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IHT and life time gifts
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Sterlingtimes said:
Could I add a more specific scenario, please?
A child who has lived with his parents for many years buys his own house. The surveyor identifies numerous issues that need correction, e.g. windows, doors, electrics, roofing. The parents commission a builder to perform all remedial work and say to the builder, "Please invoice us." Is that a gift based on the questions already answered?0 -
So Mum can’t pay off child’s student loan, but Mum could decide to pay tuition fees/ maintenance support of their student offspring, rather than them taking a student loan.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0
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Let's pretend that your executors want to do a really good job and go through everything with a fine-tooth comb. And mum/dad don't want to embarress the executors and so preserve fantastically good records.
If we disregard the exemptions, then there appears to be an unwritten size test. We might ask how the average HMRC inspector would behave with his own children.
An ordinary parent on having his gutters cleaned could say to the gutterman, "While you are cleaning my gutters, could you pop round to my son's house and I'll pay you for both". The parent pays £250 in total by credit card. That might be the sort of thing that a parent would do and think no more about it. But would the HMRC tax inspector do this for his son and make appropriate records?
However, when the amounts become larger, e.g. I pay a builder £5,000 to work at my son's house, that appears to cross the line.
It might be the case that all of the little things that ordinary parents do to help their children fall beneath the radar, and the HMRC would not ordinarily probe. Therefore, even the child who endlessly guzzles pate de foie gras and spends thirty minutes having power showers at his parents' expense will escape taxation.
I have osteoarthritis in my hands so I speak my messages into a microphone using Dragon. Some people make "typos" but I often make "speakos".1 -
Sterlingtimes said:Let's pretend that your executors want to do a really good job and go through everything with a fine-tooth comb. And mum/dad don't want to embarress the executors and so preserve fantastically good records.
If we disregard the exemptions, then there appears to be an unwritten size test. We might ask how the average HMRC inspector would behave with his own children.
An ordinary parent on having his gutters cleaned could say to the gutterman, "While you are cleaning my gutters, could you pop round to my son's house and I'll pay you for both". The parent pays £250 in total by credit card. That might be the sort of thing that a parent would do and think no more about it. But would the HMRC tax inspector do this for his son and make appropriate records?
However, when the amounts become larger, e.g. I pay a builder £5,000 to work at my son's house, that appears to cross the line.
It might be the case that all of the little things that ordinary parents do to help their children fall beneath the radar, and the HMRC would not ordinarily probe. Therefore, even the child who endlessly guzzles pate de foie gras and spends thirty minutes having power showers at his parents' expense will escape taxation.
Whenever we go out for a meal with our offspring we pay. Even when they offer to pay, we joke about reducing inheritance tax.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0 -
You should bear in mind the more complex and "nitty" you make your affairs the more hassle you give your executor and the cost if a solicitor is involved. I suggest you just keep declaration of gifts to the significant items.0
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Obviously a gifted house deposit has to be evidenced and a paper trail established as to the origin.But, if I give my Daughter £5k in cash that I’ve taken out in dribs and drabs, nobody is ever going to know.I paid for her new front and back doors, straight to the company, again, nobody checking my bank statement would be any the wiser.You could have your child as a card holder on your cc account for monthly spending, again, when you pay the bill from your bank account, nobody would know, it could all be going on fags and booze.
If the 7 year rule for gifting IS abolished as per the rumours, people will get even more sneaky/creative.0 -
Sterlingtimes said:Let's pretend that your executors want to do a really good job and go through everything with a fine-tooth comb. And mum/dad don't want to embarress the executors and so preserve fantastically good records.
If we disregard the exemptions, then there appears to be an unwritten size test. We might ask how the average HMRC inspector would behave with his own children.
An ordinary parent on having his gutters cleaned could say to the gutterman, "While you are cleaning my gutters, could you pop round to my son's house and I'll pay you for both". The parent pays £250 in total by credit card. That might be the sort of thing that a parent would do and think no more about it. But would the HMRC tax inspector do this for his son and make appropriate records?
However, when the amounts become larger, e.g. I pay a builder £5,000 to work at my son's house, that appears to cross the line.
It might be the case that all of the little things that ordinary parents do to help their children fall beneath the radar, and the HMRC would not ordinarily probe. Therefore, even the child who endlessly guzzles pate de foie gras and spends thirty minutes having power showers at his parents' expense will escape taxation.0 -
sheramber said:Sterlingtimes said:Let's pretend that your executors want to do a really good job and go through everything with a fine-tooth comb. And mum/dad don't want to embarress the executors and so preserve fantastically good records.
If we disregard the exemptions, then there appears to be an unwritten size test. We might ask how the average HMRC inspector would behave with his own children.
An ordinary parent on having his gutters cleaned could say to the gutterman, "While you are cleaning my gutters, could you pop round to my son's house and I'll pay you for both". The parent pays £250 in total by credit card. That might be the sort of thing that a parent would do and think no more about it. But would the HMRC tax inspector do this for his son and make appropriate records?
However, when the amounts become larger, e.g. I pay a builder £5,000 to work at my son's house, that appears to cross the line.
It might be the case that all of the little things that ordinary parents do to help their children fall beneath the radar, and the HMRC would not ordinarily probe. Therefore, even the child who endlessly guzzles pate de foie gras and spends thirty minutes having power showers at his parents' expense will escape taxation.1 -
Albermarle said:sheramber said:Would the average tax inspector be liable for IHT?I have osteoarthritis in my hands so I speak my messages into a microphone using Dragon. Some people make "typos" but I often make "speakos".0
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Sterlingtimes said:Albermarle said:sheramber said:Would the average tax inspector be liable for IHT?1
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