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MSE Forum poll: When going into a coffee shop etc just to use the loo, do you buy something?

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MSE_JC
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edited 7 May at 5:42PM in Community Noticeboard
At one point or another many of us have been caught short while out and about, so it can be a relief to find a nearby pub or café with a toilet. While there are occasionally establishments that stipulate their lavatory is for 'paying customers only', many often don't.

Do you feel obliged to make a purchase, or just use the loo and leave?
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MSE Forum poll: When going into a coffee shop etc just to use the loo, do you buy something? 24 votes

I always buy something
16% 4 votes
I'll try to buy something if I have the time / am able
33% 8 votes
I'll buy something but only if it's a local / independent business
20% 5 votes
I don't buy anything but ask permission
12% 3 votes
I don't buy or ask permission, I just go in and use the loo
8% 2 votes
I don't use coffee shop / pub toilets for this very reason
8% 2 votes

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  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 35,965 Forumite
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    edited 1 May at 1:09PM
    If it’s McDonald’s, I really don’t care. (Other mega chains are also available) 
    I would never go into an independent  one without buying something. 
    And to be honest with those big chains whether it’s Mackie D  or Wetherspoons, the staff don’t care. 
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • mjm3346
    mjm3346 Posts: 47,264 Forumite
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    Why isn't this an option without it needing it to be for the reason given for not using them
     "I don't use coffee shop / pub toilets"
  • 35har1old
    35har1old Posts: 1,902 Forumite
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    MSE_JC said:
    At one point or another many of us have been caught short while out and about, so it can be a relief to find a nearby pub or café with a toilet. While there are occasionally establishments that stipulate their lavatory is for 'paying customers only', many often don't.

    Do you feel obliged to make a purchase, or just use the loo and leave?
    Some require a code 
  • MSE_JC
    MSE_JC Posts: 211 Community Admin
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    edited 2 May at 2:34PM
    Hi, @mjm3346 and @35har1old

    Thanks for the feedback. We wanted the poll to give a bit of insight into what people tend to do in the situation given the choice. Those who simply don't use pub / coffee shop toilets at all (for other reasons) won't find themselves in the situation. Where establishments only provide a required door code following a purchase, the individual doesn't have a choice. Hope that clears things up!

    All the best,

    MSE JC
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  • Katiehound
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    I do use a Starbucks on a very very long drive. I don't want to buy a drink as that aggravates the problem!
    I always ask if I may use their facilities, and thank them when I leave. (I'm talking  about x 3 per year- NOT exactly regularly)
    Being polite and pleasant doesn't cost anything!
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