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Worm352 said:[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 2Number of cars owned.................... 1[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 2800Partners monthly income after tax....... 1000Benefits................................ 160Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 3960[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 0Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 815Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 150Electricity............................. 90Gas..................................... 80Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 49Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 30TV Licence.............................. 15Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0Internet Services....................... 36Groceries etc. ......................... 800Clothing................................ 30Petrol/diesel........................... 60Road tax................................ 17Car Insurance........................... 69Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 25Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 10Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 30Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 0Contents insurance...................... 0Life assurance ......................... 70Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 20Haircuts................................ 20Entertainment........................... 20Holiday................................. 0Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 2436[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 0Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 1000Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 1000[/b][b]No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts[/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRBarclays loan..................15700.....576.......29.9MBNA loan......................7300......277.......14.9Tesco loan.....................7500......121.......12.9Fluid card.....................1600......90........44.9Argos card.....................900.......150.......0Creation.......................650.......54........28.5Lloyds card....................550.......35........21.9Vanquis card...................1850......75........32.9[b]Total unsecured debts..........36050.....1378......- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 3,960Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,436Available for debt repayments........... 1,524Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 1,378[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 146[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 1,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -0Total Unsecured debt.................... -36,050[b]Net Assets.............................. -35,050[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]
My SOA...
What is your advise looking at it ? Should I keep paying every month untill I can work extra hours, or think about going for DMP?
The soa is obviously incorrect if you do not have £146 spare each month. You need to check bank statements to see how much you really are spending.
The interest rates are high so I would go for a DMP. Paying a third of your income to unsecured debt when you have no other assets beyond a low value car and are in rented (so might be insecure) accommodation is not a good option. Your credit record will be affected if you default (a pre requisite to a DMP) so you will need to save to cover unexpected car costs or a deposit for a new rental should you lose your current home.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Worm352 said:
The €20 for presents its what I spend a year divided by 12 months. It's not being put aside, we just buy presents when the time comes.
Everything that is to be spent monthly stays in the standard account. Anything that you pay less frequently, like presents, clothes, holidays, car maintenance, possibly insurance (a lot are cheaper if paid annually) goes into the second account. That way when the money is needed, most of the time it's sat in the second account.
If you look ahead each month and work put what's going to be needed in the next three months, you can top up this account a bit more and reduce the amount going into the emergency fund for a little while and tip the balance back once you are over the hump.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0
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