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Husband accrued 50k debt without telling me
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7ish is an OK rate so I suggest you ask the broker what the early settlement terms would be on that second charge and whether you could get it just for the loans your husband took, not the 0% credit cards.
Please put the names of the lenders and the interest rate on the loans your husband took when you do the SoA.0 -
It's impossible to say whether 7% is a rate that is OK or otherwise without the rates for the existing loans, and without the SOA the OP shouldn't really be being pointed in any particular direction, as yet.
OP you are both on excellent income - it seems highly likely that you can tackle this debt without needing to risk your home. You need to follow the steps - SOA filled in with as much detail as possible, and with honesty about current lifestyle and spending. Then a review of current lifestyle and decision made about whether cuts can be made. Don't make any knee jerk reactions that may well turn out to be poor ones.🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
£100k barrier broken 1/4/25SOA CALCULATOR (for DFW newbies): SOA Calculatorshe/her2 -
ManyWays said:7ish is an OK rate so I suggest you ask the broker what the early settlement terms would be on that second charge and whether you could get it just for the loans your husband took, not the 0% credit cards.
Please put the names of the lenders and the interest rate on the loans your husband took when you do the SoA.We are still working on the SOA.0 -
Good information to have, dont rush in though, the SoA should give a fuller picture. After that you need to summarise the pros and cons of the different options0
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