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  • DankVielen
    DankVielen Posts: 88 Forumite
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    chrisjvc1 said:
    I may sound thick, but why not just take a consolidation loan and have one payment instead of 7. I know I’ll pay more interest but at least I’ll be £400 a month better off 
    That truly is the worst sort of debt.

    The credit cards are the way the lenders lure you into spending beyond your means, the interest can be zero percent with perhaps a 3% fee, but that is before the trap has got you.

    The consolidation loan is fixed interest, there is usually hardly any benefit in paying it off early and they truly have you by the short and curlies.

    There is no judgement here, we have all been where you are now or worse (I had £90k myself but did not pay a penny back because they were too slow to offer 60% off.  By the time they did I was on the home run to the debt being statute barred so I stuck it out. 

    Until you can be honest about how you ran up this debt you can't expect appropriate advice, you have several big loans which I thought could be consolidation hence I asked the questions.

    I think you could look at the scenario of interest you will pay on the following MSE page.


    The thing about that calculator is it speaks the truth, if you have self discipline of a ninja and pay off as much as you can, cutting back your spending for as long as it takes then you can get out with your credit score intact.

    If you know in your heart of hearts you can't or won't cut back then DMP and forget about credit, I opted out of credit participation. I recognised the error of my ways and circumstances that were beyond my control and knew I never wanted to be in that place again.  Now I live so frugally that I might join the monks in the Monastery, I even save money to help out family members, pay for my funeral (self funded) and send money to Ukrainian causes.

    You have had a lot of good advice on here, review them, tell more, ask more and make a decision about your way forward.
  • chrisjvc1
    chrisjvc1 Posts: 21 Forumite
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    There isn’t really a lot to tell I’m afraid. I bought House and then spent 25K replacing ceilings etc after finding asbestos. I also bought a car for Work. I was also setting up home from having nothing so it cost a bit to get going.

    I don’t have a gambling problem or a drinking problem or any other kind of problem. I’ve just got myself a mess and it has got worse from there. The largest loan I have was taken out to consolidate some credit cards that were coming to the end of their zero percent offer. Last month I managed to change most of my cards to further 0% offers for a year.

    So yes I did think a consolidation loan would be the easiest option as it would clear most of my payments and just give me one to concentrate on. I was aware that will be paying back a lot more money but thought it was the easiest way to keep my credit rating decent And stop the bailiffs coming to the door. I had hoped to move house in a couple of years and buy somewhere near the kids. I’m guessing a dmp would put an end to that hope. 

    I don’t live an exciting life and don’t have lots of massive outgoings, but I am caught in a trap now and I’m unsure of the way out. I’m grateful for everybody’s input on this forum but there are a few different opinions and it makes it hard to know which one to pick .

  • kimwp
    kimwp Posts: 2,986 Forumite
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    Ok, well it's ultimately your decision, why don't you write out the options in a post and do pros and cons of each.
    Statement of Affairs (SOA) link: https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php

    For free, non-judgemental debt advice, try: Stepchange or National Debtline. Beware fee charging companies with similar names.
  • Andyjflet
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    Chris, take a look at the Dave Ramsey baby Steps, listen to the podcasts or on youtube, I used the steps as a simple and clear plan to get myself out of debt after a bad divorce (financially) I bought a new home and now have savings and an emergency fund as well as a fairly decent pension, I'm 57.

    The baby steps was like a recipe for me, simple to follow and that mad my mind clearer, having a plan is 50% of the solution. The it snowballed into an obsession and total new financial me!
    Baby Step 6/7 . £16000 saved and invested. £47,000 deposit paid on new home DEBT FREE !!!
    Currently Negotiating with HMRC !
  • 1stTimer
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    chrisjvc1 said:
    I may sound thick, but why not just take a consolidation loan and have one payment instead of 7. I know I’ll pay more interest but at least I’ll be £400 a month better off 
    I didn’t want to read and run, well done for coming here for help!
    reading your posts I agree with the DMP route, it is still one payment instead of 7 but it will not put your house at risk.
    you've spent so much time and money to make it yours so I would fight tooth and nail to secure it.
    if it helps I’m 5 years into a DMP and it wasn’t easy, I got a few consolidation loans throughout my 20’s and 30’s and they worked for a time. Trouble was it was too easy to just keep living the lifestyle I wanted as I had spare money again.
    The DMP has been a real eye opener as it took away the ability to just keep turning a blind eye to my outgoings. Having no easy access to credit hurt for a while as I didn’t read on these forums before I entered the DMP so didn’t know to save an emergency fund whilst waiting for the defaults but something clicked about a year or 2 in and I started saving. 

    Honestly go for the DMP, 6 years goes by in the blink of an eye when you aren’t living month to month, paycheck to paycheck

    Good luck 🍀 
    Save £12k in 2025 #32 
    Make £2025 in 2025 #28
    JAN- £695.23 FEB- £599.43 MAR- £709.42 APR- £1102.89 MAY- £776.76 JUNE - £966 JULY - £1104.84

    Total 2025 -£5954.57

     
  • kimwp
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    edited 30 May at 7:12AM
    For clarity, a dmp doesn't mean one payment, but doing a dmp through a charity such as Stepchange (or a dmp company, but this is not recommended as they will take some of your money in fees) will, as you just give them one payment and they will divide it between your debts.
    Statement of Affairs (SOA) link: https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php

    For free, non-judgemental debt advice, try: Stepchange or National Debtline. Beware fee charging companies with similar names.
  • 1stTimer
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    kimwp said:
    For clarity, a dmp doesn't mean one payment, but doing a dmp through a charity such as Stepchange (or a dmp company, but this is not recommended as they will take some of your money in fees) will, as you just give them one payment and they will divide it between your debts.
    Yes sorry I should have explained that better, thank you
    Save £12k in 2025 #32 
    Make £2025 in 2025 #28
    JAN- £695.23 FEB- £599.43 MAR- £709.42 APR- £1102.89 MAY- £776.76 JUNE - £966 JULY - £1104.84

    Total 2025 -£5954.57

     
  • fatbelly
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    I don't see any real advantage in one payment instead of 7. Just set up standing orders and let them run

    With 51k debt and around £1000 available, the op can clear this in under 6 years, which is why an IVA has no advantages. Too much surplus for a DRO, and bankruptcy risks the house.

    So I can't see this business of too many options.

    The emergency fund will build nicely while waiting for the defaults and any savings/windfalls will add to this so settlement deals may shorten the timescale later
  • kimwp
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    edited 30 May at 7:41AM
    fatbelly said:
    I don't see any real advantage in one payment instead of 7. Just set up standing orders and let them run

    With 51k debt and around £1000 available, the op can clear this in under 6 years, which is why an IVA has no advantages. Too much surplus for a DRO, and bankruptcy risks the house.

    So I can't see this business of too many options.

    The emergency fund will build nicely while waiting for the defaults and any savings/windfalls will add to this so settlement deals may shorten the timescale later
    Chris, if fatbelly (or sourcrates) recommended a route to me to manage debt, I would follow it, they know what they are talking about.
    Statement of Affairs (SOA) link: https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php

    For free, non-judgemental debt advice, try: Stepchange or National Debtline. Beware fee charging companies with similar names.
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