Drowning in debt, don't know where to start

Hi everyone,
I hope you're all well and thank you to all who reply with their advice and experiences.
I have got myself tangled up in quite the spiral of debt between my limited company and personal debt.
I have a large amount of debt and Im becoming overwhelmed now with not really knowing where to begin, who to pay/not pay, should I default, what are my options, go full nuclear, leave the country.
It should be noted I have preexisting chronic and multiple mental health diagnoses including ADHD, OCD, recurrent depression and anxiety and history of substance abuse.
My income can vary greatly between months from 0 if no work to upto 20,000-25,000 gross before corp tax and divided tax tax, if lots of work so it can be very difficult to make an accurate budget.
I am getting lost in all my debts. I believe I have now settled all my priority debts according to business debt line eg income tax and council tax, utilities, mortgage payments upto date. Leaving me with multiple non-priority debts - credit cards and business loans with myself as personal guarantor and I don't really know how I should go about making a plan or fixing the problem.
I have included below my current SOA below, if anyone is able to make sense of this complex situation and advise on my options it would be greatly appreciated.

Many [font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

Household Information[/b]
Number of adults in household........... 1
Number of children in household......... 0
Number of cars owned.................... 2[b]

Monthly Income Details[/b]
Monthly income after tax................ 10000
Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
Benefits................................ 0
Other income............................ 0[b]
Total monthly income.................... 10000[/b][b]

Monthly Expense Details[/b]
Mortgage................................ 2801
Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 3244
Rent.................................... 0
Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
Council tax............................. 191
Electricity............................. 315.41
Gas..................................... 104
Oil..................................... 0
Water rates............................. 30
Telephone (land line)................... 0
Mobile phone............................ 104
TV Licence.............................. 13.37
Satellite/Cable TV...................... 179.98
Internet Services....................... 0
Groceries etc. ......................... 200
Clothing................................ 1000
Petrol/diesel........................... 0
Road tax................................ 16.68
Car Insurance........................... 380
Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
Car parking............................. 0
Other travel............................ 0
Childcare/nursery....................... 0
Other child related expenses............ 0
Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 130
Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
Buildings insurance..................... 200
Contents insurance...................... 0
Life assurance ......................... 0
Other insurance......................... 0
Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 1000
Haircuts................................ 100
Entertainment........................... 0
Holiday................................. 2000
Emergency fund.......................... 0
(Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0[b]
Total monthly expenses.................. 12009.44[/b]
[b]

Assets[/b]
Cash.................................... 31091.6
House value (Gross)..................... 950000
Shares and bonds........................ 95363.7
Car(s).................................. 0
Other assets............................ 182686[b]
Total Assets............................ 1259141.3[/b]
[b]

Secured & HP Debts[/b]
Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
Mortgage...................... 546779...(2801).....4.69
Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 46687.6..(844)......8.91<
Business PCP PG Car............0........(2400).....0[b]
Total secured & HP debts...... 593466.6..-.........-   [/b]

[b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
Bonvoy Amex....................18361.4...400.......35.2
MBNA...........................14268.2...222.9.....34.54
Halifax........................7695......154.......25
Zopa personal loan.............12000.....309.6.....9.05
COMPANY PG IW..................9992.2....724.7.....0
COMPANY PG WO..................22000.....2564......0
company PG FC..................57952.7...1308......16.8
company. PG FC.................67417.....1687......12.26
M&S............................6224.41...156.......20.9
Fluid..........................4628.56...203.4.....32.5
HSBC...........................10756.5...300.......24.9[b]
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  • Keep_pedalling
    Keep_pedalling Posts: 20,326 Forumite
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    Are you really spending £12,000 a year on clothing and the same on gifts plus £24k on holidays?  Seems very high for someone with no partner or children and you could rapidly clear your personal debt by cutting most of that out for a short period of time.
  • Does your SOA include business as well as personal debt?

    If so you need to separate it out
    If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.
  • stu12345_2
    stu12345_2 Posts: 1,576 Forumite
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    edited 1 August 2024 at 12:00PM
    What's the monthly  £3244 secured loan and your holiday , clothes, gifts are way way too high.
     and so is your satellite  TV, gas and electricity 

    easy cutting back will solve an awful lot here
    Christians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )

    https://capuk.org/contact-us
  • Are you really spending £12,000 a year on clothing and the same on gifts plus £24k on holidays?  Seems very high for someone with no partner or children and you could rapidly clear your personal debt by cutting most of that out for a short period of time.
    Over the last 12 months yes I have spent impulsively and beyond my means leading to the credit card debt build up. I have stopped both of those spends now for at least the last 12 months and I am selling clothes to make some extra money.
  • stu12345_2
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    edited 1 August 2024 at 12:07PM
    how can you sell a holiday 
    and if you have stopped these holidays gifts clothes spending, why are you still listing them


    that money spent on them is now in the credit card debt monthly repayments which you correctly list.

    but you are no  longer  still spending on these outrageous  amounts if you have stopped , hence don't list them as monthly amounts 

    Christians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )

    https://capuk.org/contact-us
  • What's the monthly  £3244 secured loan and your holiday , clothes, gifts are way way too high.
     and so is your satellite  TV, gas and electricity 

    easy cutting back will solve an awful lot here
    2400 is a business PCP for a company car. This was purchased so as to reduce corporation tax liability which it did by about 30k. If I gave it back I would end up with a corporation tax liability due to the hmrc. (100% first year allowance on fully electric cars)
    844 is hire purchase car in my personal name - my intention was to sell this car and had been trying to do so last 12 months but it has become unsellable over the last 12 months. I have a right to terminate the agreement and give the car back but the contract states I need to of paid half of the total amount of the agreement...which I am 3k short of. So if I give that car back I assume the company will then send me a bill for at least 3k I owe them plus there are some minor damages to car - scuffs to alloys and missing second key I expect they will add to the charge too. And then this would get added to the non priority debt pile
  • stu12345_2
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    edited 1 August 2024 at 12:23PM
    redo your SAO with the clothes, gifts, holidays removed as you said you have stopped spending these per month

    if the car is worth peanuts, let the car finance company take the hit, they did their future value wrong, their problem. EVs are worth peanuts second  hand and hand it back once you have paid the 3k
    I'm sure you will find £3 k by not paying a creditor or two for a month 

    make sure you don't just say please collect car, cos they will sell it and hound you for the difference they got at auction and the full total remaining. some have been caught out that way.
    tell them you are exercising your right for voluntary termination under the cc act rules of 50% of grand total been paid 

    get it in writing no more money is then owed before you do

    I did it twice I got the repairs done before I returned it cos, they don't actually sent it to a garage to repair it, they work out how much less it is worth at an auction cos that's where it will go to ultimately
    second immobilser key is £50 to £125 at keysmiths

    alloy wheel repair £100
    Christians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )

    https://capuk.org/contact-us
  • Does your SOA include business as well as personal debt?

    If so you need to separate it out
    Yes.
    I have a limited company which I am the sole director and any work I do comes directly into the limited company and I then pay myself mainly via dividends.
    The debts I have listed with PG next to them are business loans with myself as personal guarantor on the loans.
  • redi your SAO with the clothes, gifts, holidays removed as you said you have stopped spending these per month
    ok will do. 
  • Redone SOA without holidays, clothes, [font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household......... 0
    Number of cars owned.................... 2[b]

    Monthly Income Details[/b]
    Monthly income after tax................ 10000
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0[b]
    Total monthly income.................... 10000[/b][b]

    Monthly Expense Details[/b]
    Mortgage................................ 2801
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 3244
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 191
    Electricity............................. 315.41
    Gas..................................... 104
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 30
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 104
    TV Licence.............................. 13.37
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 179.98
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 200
    Clothing................................ 1000
    Petrol/diesel........................... 0
    Road tax................................ 16.68
    Car Insurance........................... 380
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 130
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 200
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    (Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0[b]
    Total monthly expenses.................. 8909.44[/b]
    [b]

    Assets[/b]
    Cash.................................... 31091.6
    House value (Gross)..................... 950000
    Shares and bonds........................ 95363.7
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 182686[b]
    Total Assets............................ 1259141.3[/b]
    [b]

    Secured & HP Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 546779...(2801).....4.69
    Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 46687.6..(844)......8.91<
    Business PCP PG Car............0........(2400).....0[b]
    Total secured & HP debts...... 593466.6..-.........-   [/b]

    [b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Bonvoy Amex....................18361.4...400.......35.2
    MBNA...........................14268.2...222.9.....34.54
    Halifax........................7695......154.......25
    Zopa personal loan.............12000.....309.6.....9.05
    COMPANY PG IW..................9992.2....724.7.....0
    COMPANY PG WO..................22000.....2564......0
    company PG FC..................57952.7...1308......16.8
    company. PG FC.................67417.....1687......12.26
    M&S............................6224.41...156.......20.9
    Fluid..........................4628.56...203.4.....32.5
    HSBC...........................10756.5...300.......24.9[b]
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