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Pension pot transferable following death

philiusfogwakey
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Hi all, just after some advise as I'm not sure if we've made a mistake or missed something here.
3.5 years ago my father-in-law suddenly passed away. He had a private pension with a company he'd worked with all his life from the early 1960s to early 2000s when he retired. He split his pension between himself and his ex-wife (my mother-in-law). When he passed we contacted his former employer as he had on file that he wanted to transfer his pension to my M-i-L, and they sent a questionnaire out for my M-i-L to complete, which was an almost financial assessment. Due to health/memory issues my M-i-L wouldn't complete this form and give out 'private' information. We've done nothing since, assuming that the pension was lost.
My query is, should this pension pot, as his former employer was a private company (international household pharmaceutical company), still be available and transferable to his next of kin (my wife and her brother) even if they won't transfer it directly to their mum?
A further query, on a very similar vain - my mum passed away last year and she had a small private pension with the GRE - should any remaining monies in this pot have been transferred to my brother's and I?
It just feels odd/wrong that they paid into pensions for years, only for this money to essentially be lost/go to their further employers on their death (what a kick in the teeth that is if it's the case).
Just wondering if anyone can give any advice really, as we don't know where to start.
Many thanks.
3.5 years ago my father-in-law suddenly passed away. He had a private pension with a company he'd worked with all his life from the early 1960s to early 2000s when he retired. He split his pension between himself and his ex-wife (my mother-in-law). When he passed we contacted his former employer as he had on file that he wanted to transfer his pension to my M-i-L, and they sent a questionnaire out for my M-i-L to complete, which was an almost financial assessment. Due to health/memory issues my M-i-L wouldn't complete this form and give out 'private' information. We've done nothing since, assuming that the pension was lost.
My query is, should this pension pot, as his former employer was a private company (international household pharmaceutical company), still be available and transferable to his next of kin (my wife and her brother) even if they won't transfer it directly to their mum?
A further query, on a very similar vain - my mum passed away last year and she had a small private pension with the GRE - should any remaining monies in this pot have been transferred to my brother's and I?
It just feels odd/wrong that they paid into pensions for years, only for this money to essentially be lost/go to their further employers on their death (what a kick in the teeth that is if it's the case).
Just wondering if anyone can give any advice really, as we don't know where to start.
Many thanks.
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Your starting point needs to be to understand if these were Defined Benefit pensions. If so there is no pot of ringfenced money with an individual’s name on it, some of which may remain.
With defined benefit schemes, where someone passes away earlier in retirement the fact they have drawn less is balanced out by someone else passing away later and drawing more.
These types of pensions normally had a feature (or option) of providing a smaller pension and possibly a small lump sum for a surviving spouse or dependent children.There’s a sudden flurry of queries like this because DC pensions work differently. I can tell you that, as someone who has paid into a DB pension all her working life, people with these plans know that they work this way. If I wanted to guarantee a payment to my adult children once I retired I would take out a life insurance policy.Fashion on the Ration
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philiusfogwakey said:
He split his pension between himself and his ex-wife (my mother-in-law). When he passed we contacted his former employer as he had on file that he wanted to transfer his pension to my M-i-L, and they sent a questionnaire out for my M-i-L to complete, which was an almost financial assessment. Due to health/memory issues my M-i-L wouldn't complete this form and give out 'private' information. We've done nothing since, assuming that the pension was lost.
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philiusfogwakey said:Hi all, just after some advise as I'm not sure if we've made a mistake or missed something here.
3.5 years ago my father-in-law suddenly passed away. He had a private pension with a company he'd worked with all his life from the early 1960s to early 2000s when he retired. He split his pension between himself and his ex-wife (my mother-in-law). When he passed we contacted his former employer as he had on file that he wanted to transfer his pension to my M-i-L, and they sent a questionnaire out for my M-i-L to complete, which was an almost financial assessment. Due to health/memory issues my M-i-L wouldn't complete this form and give out 'private' information. We've done nothing since, assuming that the pension was lost.
My query is, should this pension pot, as his former employer was a private company (international household pharmaceutical company), still be available and transferable to his next of kin (my wife and her brother) even if they won't transfer it directly to their mum?
If as I suspect it was a defined benefit pension, then the rules will set out who could benefit on the death of the member. If your MIL can fill in the forms now, and prove financial dependency (which is what the scheme was asking, since the rules of the scheme are likely to give the trustees power to award a pension at their discretion to a financial dependent), then that's worth pursuing. If she can't or won't give the information, the trustees' hands are tied.
Unless your wife and her brother depended on their father financially, then no, they wouldn't qualify for a pension - and might not qualify even if they could show some element of dependency. There is no 'pot' to transfer, assuming all benefits were indeed from a defined benefit scheme.philiusfogwakey said:
A further query, on a very similar vain - my mum passed away last year and she had a small private pension with the GRE - should any remaining monies in this pot have been transferred to my brother's and I?philiusfogwakey said:
It just feels odd/wrong that they paid into pensions for years, only for this money to essentially be lost/go to their further employers on their death (what a kick in the teeth that is if it's the case).
Just wondering if anyone can give any advice really, as we don't know where to start.
Many thanks.
Unfortunately much of the media reporting behaves as if everyone has a defined contribution scheme (where you build up a 'pot' of money) and fails to distinguish the crucial differences between DB and DC schemes, raising false hopes far too often.
Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!2 -
There are some logical assumptions that these are all DB schemes but only by checking with the scheme administrators can you know for sure.
Even your FiL may have had a DB scheme but with a DC element if he had paid extra into the scheme or if it had changed from DB to DC as many schemes started to do in the late 90s/early 2000s. The fact that the admins sent a form for your exMiL to fill out shows the possibility that she was entitled to something. That money wouldn't automatically disappear if she didn't respond. Lot of schemes have money waiting for someone to claim decades after they were eligible to claim it - mostly due to people forgetting that it's there.
You don't give any dates for your mom so that's possibly DC, again perhaps only in part. But some DB schemes also have a guaranteed payout so if mom hadn't been getting it for long there may still be something to pay to whomever she designated as beneficiary. It may be you and your sibling or it may be someone else. Ultimately if there is something then the scheme trustees will decide who to pay it to based on who she might have nominated and what might be outlined in any will she may have had.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe, Old Style Money Saving and Pensions boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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also need to remember if they had a DC pension but bought an annuity, would be unlikely for there to be anything due to children0
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If a DB Scheme and a spouse's pension automatically payable, the amount that your mother would have been entitled to over the ~2 years payable to her should still be an amount owed to the estate, at least, so as always it just about contacting them and asking.0
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There is an explanation in this link of the difference between Defined Benefit (DB)schemes and Defined Contribution ( DC) schemes.
Pension basics | Help with pension basics | MoneyHelper
DB schemes in the private sector were quite common in the past with larger companies, but quite rare nowadays as they are expensive for an employer to fund.
In general they are much better than DC schemes, but there is the drawback that if you die early, you lose some of the benefit, ( although if you live to a ripe old age you gain)
Just the same as with the state pension.
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Tommyjw said:If a DB Scheme and a spouse's pension automatically payable, the amount that your mother would have been entitled to over the ~2 years payable to her should still be an amount owed to the estate, at least, so as always it just about contacting them and asking.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0
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philiusfogwakey said:It just feels odd/wrong that they paid into pensions for years, only for this money to essentially be lost/go to their further employers on their death (what a kick in the teeth that is if it's the case).
The value of the schemes as an employment benefit was (and still is) largely not fully appreciated by the employees and it is that and the cost that has resulted in many companies abandoning the schemes in favour of DC pensions.0 -
philiusfogwakey said:It just feels odd/wrong that they paid into pensions for years, only for this money to essentially be lost/go to their further employers on their death (what a kick in the teeth that is if it's the case).In any event the notion of it being "their money" is to misunderstand the point of these schemes. There was never a "pot" that "belonged" to your father in law. He paid into the pension scheme, and in return the scheme promised to keep paying him once he'd retired - whether he lived to a hundred or whether he died the day after he retired. For most people this is a very valuable benefit as it gives them certainty and means that they never have to worry about running out of money during retirement - though I appreciate it might not feel like that if you are one of the unlucky ones who dies shortly after retirement.Many schemes do have provision to keep paying after you die to a spouse or to financially dependant children - but generaly not to grown up children or more distant relatives. The point of the schemes is really to provide benefits to retired employees, not to cascade money down the generations.It's definitely worth revisiting the question of whether your MIL is entitled to any benefits from the scheme, but this will require her, or someone authorised to act on her behalf (through power of attorney etc), to apply and to provide the information that the trustees require. If she can't or won't claim what she might be entitled to, the trustees won't just agree to pay it to someone else instead.0
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