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Job search after nearly three decades! - Advice needed please!
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DidleySquat
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Hello,
I've decided for various reasons that I want to leave my job after nearly three decades of being with my current employer as I'm very unhappy in my current situation and leaving is well overdue.
It feels scary and overwhelming to even think about looking for another job and I'm worried that I'm too old (female and in my fifties) and I don't know where to start with it all as the world has changed so much since I've last did it!
Has anyone any tips, experience, suggestions?
TIA:)
I've decided for various reasons that I want to leave my job after nearly three decades of being with my current employer as I'm very unhappy in my current situation and leaving is well overdue.
It feels scary and overwhelming to even think about looking for another job and I'm worried that I'm too old (female and in my fifties) and I don't know where to start with it all as the world has changed so much since I've last did it!
Has anyone any tips, experience, suggestions?
TIA:)
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What kind of work are you currently doing? Did you hold any other jobs before getting the job you are in?0
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Klippety said:What kind of work are you currently doing? Did you hold any other jobs before getting the job you are in?
I'm currently in administration and I've had other jobs previously, also in office work. I'm open to changing to do something else and not be chained to a desk anymore, as long as I can pay the bills.0 -
What in particular is making you unhappy in your current job? you have been there a long time. when I worked my opinion was the young ones were favoured and we oldies were looked upon as dinasours with not much to offer. so im not hopeful for you in transition. what do you fancy have you any hobbies where skills can be used in a job?1
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Around same age, at the time. When I did this many years ago. I kept looking for jobs that I fancied (not in same type of job). I just applied. Once I got one, then I left the old job. So did not burn the bridge to early.
In the end I ended up in a role I had never done & well out of my comfort zone. Amazed I got it. Best move I ever made. 👍Life in the slow lane1 -
DidleySquat said:Hello,
I've decided for various reasons that I want to leave my job after nearly three decades of being with my current employer as I'm very unhappy in my current situation and leaving is well overdue.
It feels scary and overwhelming to even think about looking for another job and I'm worried that I'm too old (female and in my fifties) and I don't know where to start with it all as the world has changed so much since I've last did it!
Has anyone any tips, experience, suggestions?
TIA:)
Frying pans and fires...Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!1 -
I think you first need to decide what you want to do and sensibly review if you have suitable qualifications. Start writing your CV.
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DidleySquat said:Klippety said:What kind of work are you currently doing? Did you hold any other jobs before getting the job you are in?
I'm currently in administration and I've had other jobs previously, also in office work. I'm open to changing to do something else and not be chained to a desk anymore, as long as I can pay the bills.
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Check with your network for any opportunities and think "could I do that job? have that commute? work with those people?"
Consider how much you need to make and what might change your mind about that. Would you take less to work for a charity? Particularly if it was local, no commute and a cause you love?
Consider going through an agency who, if nothing else, will revamp your CV to make you salable.
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Klippety said:DidleySquat said:Klippety said:What kind of work are you currently doing? Did you hold any other jobs before getting the job you are in?
I'm currently in administration and I've had other jobs previously, also in office work. I'm open to changing to do something else and not be chained to a desk anymore, as long as I can pay the bills.Signature removed for peace of mind2 -
gmje said:What in particular is making you unhappy in your current job? you have been there a long time. when I worked my opinion was the young ones were favoured and we oldies were looked upon as dinasours with not much to offer. so im not hopeful for you in transition. what do you fancy have you any hobbies where skills can be used in a job?2
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