They explicitly stated that the repayment threshold would rise annually in line with average earnings - and then promptly froze the threshold in 2016 with no parlimentary vote.
Government defends decision to retrospectively change student loan terms in parliamentary debate - Save the Student0 -
star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
Who at the uni diagnosed her with dyslexia?
I'm not sure either condition will allow her to write off/reduce any debts, if that is your actual question.0 -
There's no value in the OP paying off the daughter's debt due to prospective possible changes to the legislation.
Seems to me the answer is to do nothing. It is effectively a commitment to an additional marginal income tax rate for her above a certain income threshold. If she does eventually start paying that effective additional marginal tax rate, she'll be doing comparatively well compared to being on UC...0 -
Peter999_2 said:MyRealNameToo said:noitsnotme said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?Peter999_2 said:MyRealNameToo said:star00786 said:Hi my daughter who is 21 has been at uni this last 2 years. We have been supporting her financially as well as the student finance. She has approx 30K in debt on student finance.The issue is when she finished year 1 she failed on one module we couldn’t understand why but then further probing etc my daughter has ADHD. There has been evidence of this in the past in some of her behaviours but she is fantastic at masking! So we went to see the GP she has been referred for assessment (2year wait) and was diagnosed as dyslexic by uni. We notified student finance and they put in place some funding so she could get some student support. Ahe never got anything for the dyslexia in terms of equipment.So she went back and did year 1 again, and has failed again. She is now home and on UC and in a worse state than we realised. She is being helped by the GP for insomnia and severe anxiety. We know uni isn’t the right place for her. But … is there anything we can do about the student finance debt she has accrued?
You could repay it if you want to and can afford to. Else she's not earning enough so won't be repaying it now and it can just sit there on its relatively low interest rate. If she never earns enough it gets written off in 40 years.
Plan 5 started in 2023 so aligns with the OP saying the last 2 years at uni0
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