Paying when having 50/50

benson2221

Hi all,

I’m looking for some advice regarding my current child maintenance situation.

I have a 5-year-old daughter who I care for roughly half the year. Due to my shift work, my time with her is spread out — I have her a lot when I’m on leave, as well as during my 5-day rest periods, which occur every three weeks. Additionally, my parents have her almost every Saturday night.

Despite this, I’m currently only receiving a reduction in my CMS payments based on around 2 nights per week. I believe the actual number of nights she spends with me is well over 150 per year, but I need to double-check the exact figure.

Beyond the regular CMS payments, I also contribute significantly in other areas:

* I provide clothing, including school uniform

* I pay for her swimming lessons

* I cover the cost of holiday camps

* I attend medical appointments, school visits, and participate in all key decisions

I’ve tried to arrange a private agreement with her mother, which I think would be more reasonable given the shared care, but she has refused, despite us generally getting along well.

My question is: based on these circumstances, what are the chances that the CMS would recognise the level of care I provide and either reduce or potentially eliminate the maintenance I’m required to pay?

Any insights or similar experiences would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!

dawnybabes

Have you kept a full diary for the last year ? You would need to evidence this and let them know.