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Time to get the monkey off my back!

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  • Cherryfudge
    Cherryfudge Posts: 13,761 Forumite
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    Well done on holding out for the £600 and using it so well when it arrived!

    I agree with @badmemory about keeping your hairdresser. Having someone who knows what you want and how to make it happen is worth a lot! And as you don't have it done all that often, you are already saving money.

    I love reading diaries too, and @Keedie's is full of ingenious ways of dividing up her income, she's the poster girl for adapting the budget as your circumstances or priorities change, which takes some doing IMO. It makes sense though - to keep an awareness like that takes work and intelligence and I'm always impressed at how she comes up with new ways of dealing with her money.

    Have you tried @foxgloves' diary? I think it might appeal to you too.
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

    Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
    2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
    20.5 coupons used in 2020. 62.5 used in 2021. 94.5 remaining as of 21/3/22
  • LzzyIsGod
    LzzyIsGod Posts: 510 Forumite
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    Like Fergal Sharkey almost sings .... a good hairdresser is hard to find! 

     People don't always remember your clothes but they do remember your hair - hair is very prominent and one of those things you can't hide very easily which is why I justify still spending money on mine 😂 I've stretched the time between appointments as a compromise too. 

    Have a little faith, baby, have a little faith". Oddball - Kelly's Heroes
  • Willow1403
    Willow1403 Posts: 23 Forumite
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    @Cherryfudge - thank you for the recommendation, I shall certainly take a look.

    Thank you for everyone that gave me hairdresser feedback, I have decided to keep going to her, yay! I was having a bit of an attack of the guilts that I'm working so hard to pay off debt right now then paying for something like that.

    For a while now I have denied myself 'nice things' thinking I didn't deserve them because I have screwed up so badly financially. I have to really need something before I get it. I have some shoes which I wear for work, black sketchers. My role means I don't have to follow the work dress code really, but I still do like to dress in a way which is professional. I'm on my feet all day, hence needing something comfy. Anyway, mine are breaking and totally worn out and I'm still thinking I could eek a few more months out of them. 

    I'm really getting in to writing this diary now. It's very soothing to get things down, all those little things that are in your head all the time. 

    PAD - I made two payments to my credit card yesterday. £22 online sales and £12.17 from surveys.

    I've been at work this morning so no chance for surveys, but hoping to get some in this afternoon. Although my son keeps wanting to use the computer for his college summer work and I can't really say no to that!
    Current debt;
    £32,060 (Aug 2025)
    £30,241 (1st Sept 2025)
  • joedenise
    joedenise Posts: 17,929 Forumite
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    Have you got a Sports Direct near you?  If you have they often have end of lines of Sketchers.  It's where my DH buy his from.  Unfortunately when I needed new ones they didn't have any.

    If you have a friend with a Costco card perhaps you could go with them and look there. DSis picked up 2 pairs yesterday for £26 each (inc VAT).

  • Willow1403
    Willow1403 Posts: 23 Forumite
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    @joedenise I do have a sports direct! Thank you for the tip, I’ll try there :)
    Current debt;
    £32,060 (Aug 2025)
    £30,241 (1st Sept 2025)
  • badmemory
    badmemory Posts: 10,025 Forumite
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    Good to find out about the bus pass before spending all that.
  • Sarahwithlove
    Sarahwithlove Posts: 3,408 Forumite
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    Good news on the bus pass. That will help. Is it a weekly cost you could absorb into your budget and use the saved money towards a credit card? 
    *Dad loan - £5300 - £7200
    *Virgin Credit Card - £3552.50 - £0
    *Natwest - £1828.35 -£0.00

    Barclaycard - £2315.25 - £0.00

    Creation Finance - £960.32 £840
    *Total debt - £8040/£11641.17*


    Savings
    *Savings Buffer - £100/£1500
    *Emergency Fund - £1500/£1500


    New diary- https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6474943/the-three-cs-coffee-clothes-credit-cards/
  • Willow1403
    Willow1403 Posts: 23 Forumite
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    Yes, I was very glad to have realised before spending the money. Each year I email them to double check as they seem to change what is on offer each year and it's such a lot of money to buy the wrong thing or realise there was a better alternative. 
    Hmm, good point about using some of the savings towards debt. I will have a think about that, as on one hand it's nice knowing that the bus money for the year is there, but at a small amount each month it's easy to put to one side. It's in a category which is just for school expenses, so might use some towards paying the credit card and keep some for paying any school trips that pop up randomly!

    I'm off today on a little mini-break with the husband! So looking forward to it, and have been for so long now. He has only taken one week off work this year so far, and really could do with a bit of down time. So we have two nights away booked for some down time. 

    Made some good progress on the debt repayments over the past couple of days, so the Vanquis balance is now under £500. I celebrate every time it begins with a new number :lol: 
    So I on Monday I paid another £22.10, which was cashed out from prolific. Then yesterday I paid £35.15 from prolific. I will be able to pay this card off on Friday, pay day, as my snow ball amount will just about cover it! Then on to the next one. I can't believe I'm actually doing this. Debt has just been there for so many years, it's amazing just to watch it disappearing!

    Will be back on Friday peeps, when I'll be all chill :lol:
    Have a good week!
    Current debt;
    £32,060 (Aug 2025)
    £30,241 (1st Sept 2025)
  • Cherryfudge
    Cherryfudge Posts: 13,761 Forumite
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    You are doing a fantastic job! It will be exciting to see the card paid off!

    Enjoy your time away.
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

    Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
    2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
    20.5 coupons used in 2020. 62.5 used in 2021. 94.5 remaining as of 21/3/22
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