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Possible DMP or Default and Wait?
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SOA below.[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 0Number of cars owned.................... 1[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 3000Partners monthly income after tax....... 0Benefits................................ 0Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 3000[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 358Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 116.5Electricity............................. 31.59Gas..................................... 31.59Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 37.91Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 15TV Licence.............................. 14.12Satellite/Cable TV...................... 31Internet Services....................... 31Groceries etc. ......................... 200Clothing................................ 10Petrol/diesel........................... 160Road tax................................ 16.25Car Insurance........................... 37.5Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 60Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 12.5Contents insurance...................... 12.5Life assurance ......................... 0Other insurance......................... 52Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 75Haircuts................................ 40Entertainment........................... 50Holiday................................. 0Emergency fund.......................... 50(Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0(Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0(Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 1442.46[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 180000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 3000Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 183000[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 111209...(358)......0[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 111209....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRBarclaycard....................6450......176.......24Virgin Money CC 1..............8390......237.......23.29Virgin Money CC 2..............8064......235.......23.29NatWest Loan...................3708......376.......3.4Zopa Loan......................16051.....501.......13.2Tesco CC.......................9271......271.......26.5MBNA CC........................8824......395.......26.52[b]Total unsecured debts..........60758.....2191......- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 3,000Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,442.46Available for debt repayments........... 1,557.54Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 2,191[b]Amount short for making debt repayments. -633.46[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 183,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -111,209Total Unsecured debt.................... -60,758[b]Net Assets.............................. 11,033[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]0
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Yes I have cancelled all direct debits. First one was due out today.
Having done the SOA it confirms what I suspected. I was always £100 or so short but was staying on top of things by either going without or making some money on eBay or Vinted. But the Zopa loan repayment of £501 a month is not recoverable. 😢0 -
Confused by your SOA.
Your partner has no income, but some of the costs seem remarkably low, so are you only reporting a part of the cost.
If so, what is your partner's income? If you earn the same then 50:50 is the correct split. If more or less, maybe that need adjusting?
Out of interest what did you use the Zopa loan for? Consolidation?If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
I'd agree that there appears to be some holes in that SOA - this could be explained by you paying half the costs for various things but being uncomfortable sharing your partner's income. If this is the case then that's fine, but it's helpful to know as it makes things more understandable. For now though:The key thing here is the shortfall - you can't afford to continue as you are - you are just making the situation worse each month, so you need to cancel payments to the credit cards immediately, and the loans just as soon as you have double checked that they are not secured (although I agree that it seems unlikely that they would be). Continuing with the payment as things are is completely unsustainable!Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 0Number of cars owned.................... 1[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 3000Partners monthly income after tax....... 0Benefits................................ 0Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 3000[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 358Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 116.5Electricity............................. 31.59 You need to make sure that energy billing is correct and up to date - if you have smart meters then check the last bills to make sure that the readings are looking about right, and if you still have traditional meters ensure that regular readings are given.Gas..................................... 31.59Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 37.91 If this is 50% of the bill then you may be able to make a good saving by going onto a water meter.Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 15TV Licence.............................. 14.12Satellite/Cable TV...................... 17Internet Services....................... 45 This is on the steep site if you are paying the full cost, and very expensive if you are covering 50%Groceries etc. ......................... 200 If this is 50% then there is probably some savings to be made - if this is the full cost then I strongly suspect if this is for two people you are underestimating your monthly spending in this area!Clothing................................ 50 For now you need to cut this back to essentials only - a "socks and pants" budget, as it were!Petrol/diesel........................... 160Road tax................................ 16.25 Just to check that you are accounting this monthly but not paying on monthly direct debit as that increases the cost?Car Insurance........................... 37.5Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 41.67 You are clearly fairly high mileage looking at the fuel bill - are you confident this is sufficient to cover all annual costs other than insurance and tax? You need to think servicing, MoT test, tyres, screen wash, cleaning, wiper blades etc. Plus a "contingency" amount for unforseen issues.Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 12.5Contents insurance...................... 12.5Life assurance ......................... 0Other insurance......................... 52Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 75 This is pretty high for someone in debt - and for a family with no children in the household - I'd be looking to reduce this in your circumstances.Haircuts................................ 40 Again, this might have to be reduced for a while at least - can you stretch appointments to longer in between, or change to a more low-maintenance style?Entertainment........................... 50Holiday................................. 0 You never go away at all - not a weekend away visiting family, or a city-break with friends? Nothing at all?Emergency fund.......................... 50 That's great that you budget for this - but you aren't showing any cash assets at all, so is this definitely being saved? If you budget for savings of this type but don't actually ringfence the money away to a savings account this just makes a bigger hole in the budget, so it's important to ensure that all savings of this type get made - ideally at the beginning of the month before they can get spent elsewhere!(Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0(Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0(Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 1464.13[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 180000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 3000Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 183000[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 111209...(358)......0[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 111209....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRBarclaycard....................6450......176.......0 Are these debts really all at 0%? I don't imagine the loans are for sure, so getting the APR's filled in where appropriate will be helpful.Virgin Money CC 1..............8390......237.......0Virgin Money CC 2..............8064......235.......0NatWest Loan...................3708......376.......0Zopa Loan......................16051.....501.......0Tesco CC.......................9271......271.......0MBNA CC........................8824......395.......0[b]Total unsecured debts..........60758.....2191......- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 3,000Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,464.13Available for debt repayments........... 1,535.87Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 2,191[b]Amount short for making debt repayments. -655.13[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 183,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -111,209Total Unsecured debt.................... -60,758[b]Net Assets.............................. 11,033[/b]🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
£100k barrier broken 1/4/25SOA CALCULATOR (for DFW newbies): SOA Calculatorshe/her0 -
Hi,
Yes some costs are half as I share them with my partner. But we don’t have anything “jointly” so I didn’t think his income was relevant to the SOA.Energy billing is up to date.There are a couple of things I pay for solely - the water and the tv/internet as I earn slightly more than OH (which is £62 total and I just split it out as £17/45 for the SOA)
£200 for groceries is half plus everything else - meals at work, a takeaway on pay day.
The £75 a month for birthdays and Christmas - Because of my situation I normally gift people something we can do together, so a day out for family or a weekend away for OH. I’ve always put these on credit cards because I haven’t had the money, so the £75 was what I think it will cost me without a credit card. Probably need to move some of it to holidays.
The Zopa loan was for consolidation and I did pay off a chunk of my cards with it. But we got married last year with very short notice and the costs spiralled. My OH had savings to cover his half, I did not.
None of my debt is 0%, so every month the minimum payments are paying very little off the balance.I’ve updated my SOA above to reflect some of the feedback and also to add the APR against my debts.0 -
So can you confirm that if you stop paying your debts, you will have £1535 in the bank at the end of the month?If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0
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RAS said:So can you confirm that if you stop paying your debts, you will have £1535 in the bank at the end of the month?0
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Cheeseontoast21 said:RAS said:So can you confirm that if you stop paying your debts, you will have £1535 in the bank at the end of the month?
There are a lot of round figures that look like good guesses rather than precise sums based on the last 6 months statements.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
RAS said:Cheeseontoast21 said:RAS said:So can you confirm that if you stop paying your debts, you will have £1535 in the bank at the end of the month?
There are a lot of round figures that look like good guesses rather than precise sums based on the last 6 months statements.My SOA is my best guess at how I need to manage the budget, rather than fact based on the last 6 months because my previous habits are how I’ve ended up in this mess in the first place.
i will spend some proper time tonight checking I’ve missed nothing.1 -
You've got a good point about prior behaviour. But if you are gong to cut back to a knickers, socks and shoes budget rather than funding Very and Next, you need to have an idea of what those will cost you in the next year, and divide by 12 for the monthly budget.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0
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